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@ajasatya Soo...what your saying is that you would change the data into the way you wanted to in order to say what you wanted to say and so that was an ethical issue how exactly, I'm confused? are you saying that if you couldn't change data into your own words, then that wouldn't be an issue? am I making sense?

@ajasatya Aw, very thoughtful and intelligent way of thinking definitely, ill use that time to clean all petty feelings to the point they become as small as an ant! Many thanks!

Good afternoon, currently i am on an Access to HE course studying social sciences. I have completed my UCAS with my PHD tutor and told her that since I want to pay the tuition fees on my own, I will take a gap year to save up and forget about applying, however, she insisted and pushed me to still fill it and save the courses I've applied for the year 2020. And im so glad I did because i'd regret it! she said that way, i'll have peace of mind knowing that mine is already filled. Shes definitely right. in conclusion, I know that I want to get my degree before or by 30 max because degrees take 3 to 4 years with masters in which I also want to. As I have decided to save up for my tuitions fees, does it mean that I am wasting my time? Many thanks!

@IVONNE@ajasatya No I have no plans on getting rid of these bugging feelings.....any help would help

@solr if I was you I would clearly mention that they are really interested. like, this is the reason they're even in your chanell. that speaks a lot! they could of watched other things or do other things and so its sad to know that they have not done anything better. hard pill to swallow my dear but its the hard truth. Take it easy, much love to you xx I watch a lot of Youtube videos myself. let me know your channel. I could help in liking and commenting Take good care love x

@ajasatya I know, and your right on that, but when there are guests around home that asks me what im upto and do and imagine me saying that I took a gap year although I really wanted to start my degree because most students would apply for finances and don't wait for anything,, they would be thinking "what was I doing all this time" I realised that no matter how far I've come, they don't see it and plus no one really cares, so why they even asking?. its time for me to not worry about anyone. I am enough alone. plus I came this far without them with my family.

@ajasatya waste as in, I am going to have work hard and perhaps keep myself busy by having hobbies on the side to keep me going.

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Good evening folks, its been a while since I've been in this forum due to having a lot workload, anyway, so glad to be back Considering that I am currently on my Access to HE (social sciences) course studying sociology which is my absolute favourite subject already and psychology, is it too old to go on and start doing a joint degree in Law and sociology at university. I have just turned 25 in October. I so want to invest 3 years in my degree programme, however people nowadays graduate at 22 or 23 max just like my sisters and I am starting at 25/26 which means I'll be 29 by the time I graduate and feel that I am too old for some reasons. I have had a busy few years working and exploring in professional fields observing what people were like and what did work look like most of all, saving up to purchase a car after getting my license and came to a wise decision in the programme I want to study at university. I will be doing a joint degree in Law and Sociology. And one thing for sure is that I don't want to be working at a place that is not worth my time and whatever their pay rate is anymore. I feel like those that have graduated will be starting a family or working whilst I'll be in my programme but then again I simply don't see the difference and I have no idea why I am feeling this way. Maybe its a FOMO fear. Any help would be really much appreciated, be kind ) Ivonne x

@Anna1 Its nice to know that everyone is at a different pace and there is absolutely no difference. Thanks for sharing

@Michael569 It really is what I am want to do and willing to do. Thanks again!

@aurum Thank you so much that really means a lot x

Thanks it really helped

I am trying my best to write essays but whenever I type it into my own words, it somehow comes out as their and its their ideas. This is how and why you understood the content in the first. My question is what is a good way to write and explain something into your own words without copying word for word. The hardest is no matter how much understand, its still hard to put it on your own terms (words). Can you leave any examples on how you would write something from somewhere online? And could you please send me a link on a free plagiarism-checker so it saves me a lot of time because I really need this !! Thanks xx

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what I learned from my sociology classes is that not all parents are well skilled to teach or guide their children well. So I seen this as a human point of view but then again I've learned that If my parents did something I am not happy about, then I wish I am well skilled in order to guide my future kids. I know it sucks and I feel you, but don't let it get caught from your own path, so sister put your seatbelt and hold the wheels and slightly move he ship to the other direction. A lesson learned!

Simply sit and do absolutely nothing and let flow but the only is that it may take hours to get into the state and its if your willing to take it and be patient

hello guys, i have been working for two years now and i have gained a lot of experience and training and certificate. i also developed and grown and widen my eyes due to the experience and the people i have met and the behaviors in some people you have to deal with in the real world that classes don't really tell us about.i gained my driving license. i attained the gym and have build confidence. i would say I am grateful that i have a clear view of what i exactly want now. i believe when your younger, your carried away because everyone talked to you in every corner and i feel bad for some young people who are not able to make their own decisions. / I want to carry on finishing my access course so that will get into university. it will take two years. im now 23. nearly 24 in October. I want to do a psychology degree. i also want to carry on working but part time. i want to travel every summer holidays and not miss anything. i am into developing and reading books and gaining knowledge. some in my age range are either graduating or working or getting into the work field. However, for my age, do you guys think im in the right track or missing time? any advice that would be helpful would be much much appreciated. thanks a lot guys !

Hello. I hope your all doing well I sometimes wonder... As they say 'find your talent' what do people exactly mean by that exactly. in what terms. I see talents as something you do it naturally and it could be at anything. Be it professionally or socially , collectively can anyone give me their views in what a talent looks like or what a talent is. Iam curious thanks

I have noticed some things happening recently whilst i was conscious of my surrounding and awareness. At work for example, a man approached me and shouted my name across the room and i never experienced someone reacting in this way but i was also not scared, rather, surprised. His a team leader. And believe me im very friendly with every team leader and coworkers and he have been watching me a lot although i was never in his team before. I didn't know the reason for this. it was weird and usual, however, the fact that he needed me as there was nobody covering someone that left his team, i was told from my own team leader to go and help him out just for a day. And so i did. When i went in his team, he reacted towards me, i remained calm and i knew that i had absolutely nothing with this. I didn't even felt anything but i think that he wanted to show me something or scare me or maybe make me feel like a victim. when he said that i was slow and the length i used to work in the area and yet not as fast, he tried to make me feel as if i was doing nothing. i had thoughts in my head that she had problems and so on. but then he would come a humiliate how i dont know how to do something fast and that id the other members complain about me then ill be sent home. knowing this made me assertive and talk to him back saying that i dont work with his team and have nothing to do with him and he said that he will call the coordinator and send me home.i looked at him and remained firm on my ground and steadfast. at the end, he simply exchange me with someone faster (who has dong something easy) and i did their thing instaid. my point is, if iam a guest for a day to help out or cover someone, i should be given something manageable. My point is how do deal with unexpected situations like this in life in general? I think its comes with vulnerability. there are many situations like that in my family also, for example if i wake up and make breakfast and go shopping or print some things out and head for and event or work etc, there is always someone in your way that that prevents you from going further and they make you feel selfish or a victim. Are you guys familiar with this? Any advice and tips would be much appreciated guys

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Thank you.

i like your point of view on this. thanks, much appreciated ajasatya<3

awww, this really widened my eyes.Thank you for stating this. I really cant thank enough! I will try my best to carry on working hard. And Everytime i feel tired or bored and lazy, ill remember what you've said <3