Spiritual Warfare

Exactly, I was talking about physical survival, which is why I said it’s difficult to survive when we compare ourselves to the rest of the world. But you’re right about living in the West. I can’t argue with that.

Yes, you’re right actually. I shouldn’t complain so much😂 But overall, it is difficult to survive.

That was a good post you made. I just hate that we are so vulnerable and can easily die.

It sucks to have a “self” when you see a bear in the woods, it’s game over. All your plans and everything you were looking forward to disappears.

Thank you for this comment. You made some good arguments. You are right about the adult film industry, but keep in mind that there are many people in the industry who are not doing well behind the scenes. The entertainment industry has different norms and expectations regarding relationships compared to everyday life. Nothing is genuine, social media is real because it exists outside the porn star’s job.

Listen very carefully, I don’t hate you or any women. I’m glad that you have a healthy relationship and not a bad one. What I said was just that I don’t think it’s okay in a relationship for either a guy or a girl to post sexy pictures daily for other people’s attention. It should be enough that they have each other, and that should be sufficient love and validation. And yes, I focused a lot on women doing this, but the fact is that women make up the majority in this case, and that’s why I was mainly referring to girls in my post. However, I really do not hate women. I may have a lot of rules for certain things that can lead some women, like you, for example, to see me as controlling or hating women. But believe it or not, for some other women, this isn’t seen as controlling at all! Many actually see it as a good rule because it proves that they can respect each other’s feelings. And I made a post about religion, as you know, where I said it should be done away with because of its poor treatment of women and desire to kill homosexuals and things like that. Yet, I still got a lot of hate for it too. It’s unbelievable.

@Buck Edwards Good that you’re leaving since all you wanted to do was accuse me of hating women instead of discussing the real issue. And ironically, you didn’t seem very upset about my previous comment on “women should know their place,” but now suddenly you are, interesting.

Stick to the topic. It’s interesting that you avoid having a real conversation and accuse me of making personal attacks, when that’s exactly what you’re doing. How is it my problem that I don’t respect certain actions women take? In a relationship, there must be boundaries, and you know this very well. By your logic, I shouldn’t care if my girlfriend sleeps around with other guys, that’s called cheating. You don’t have to respect everything a man or woman does.

The previous post was more of a joke, but biologically speaking, it’s true that traditionally women have been associated with cooking and men with working. Once again, you claim that I don’t understand how women think, but you fail to provide any arguments to back that up. Stop embarrassing yourself and give some real arguments that support your claims.

@Buck Edwards And stop saying that I don’t understand women, I understand them very well. Just because women are different from men in many ways doesn’t mean they can behave however they want. I know they love beauty, anyone can understand that. You don’t have to be an expert to get it! Everything you’re saying about women is obvious to anyone, but when you’re in a relationship, there need to be boundaries, and there shouldn’t be any excuses for why a woman has to do this. A woman doesn’t have to do anything, just like a man doesn’t. You’re upset because you recognize yourself in this situation, doing the same thing while you’re in a relationship. Get it together and stop playing the victim.

Once again, you’re not answering my question. You say, “what if the woman is happy but does it anyway?” Do you see how the logic breaks down there? If you’re truly happy, you wouldn’t seek attention from others. I never said I don’t care about women’s feelings. I want structure, and there’s nothing wrong with that. So stop making things up to make me look bad. It’s obvious that you don’t really know what you’re talking about. Everything you’re saying comes from your own experiences, and you’re trying to take your anger out on me. Get a grip. I respect women, but I want a loyal woman. You’re encouraging insecurity because that’s what you’ve been taught. Learn to see things from other people’s perspectives, or stay quiet. Unfortunately, you’re just writing nonsense.

Yes

It’s difficult, but not impossible.

@Princess Arabia You only prove my points more when you get so upset. Answer why a woman should seek attention from others when her partner has already given her love and attention. You haven’t addressed that. You’ve just been evasive.

I have provided good reasons for why I am right, while you have been emotional and haven’t said anything to support your perspective. If you’re going to continue being frivolous, I ask that you stop writing to me. And no, everything I say comes from my own experiences.

Why are you being so aggressive? All I’m saying is that there should be boundaries and trust in a relationship. Am I the villain for expressing that? I want healthy relationships for people because I have empathy and I’m not selfish. You are coming across as very selfish in the way you write. There is nothing wrong with caring about others.

Read all my comments, and you will get your answer. I’m not going to rewrite everything just for you to dismiss it later.

I’m pretty sure I said one should talk to their partner before breaking up. Secondly, I have provided you with plenty of good arguments for why it’s not normal for a girl to behave this way in a healthy relationship. Answer the question of why the girl’s love for her boyfriend isn’t enough. What is rooted in insecurity is why the girl chooses to engage in these foolish actions, and you still haven’t answered that question. Instead, you just say that I and many men are insecure without any valid reasons. We have plenty of good reasons for why we become insecure.

I know she will see it as control, but that’s not my problem, there need to be boundaries. If she gets upset and feels it’s too controlling, then it might be time to find a new partner. If your boyfriend suddenly started calling other girls every day, wouldn’t you want to know what that was about? Or do you think that would be controlling too? It’s not controlling to question things. Personally, I believe that what is controlling is constantly wondering where your partner is.

It’s not about control, it’s about trust.

This is for those of you in a relationship with a girl who seeks attention from other guys. Talk to your girlfriend and express that you don’t like her posting almost nude photos on Instagram or elsewhere. She should be asked to stop because you, as her boyfriend, should be enough for her. If she continues to seek attention from male friends and shares revealing photos, it raises trust issues. If she were truly loyal, she wouldn’t share those photos with other guys. If she doesn’t care about your feelings and insists on posting semi-nude photos, it may be time to consider breaking up. You deserve a partner who truly loves, respects, and is loyal to you.

Yes, and I don’t support that if they are in a relationship, but the majority are girls.

In my opinion, the only logical explanation for why girls post these kinds of photos is insecurity. If you have a boyfriend who tells you that you are enough just as you are, that should be sufficient. However, if a girl takes a lot of selfies while in a relationship, it indicates insecurity. If she is single, then she is doing it for attention.

Posting sexy pictures can attract attention from others, which may not always be welcomed by the partner. The act of seeking validation through social media can complicate how partners perceive their value in the relationship. Even if one partner is okay with it, the attention and comments from strangers can introduce insecurity or jealousy, regardless of intentions. Moreover, just because one partner is comfortable with a behavior doesn’t mean the other will feel the same way. Many people have different thresholds for what they consider acceptable in a relationship. Some might view posting sexy pictures as a form of emotional unavailability or detachment, even if there’s no overt intention to cheat.

Thank you for this comment, and you’re right that I’ve made a lot of assumptions. I was being somewhat ironic when I first mentioned telling the boyfriend, but the main point I raised is this: why do people do this when they already have a partner? I’m not sure if you’ve read my responses, as there are many comments on this thread, but what do you personally think about this? If you love someone, then their opinion should be enough, no one else’s. I struggle with the fact that some still seek validation from others, even when their partner has been supportive and given compliments. I understand why someone might post about their body online if their partner has a negative influence on them, but that’s not the case in the situation I’m referring to.