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@aurum I don't agree with you. Everything is here now. Reaching turquoise by 22 is entirely possible if it's your priority. I'm not claiming the work gets done at 22, not at all. Stage Turquoise is just a starting point. Many more levels to unlock, and much energy is needed to integrate stuff. The work just begun. Careful not to create self imposed limitations, based on imaginary maps like Spiral Dynamics. P. S - I've been extremely lucky too. Not gonna deny that. Its hard to explain. I can't express how grateful I am. Plus, there's a huge price to pay no matter how lucky you are and no shortcuts. To me it absolutely doesn't matter whether you reach it at 20 or 90. That's why I chose 20.

BTW, ever stopped to question the structure of Spiral Dynamics? Don't you think it's extremely biased and reeks of stage Orange influence? It's not a co-incidence. Spiral Dynamics is made to account for Systems in the society, not individuals. We risk so much inaccuracy trying to set SD as the only developmental path for "individuals" in the society. Plus, it's born in a stage Orange society. I bet if a stage Green-Yellow society created this, and let's assume, Orange never existed to begin with, SD would have different biases, and even more nuanced self perpetuating levels. And SD as it stands, have accounted the patterns it have noticed in human society, with our very peculiar set of environment variables; we are on earth, we are evolved monkeys, not crocodiles or bats, and so many things. They haven't even accounted for the aliens. My point being, don't take this construct seriously. SD is just one paradigm, don't get locked into it. We're animals. We'd do anything to survive. It's interesting how self deception have become a vital part of this process.

It's a lot more complicated than that. 22 is just fine to be yellow, or turquoise. Imagine what humans will be like from a 10,000 years from now. Don't limit yourself.

Did you spend your time navigating stage Purple?

source: https://metamoderna.org/why-are-so-many-metamodernists-so-miserable-and-what-can-we-do-about-it/ @Rafael Thundercat So, I get the feeling that most of the resistance I'm facing is more of a cultural clash. And that combined with my own resentment towards the corruptions and compromises which happens within the same demographics. Just notice what you feel when hearing "Microsoft" or "Apple" or simply "Tech Companies". I see compromised innovations, lost potential, or perverted values. I kinda sympathize with them too, because they are sadly in a stage Orange Society. Remember this is me looking at these through the lens of "GNU/Linux" and Open Source values. Infact these days even the Linux ecosystem is getting corrupted by govt funding, banning Russians and other shenanigans.

There's good breadth to it. Thanks for the share.

Just don't believe what Leo or anyone says about Solipsism and you're halfway there.

I'm not gonna deny it. There's a mechanism to it. That's what I described as the Butterfly effect. These things won't affect anyone so long as they don't have their mind compromised with beliefs, fears and in energy. You talking about bm this way tells me you got work to do. And best thing would be talking to your granny

I wouldn't be so sure to call it evolution. We are already evolved to unlock it if it's our priority.

You're asking someone "Why do you breathe?", what answer can they give.

I felt like you became more mellow, calmer, and boring. It's not a bad thing though.

It's like butterfly effect, you guys' belief make it mostly true. What the witch granny does is irrelevant.

it's very basic, especially if you wanna learn Blender. Tutorials are best for basics

@gambler You shouldn't force the brain for an output, when there's not enough input. Me personally do not think about contemplating things at all, just let it happen when needed. Nor do I try to memorize anything. That's the wrong way to learn stuff. Default state should be that of "not knowing" , it's like a receptive womb. What does a stupid care about getting things wrong? (get the irony here?) My suggestion is to learn various systems, and how they work. Let's take spiral dynamics, learn the same thing from different sources, watch the videos twice or thrice. Increase your energy and attention when learning. You get the picture, leverage every resource to it's max. Output is a natural consequence. Goal is to uncover the truth in layers; everytime you improve your perception and your skill to break down complex non linear systems, you unlock a deeper layer of truth and understanding.

Why are these guys perverting our dude Jesus. He was a simple man🤷

@Majed So long as you have a flexible mind, you can learn anything. That's not the issue here. Like Leo said, your best options are those you don't know yet. You don't plan to change careers, it happens. We can't "plan" our passions just based on hunches and affinities. We know it when we do it. There's many other factors at play. If you're below 25(you must be 17?), focus on getting the most out of something you "think" you're passionate about. Dating happens naturally. Or are you implying you can't date while pursuing PhD in philosophy? If money is your goal, and passion is a second priority you can do anything. Maslow's needs are barebones, it does not apply strongly if you're pursuing something radical. My point is, those things happen, naturally, if we're true to ourselves. Anyhow, I encourage you do what you think is right. We're often blind to serious wisdom from others when we haven't put in the work ourselves. That's the nature of wisdom.

Go easy on yourself. If you can acknowledge you got a problem, you can make the decision to not keep a romantic partner, for the time being. About anti depressants, they try to induce the same chemicals which comes from a good relationship, and things to improve mood and sleep. They do numb you because it's literally forcing the brain to shut down. You have to make the call. Just a suggestion, work on your passion. Make a long term plan and commit to keep doing what you enjoy and value. If it's difficult for you, that's fine too. One need to be able to let go of everything if they wanna live in peace.

brother, your life is more important than your dating life.

Absolute Numbers? It's not good, we could convert into slavery percentage. Still USA will have upto .15%(500K), India have around .70%(with absolute numbers of 10M) But let's not dodge the bullet. Slavery is a real thing. Caste systems were signs of underdeveloped population. India and surrounding countires are very complacent. Conquering others/hustling is not one of those values of the major population. This have made them vulnerable to manipulation from within and outside. The values differ very much compared to the West. One of the lost values on hospitality is "Adhiti Dhevo Bhava": "Treat your guests like Gods". The reason most gurus are from India is not an accident. The land is very abundant. Those outside India have no clue about this, and I'm glad it is so. Hinduism as we know today is a diluted version of it. Hinduism is based around the land of Hindusthaan, not deities. Deities were an after effect of Tantra. Caste systems are false additions. But people are stupid enough to accept it. Caste systems were perversions at best. Plus, the path the true Hinduism was taking was not sustainable with what was going on outside and within India. It's similar to how Sapiens killed the Neanderthals: "If you're not like us, you shouldn't exist; let's even things out".

Why are you studying something you don't like. CS is impossible without passion. Also, why do you expect a degree to give you a job. It won't work like that. Going forward you have to be exceptional at what you do, especially high stake jobs like programming. Plus a degree is useless if you wanna learn programming. Just pick a project and start doing it.

me get money, me heppi😂, aye?

Here's a new story for you. Crypto is dog shit. But, if enough people believe in dog shit, even that can be sold for a high price. You bought some dog shit for $1,000 , ten years later, you sell your dog shit for $1,000,000. You've basically stolen $999,000 from whoever bought into your dog shit. The cycle continues until it's not sustainable anymore.

city isn't a normal place to be. don't normalize it. If you have the means, get out of cities, live in nature. The kind of damage cities do to you long term isn't worth it. You get desentized to so many things, your health can take a massive hit.

Lower Perspectives: Fear of Death, Survival as in Reproduce, Fear of Extinction Root Causes: how the chemicals in the body react, group think, lack of introspection

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