Whitney Edwards

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  1. But she will see it as control. You clearly don't understand women's mindset.
  2. Maybe she will be the one to break up first because of his insecurity. Because no girl appreciates her boyfriend controlling her. So good riddance for her. Bullet dodged. She can find better secure men.
  3. But guys post half nude Pics of themselves too showing their abs and much more.
  4. Do you agree that this could be your assumption and this might not always be the case. Maybe it happens sometimes and it could be true that it could indicate emotional unavailability, however do you agree that this might not always be the case in every situation. Don't look at it as a universal thing. It depends on a specific case. Every relationship is likewise, it's like to each his own. Much can be speculation and assumption and might not apply to it.
  5. How do you know she is seeking validation. Maybe she is not. My ex boyfriend used to tell me to dress sexy in public. He used to like that. Maybe her boyfriend likes it. How do you know the nature of their relationship? Why do you assume her boyfriend must be unhappy? Maybe her boyfriend enjoys her posting sexy pics. Some guys like their girlfriends being sexy in public. And anyways it's her personal life and personal right what she does with her body. Posting sexy pics is not considered cheating by any means. If my husband posted his sexy photos online and other girls liked it, it won't bother me at all, I won't feel insecure about it. Relationships are about boundaries, if the boyfriend is ok then it's fine. If the boyfriend doesn't like it, then maybe she should have to reconsider it. But in any case, if I said that my husband shouldn't talk to other women or that he shouldn't post his body pics online, then it hints to my own jealousy, possessiveness and insecurities. It's not his fault. It's a different thing if someone is actively cheating on their partner, like excessive flirting or cheating by sleeping with someone, then boundaries need to be drawn and discussions need to be had. But my husband looking at other women or talking to other women is not equivalent to cheating. If the relationship is secure and strong, no partner needs to worry. Also cheating is bad, irrespective of gender. So if the girl is cheating on her boyfriend by sleeping with other guys, that's really bad and she can be held accountable for that. But posting pictures or talking to other men is not cheating. Same applies to men with girlfriends.
  6. Sustainable homes by Elon Musk. It's called Boxabl Casita.
  7. Just because someone appears to be superficial doesn't mean they are really that way. And just because someone appears to be spiritually deep, doesn't mean they are spiritual, they could turn out shallow later. I met a 1000 guys in the past. Both superficial and deep. All kinds. The most superficial ones were the ones that boasted themselves as spiritual. One guy told me "I'm not like other guys. I don't think with my dick." Then his very first full conversation with me was all about sex and seducing me. It's like that. I was surprised by his irony. He said something "I'm not the dick first, questions later guy." Lmao. Then I thought a guy was into me just for sex. And his first conversations were all about that. But surprisingly as time went on, his conversations were deeper and about different things both intellectual and spiritual and he was not too interested to talk about sex. I thought that I jumped the gun and judged him wrongly. People might give out superficial vibes but they can be different inside. People can give this whole deep character vibe and turn out completely vapid and shallow in the end. We tend to judge people narrowly. It's only when we talk to them for long periods of time that we slowly see them for who they really are. A girl could be shaking her ass and tits while walking down the street and you might think she is being cheap and shallow but that girl might have a golden heart and a deep need to connect spiritually with a man. You never know. So don't just keep your heart open. Also keep your eyes open. Our eyes deceive us through our own biases and perceptions. Reality is far more intimate and intricate than what meets the eye. Some guys are into spirituality just for the ego. They feel they are great.
  8. ^This. You go girl. I often see certain kinds of men targeting women's sexuality on a regular basis. Apparently they don't have a problem if a married man watches porn lol. But if a woman expresses her sexuality openly, suddenly these kind of men see a problem with it. I'm like - leave a woman's sexuality alone and women can live in peace.
  9. Psychedelic didgeridoo.
  10. The universe guidance. https://youtu.be/BqRYvkiKQL0?si=FT6Zn4uF9BBjvrEd The great Alchemist. https://youtu.be/i-3yNyLcfKw?si=kWXBeqd663Rrhs8l Zach Michael. https://youtu.be/jBgfcNVLCBA?si=DxZkE7H0UrQdzg9Y Ethereal Energy https://youtu.be/VfIwsVPCiII?si=qR1mZE10UasP4E09 Mystic flow reality. https://youtu.be/7u6JNjbruO0?si=1XCC20QQGG1nHjC5 The 5th kind. https://youtu.be/lAOaHNxyb8o?si=YUCQ4CyPukJY-lW_ Chosen way https://youtu.be/Ep20tALaaI4?si=YeCgMPWvHQzGdShT
  11. If you wanted a deeply spiritual partner, what kind of qualities would you be looking for in them?
  12. Put some people in your ignore list instead of complaining incessantly about them and you are good to go. If you don't know about the ignore button, it's a good option. Click on the top right side menu bar, three bars, and then click Account - > scroll down - > Ignored users - > add the unbearable user to your list. Done. Then you won't find it so boring. I have added some to my list. It helps.
  13. Your shame tactic is not gonna work. Let's see how you use it on women. Women, whether it's me or some other women, we will always stand up for ourselves as the opportunity serves us. And your bunch of ideas will never fly. Because the root of the matter is you have zero respect for women, and of course they sense it and walk away from you. Name us, shame us in the name of your goddamn accountability, we aren't changing how we feel about your creepy approaches. Your disrespect of women is not our problem. Also you are not the only man in the world. There are men out there who know how to respect women so we can bond with them. We don't need disrespectful men or their accountability. Meanwhile you can count your luck. We can sense men who truly respect us and treat us kindly and a woman will only respond to that and that's her free will and you can't take her free will from her. Keep shaming me, I don't care. We are women, we are proud, we walk our way and we don't need the validation of disrespectful men like you.
  14. Before holding others accountable hold yourself accountable. That will do you some good. The end.
  15. Thats the problem. You think this is respectful treatment when it's not. You're indirectly shaming me and you call it respect. And you think you are educating people. You just called me a weak woman. You also shamed me for standing up for other women. And you call this respectful. So in your mind shaming women is respectful I guess. So if you shame women, don't expect respect from them. So if a woman calls a creep a creep, then she hates men. Good reasoning.
  16. Well it's no wonder you got called a creep.
  17. The guy who can't respect women is talking about self respect. Just because I felt weak doesn't mean I don't have self respect. Have you heard of victim shaming? You seem to love victim shaming and also a license to creep on women.
  18. The question is. Why not? Any woman can speak for women. We are all women. Who are you to tell me that I shouldn't speak for other women. There are many women who are victims of abusers the way I have been a victim. You don't have the right to shame me. I don't have to be some gangster or karate master to speak for all women.. I can do whatever I want. It's entitlement my as a woman. Who are you to question my authority over my own womanhood? I am not lecturing you on your manhood. I didn't say anything about your manhood. And if a woman called you a creep, why are you approaching her? Who gives you the right to approach and harass a woman? You have your rights as a man but don't go overboard. If you infringe on a woman's freedom of expression, then she will obviously call you a creep. You're expecting respect out of women when you yourself are being totally disrespectful to them. If you cross her boundaries, she will call you a creep. You can approach women if you want, but stay within your limits. And if you don't, then being called a creep is completely justifiable. And yes I can speak for all women. You are a man. You have no right to decide my autonomy or freedom of my expression. You can sit and bark on a park bench. But if you bark at a woman, she will bark at you. It's you who doesn't understand the difference between rights of men and women. Nobody took your rights from you, so stop playing the victim card. If you infringe on others rights or their freedom to express their feelings, which you don't have the right to do, they will attack your feelings in return and that's completely justified and a fair game. It's you who should get a grip.
  19. With your mindset, you're obviously never going to land a woman, why fight so hard. And you as a man should have no right or place to talk about woman's rights lol. Why you should have an authority on women. Who cares about your views on women. Your talk is so regressive. As though you own women. Who cares. Women have come far in how they have progressed and you can't lecture them on women's rights. Your opinions belong to the caveman age. Frankly you're being sexist trying to own women's expression.
  20. That's a safety issue. It's something the law should deal with. You can't expect me to do karate with an abuser or rapist. Even a guy will find it tough to physically fight a strong man, how can you expect a woman to do that. Calling the cops looks easy to you, it's not easy in real life. But you're completely out of touch with reality itself, so who's gonna teach you. You can sit with your childish fantasies. Nobody said that the abuser's ideas will fly, it's just that society doesn't have enough ways to deal with it. It's not easy to punish someone who intends to harm people, so this is not an individual issue. Just because a guy cannot fight another guy doesn't make him weak. Then why call me weak. Anybody can be physically strong, this is not a big deal. And to be afraid for one's life is a genuine fear, so why are you mocking that. It's easy for a girl to call a guy creep to make him back off, it's a fear tactic especially if he is acting like a creep. If someone called you a creep and you didn't do anything wrong to them, then they are just being awkward and wrong, why do you take it personally when they are being foolish. But if many people are calling you a creep, then maybe genuinely consider why they're doing it, it could be your fault in that case that you are probably doing something that is making people uncomfortable. And when someone feels uncomfortable and they call you a creep, well that's their way of signaling you that you are making them uncomfortable. Try this. You approach a guy the way you approach a woman. Maybe even he might be creeped out. So who is at fault here. If majority of people are feeling creeped out, you might have to take responsibility that you are doing something that they are not liking, and this is your own responsibility and choice. Look, even if you don't do it, only you'll suffer because when people feel uncomfortable with your vibe, they automatically move away, you can't blame them, it's just how society works and nobody made these rules, society has evolved through our biological function, so if people feel uncomfortable by your words or gestures then that's their genuine biological reaction and you can't change someone's brain chemistry.