Meeksauce

At a certain point the "how" and "when" become irrelevant, because everything is imaginary. Just look at salvia, you can experience a million years in 5 minutes.

I'm still not taking my chances with hell haha

This is a great one if you haven't seen it. My take is that in order to be the individual self you are, fully, you must be undivided and therefore can't have any memory of what happened prior to your human birth. However, when you transition out of this life back into infinity, you should theoretically remember this life because you are infinite and therefore your perspective is integrated.

I'm just so sick of this bullshit. I know for a fact I'm not doing anything wrong. My crush was giving me all the signs from far away, smiling, eye contact, raising eyebrows etc. And all of the times I have tried to actually talk to her in person she just gives a one word answer and walks away immediately. I don't hate women, I love them, but when you face so many rejections without any success it turns you spiteful and bitter. It's like women don't feel attraction to men anymore and are asexual. Any attempt at flirting is harassment. There's just no point trying anymore. People say so many things on the Internet about dating advice, but literally none of it works. When I find a girl attractive now I just don't even bother thinking about approaching because I already know how it's gonna go. I'm just so tired of feeling invisible, and constantly told I am not good enough. I just can't have my feelings obliterated like this over and over and over again. I'm so fucking done.

Me too

Yes. Monopoly is a bad game

If not being myself is required to play the game then I don't wanna play.

I wouldn't go as far as calling it the same thing, more like the degree of disappointment is a consequence of the degree to which I got my hopes up. Yes they are related. But it's unfair to say "you shouldn't feel anything for this person" while they are reciprocating signals.

I'm not doing anything wrong but ok, keep drinking the kool aid

I wasn't necessarily positing that as an absolute but more like a rising trend I've noticed. The internet and social media definitely have something to do with it.

You can be attractive, do everything right and still get rejected. Life's a bitch.

I get that you shouldn't put women on a pedestal but am I just supposed to ignore how I feel when I'm around a beautiful woman I really like for months on end? Also, I've been learning game but it can feel pretty redundant in situations like these where the girl just leaves after 5 seconds anyways.

If you doubt this man you are facing the self deception of your own ego, I've tripped on high dose psychedelics countless times including NN-dmt easily over 100 times and I can vouch for what he's saying. I know many of you here have as well, but still doubt what he says in your own subtle ways. Make the leap of faith until it becomes experientially obvious. You are literally not a human being - this is the trippiest, most profound insight you can have. It's so obvious yet most people never see it. As I've said before, God is a genius and every nook and cranny of reality is filled with genius. Idk why so many people are on this forum and support Leo but take what he says and twist it into their own version.

I feel like I'm running into a wall because every approach I do leads to rejection. I'm decently attractive and can have a natural conversation, but for some reason it's like somebody sprayed girl repellent on me and if I do get their insta or number, they never respond. I definitely blame women having too high of standards and having too many options to chose from for this happening. I would consider myself a high quality and high value man so I don't even know if working on myself more is the problem. You might say oh, well your mentality of hating women is leaking into your approaches - I can assure you it's not and they have no idea while I'm talking to them. It would be one thing to have a small sample size of 10 rejections, but I'm easily in the 100s at this point. I'm not afraid to go up and talk to them, I just don't know what I'm doing wrong. It's crippling to your self esteem to be rejected by countless girls only to see them with another guy two days later. Are women just cooked in 2026, or is there somewhere i'm going wrong that leads to so many rejections?

How does one do this

Any advice to what it is I'm doing wrong? I've tried delaying showing interest and also showing it earlier on, and neither seem to work for me

*Que Pirates of the Caribbean theme*

The problem goes like this - Every person alive thinks they are above average in intelligence, but how would it be possible for the entire population to be above average? The problem is people don't question their own minds and they don't question their own perceived intelligence level. It just goes completely unchecked for 99.9% of the population. The average person is stuck in one paradigm and is hard locked into the idea that they are right about everything. That means you, reading this. You might think a spiritual forum like Leo's is a place where highly intelligent people would gather, but no, even here stupidity runs rampant. Not that there aren't diamonds in the rough, but for most people they just assume they're the diamond. It's a very tricky trap, but once you start to escape it you can't unsee that all of society is completely brainwashed. A lot of people will never become intelligent because they lack the bandwidth to perceive and understand intelligence. Again - Leo talks about this endlessly - but assuming "yeah I'm fine, it's just everyone else" IS the core problem. That's the very thing that needs to be examined.

If you try to look for yourself, the perceiver of experience, you will find what you are is literally what's in front of you. This is how experience becomes absolute. You are the very crystallization of conscious into absolute love.

People on this forum just try to debunk everything without logic

I don't disagree

Ok

You're kinda making the assumption that I'm coming at this from a place of unintelligence. That's all I'm saying.

Yeah, you did. "So it was attempt to expose how your post might imply you see yourself as higher intelligence. Not that it couldn't be true, but it sounded like you excluded yourself from the category of people who would see themselves that way" I do see myself as higher intelligence. Is that so impossible?

You're the one who called me dumb, jackass. Remember?