[Pickup: To do or not to do?]

do approach woman, however do not try to get or own or impress them. Instead state your intentions and your desires as if you were to give an invitation. Work on your body language and communications skills as they will be an asset to you for your entire life. But implement them into a life long behavior rather than use them to attract woman. This is just my idea i came up with, because i am still trying to grasp it myself

[enlightenment, celibacy vs tantra]

Iv'e been puzzled from this for a while now. I guess you could assume that in this extreme complex reality, they go hand and hand and although they go in complete opposite directions, maybe they still lead to the same cause paradoxically. Kinda like there's more than one path to take. I haven't looked into this too much to claim to understand both sides yet, this is just an assumption that may be plausible.