Nemo28

Its what everyone is looking for right? I want to give it to everyone, but certain thoughts doesnt allow me. For example: " oh sure you want to accept her, but she might think you are interested in her sexually, which you are not, so if you show her love that will create misunderstandings and reasons for hate, cause she only wants romantic love. "

Well as i said I only have assumptions. Everyone is assuming one thing or the other, for some reason i go into negativities which is a perspective one could take, since there are only perspectives. For exmple..I see a friend who today is avoiding me. This makes me assume the worst, which is she/he hates me probably, instead of rejecting this i accept this, forgive and transform it into something more positive. Ofc i could have made better story, like saying, "she/he might have difficulties in personal life and is in pain so she/he doesnt want to have any social interactions". But i choose the negative interpretation, i dont know why, maybe to grow in myself more love..hmm

@Nahm it does, its my dirrect experience, i cant argue with that now can i ? It feels super true. Its like looking t stars outside or the moon. again my dirrect experience contradicts this.. by shifting my attention to something else as @SoonHei suggested it ?

Thank you, this is exactly what i needed to hear! Indeed its all about attention. But why do i find to be so attracted to negativity..does embracing it makes one stronger? Cause throughout my life its what i always have seeked.. Sometimes this happens automatically, when i listen to Alan Watts, i just lose all my hearing and only aware of my being, its pretty nice state, but it happens so rarely ..

@TripleFly Hmm being alone is great, but i feel like im doing it too much, so now im indulging myself into social activities if the oppurtunity strikes. Although its really hard to relate to people, im mostly silent in conversations, cause i have nothing to say, everything seems ok as it is, so i have nothing to complain about. Yes, im taking care of myself too, this whole year i dedicated solely for self-growth. ITs been amazing, so much creativity unleshed! I cant help but to want to grow bigger, and it seems accepting all the negativities i get from people makes it do so.. although i wish there would be other way.. Yes, i am very lucky to have so many gifts from the universe, the problem is i dont know how to use them. Im trying my best to take care of my body and soul, but sometimes i feel guilty for all the good things i have while others are less fortunate..

Well im making lots of assumptions about reality and people, i am mostly assuming the worst, which feels true, there is lots of negativity in people and me. I really cant see how can i stop assuming the negative, i wish i could..

Yeah i know that i am everything ^^ i just wonder if these negative thoughts can be switched off ..

Yeah, I never really noticed how much darkness and negativity there are around others before, I was more focused on myself (my own egoic problems) and never really thought about others, but now it's the way around, I have abondoned my egoic desires and extended my awareness outside to what I perceive other people and there is so much negativity and pain, which is why it gets overwhelming, I guess I can't do much about it, just practice acceptance and love. It feels as if I have no choice lol, it's what I really want, to accept as much as I can, all that negativity..

Yeah but it's only true from one perspective. It's also true that I am those sounds and thoughts, I mean not really cause I can observe them, but they are part of me. I think I want to be aware of all of this "noise" in order to heal "myself" or the world.

@VeganAwake wow thanks for reminding this again. Yeah I am just a label, I can't do anything really, things just happening (but it's so convincing I am doing it). But it's weird how when you realize this the behavior changes having less fear and more joy, it's as if "you" did something, or it just happened hmm..

Thanks! Yes, ultimately I recognize that it's all coming from me "the I". I do try to accept everything about me, so I also accept others however much I can, but it just gets overwhelming.. Sometimes all you want to do is hide and be left alone.

@Michael569 yeah I understand, I also were like them, but then I learnt forgiveness and love (thanks to psyhadelics). I want to heal people, by my ability to absorb their negativity and transform it to something more harmonious.

@Aaron p there is no evil really, it's just gets overwhelming sometimes to be the 'sponge " for other people, to suck in (what I perceive, their thoughts and feelings). I guess, it's one reason I like to be alone. Yeah ayahuasca retreats have helped me a lot. God bless psyhadelics

Does anyone here experience egoic satisfaction (pride) towards themself for being more advanced than most of the society? I feel superiour to others, knowing myself as awareness and having this ability to detach from the mind. When i look at other people i see them very absorbed into their personalities, activities, always distracted either by phone, headphones or friends, all the time talking and talking. Well the issue i have here is that i experience discomfort seeing myself liking this situation, its as if i enjoy other people suffering, i enjoy seeing their delusion, it gives me sense of superiority, and when i see people trying to become more aware i feel threatened and jealous that they might share the same understanding as i do and i would no longer feel superior and special. I mean its just one feeling among many i have, this is the one of the worst things in me i guess. I felt need to verbalize this. Can anyone relate or im just really fucked up (issues with self esteem maybe)?

@ivankiss ❤

@Inliytened1 Yes ;)

@ivankiss I know

everyone getting enlightened these days lol

@ivankiss Bless you ❤

@ivankiss Hi ^^ Serve me by being you ❤

@VeganAwake yeah haha Wuhuu parteeey!

I agree as well ❤

nothing, but still despite that I am!

@VeganAwake But I am! I am, I am, I am