What kind of a partner you attract also depends a lot on you and your level of development. If you want a high quality woman, you should be able to offer her what she expects in a partner. Relationships are a give and take. Not exactly transactional but you can't expect someone exceptionally high value to just drop in your lap. You cannot be low value yourself meanwhile looking for a high value partner, it's just not gonna happen. You have to elevate your own value in terms of character, personality, status and behavior where you can find people to align with your level of development, you automatically attract them when you develop yourself, look at who you hang out with, that's the kind of people you will attract, if you want a better quality person, you have to increase your social value and find high quality circles where you meet desirable people.  It needs a lot of hard work and working on onself to get there. And also some luck. Most high quality women have high standards for men. Since these women are dedicated themselves, they want a dedicated husband too.  If they don't see that value in you as a male, they're most likely going to reject you. What's the point of desiring and wanting a high quality woman when she doesn't want you? So it's pretty much boils down to raising your own stakes.  Remember.  Men date down. Women date up.  This is harsh but true.