Sounds like you would benefit by strengthening your intuition. You can do this by: Meditating Shamanic breathing, 30 minutes (check the vid) Training your intuition with experience. Letting go of the perfect choice, and just pick something to move forward on, and then see how that feels. If you pick the wrong thing, and then pivot, you'll still find the right thing before the alternative person who just sits and overanalyzes things like you are currently doing, will even get started. I recommend you do all three, and this problem will melt away.