I am seeing a girl at my social spot about once a week atm. I already got her number and she seems super interested.  The problem is that I have a hard time opening up to people emotionally while she has no problem with it whatsoever which overwhelms me. We have very different speeds. I light up on the short distance I can follow her until it gets to much for me and I create distance.  Important to note though is that she seems to already know me through friends which would likely reveal both very high status but also social anxiety/ trauma.  Has anyone experienced the same dynamic and has any insights to share of how to go about it?