How To Make A Guy Fall In Love With You

By Leo Gura - January 19, 2014 | 29 Comments

Follow these fundamental to become absolutely irresistible to guys. Attract him, seduce him, and keep him head-over-heels in love with you forever.

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Hey, this is Leo for Actualized.org. In this quick self-help segment of about 10 minutes, I’m going to tell you how to make a guy fall in love with you.

This is an interesting topic for me because I’ve been involved in the pick-up community and have been doing a lot of advanced, deep-level personal development work on dating and social interaction with the opposite sex.

I’ve been learning about flirting and all of this amazing stuff. This is a fascinating topic to me.

From a girl’s perspective, if you want to keep a guy on the hook and keep him steady with you and become your boyfriend and fall in love with you, what you have to understand is male psychology and what guys like in girls.

You’ll find that this is invariable across most of the human male population. There are a couple of points.

First, if you want a guy to like you, you have to realize that guys are visual. Women are more emotional, more about comfort, and more about personality. Guys are visual.

I’m sorry to say – you have to take care of your looks. It doesn’t mean that you have to wear a ton of makeup or be fake, but you have to take care of your health. You have to take care of your weight. You have to take care of your hygiene.

Make sure that you’re nicely dressed and you have a sense of style. You have to have your weight handled. You have to be going to the gym and eating clean.

These are important things and they’re also beneficial to you because you should be doing these things anyway because you care about your health and hygiene.

Many girls don’t have this issue. Some girls do have this issue. It depends where you’re at.

I think that almost all guys are sensitive to weight. You have to take care of your weight and manage it because guys like healthy, fit girls. That’s just a fact. That’s our biology. That’s something that we’re drawn to. We can’t do anything about it.

Keep your weight in line. That’s very important.

You might be asking, “Well, what does that have to do with love? Love has nothing to do with physical appearance.” The problem is that, to a guy who has options, it’s important just like to you, for example, the personality of the guy is important.

You like a guy who’s humorous, adventurous, outgoing, and strong and who has a sense of command over life. The same argument can be made – “What does that have to do with love? What does personality have to do with love?”

The fact is that it’s just something you’re drawn to. Women are drawn to personality. Guys are drawn to physical appearance.

Try to make your physical appearance as decent as you can make it without bending over backwards. That’s important.

The next point is that you have to be sweet. I think most guys like a sweet girl who is caring and loyal to the guy. It’s hard to reject a girl like that. Be sweet and be outgoing like that.

Be kind to your guy. Don’t be a bitch. Don’t be too naggy. Guys hate it when you are nagging them all the time.

For guys, we want the connection and the intimacy, but a lot of guys don’t want too much of it. We also are independent-minded and we want to be out there and doing whatever it is that we’re doing. We don’t want to feel like we’re attached at the hip. We want our sense of independence.

A strong guy will want that. Any guy who you want to lock down is going to have that independence. That’s what you’re attracted to. You don’t want to smother him too much.

In fact, you want to play it a little bit cool and have things that you’re doing in your life that are not just revolving around the guy and getting the guy. Counter-intuitively, the best way to get the guy is to not want to get the guy so much. The guy will chase you, especially in the beginning.

He’ll chase you because guys are the pursuers in the beginning. It’s still always important to keep a little bit of that edge in the relationship. If it ever becomes too obvious or stale, then that sense of playfulness is lost.

Make sure that you have stuff that you’re doing and you’re not just sitting around and waiting for your guy. You have other friends who you’re hanging out with. You have things that you’re doing. The guy will see that. It will become very apparent in the way that you’re acting and communicating and in how much you want to see him.

All of that is going to show, in very subtle ways, and the guy is going to pick up on that. When he sees that you’re actually out there and doing stuff and you’re not so desperate to have a guy in your life, he’ll chase you a little bit. That’s going to be the ideal situation for you. Keep that in mind.

Make sure that your life is interesting. Have friends and activities that you’re doing. That’s always attractive. That’s attractive both to guys and to girls.

Girls want guys to be doing stuff on their own and guys want girls to be out there and doing stuff on their own. Nobody wants somebody who sits home all day and is boring and has no life. People want somebody who’s more attractive and has something going for themselves and has a future ahead of them. That’s important.

The other way to attract a guy is with great sex. Guys are sexual. We want to be in relationships that offer us great sex.

Make sure that you know how to do good sex. Read up on it. Study it. Practice it. Do whatever you have to do. Make sure that you’re satisfying your guy and that he is getting his kicks from it.

To me, that’s the best part of the relationship. It’s all about making the sex awesome. I pride myself in learning how to do that stuff and mastering sex.

You have to master the whole sexual realm and it’s a much deeper topic than Cosmo makes it out to be. You can go out there and buy information products that will teach you how to become good at sex. They’re amazing things and will help you take sex to a whole new level.

Most people don’t realize how deep sex goes. They just have boring vanilla sex. They’re not exploring their sexuality and their relationships get stale because after you have normal sex for a few months, it tends to get boring.

You want to keep it spiced up. Learn different techniques. Be adventurous. Have sex in different places and be a little bit sexually aggressive with your guy.

I think that as guys, we like that. Sometimes, when a girl is too submissive and expects the guy to do everything, then it feels like we’re just doing all of the work and we want sex to be initiated on us.

I know that that’s not always natural for girls, depending on what kinds of girl they are. However, I think that most guys like when you initiate sometimes and initiate in kinky and adventurous ways. We think, “Oh, damn, that’s cool! Most girls don’t do that.” It’s something rare, unique, and valuable that we are attracted to.

You asked the question about how to get a guy to fall in love with you and before you can get that, you have to get him attracted to you. What happens is that you get attraction and then that attraction will build to love fairly naturally as long as there aren’t any big obstacles in the way.

What I’m telling you is to try and clear up those major obstacles. One major obstacle might be appearance and hygiene. Another major obstacle might be that you don’t have the social life or the life that a guy would want in you if he’s looking for a long-term relationship or girlfriend. Another thing might be that the sex isn’t up to his standards and he’s not thrilled with that and he’s looking in other places.

If you just remove those roadblocks, it’s going to naturally happen. Just make sure that you’re doing more than the average girl.

If the average girl is not looking at these areas in her life and working on them and fixing them, then the guy will eventually get bored with her or he’ll find faults. Then that process of falling in love will either take longer, will be rockier, will have problems, or it won’t happen.

If all the roadblocks are removed and you have all the fundamentals down and he’s attracted to you, there’s sexual chemistry, and there’s intimacy, then it will naturally lead to where you want it to go. It’s pretty simple. It’s not that complicated.

You also have to go out there and socialize. If you’re not finding enough of the kinds of guys that you want to start that whole process – because you have to start here. You don’t start with love. You start with an acquaintanceship and then it builds up to love.

Make sure that you have this part of your life handled, too. That means going out with your friends, going out to bars, going out to clubs, and being more receptive to guys or maybe even approaching guys. Sometimes, that’s attractive, too. If a girl approaches a guy, that can work.

Although, just being receptive and being attractive will get you natural approaches, as long as you’re in an environment where that can happen. If you’re sitting at home or hanging around the same friends all of the time and you are in places where there aren’t many people, then what are the chances of you meeting somebody? They’re not very high.

You can dramatically improve your chances by going out there and moving in new social circles and going to places that are crowded and where other people can see you, meet you, and approach you. Then that process will develop very naturally.

That’s how to make a guy fall in love with you. Go ahead and leave your comments for me. I’d like to hear what you have to say on this topic and what you thought of some of my thoughts and anything that you’d like to critique. I’m sure there may be some critiques here.

Go ahead and “like” this and share this. If you feel like you want to do extra deep work on this and you want not just a guy to fall in love with you, but also find your ideal guy and lock it down – and not only lock it down, but be able to manage it for a long time – come check out Actualized.org and some of our more advanced personal development concepts that we cover there.

To do that, which I know is what you want because that’s what guys want, too, you have to work at it. You have to do personal development and you have to work out kinks in your personality to smooth yourself out so that you can manage a relationship well. I hate to say it, but you’re going to have to do that work.

We have to do it as guys. Girls have to do it as girls. You can’t take that stuff for granted. Otherwise, what’s going to happen is that you’re going to have relationships, but you’re going to find yourself self-sabotaging them or doing things that are putting roadblocks in the way. That might ultimately lose you the good guys that you’re running into.

That’s going to do it. This is Leo signing off. Go ahead and check out Actualized.org and also sign up for the newsletter.

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Sue says:

Hi Leo.

A woman can be the hottest chic out here and still get dumped if she doesn’t love and be independent of herself … I always wondered why woman let themselves go in relationship? Shit hits the fan when you get divorced and have to start all over. It’s hard but the challenge to regain who you we’re is so worth it…

Leo Gura says:

Yes, of course you gotta take care of yourself, both physically and mentally.

Betty says:

I am actually disappointed in this post. I don’t think it’s titled correctly it should be “what attracts the average man”. I understand that all these things are important but the pieces but different people are attracted to different things (especially on a physical level). I think all of this looks good in paper but if you don’t have a connection with someone it’s doesn’t really matter. This to me is means you must have all you shit perfectly together before even begin to start dating. This wasn’t helpful at to me and seemed like you needed to deeper because this video is very shallow.

Leo Gura says:

This is actually good news. Because connections develop very easily once the “shallow” stuff is taken care of. At this point I literally feel I can develop an amazing connection with almost any woman, but the problem is I don’t find many of them attractive enough physically, or they don’t meet my standards because they don’t have their lives together. The connection is the easy part. It tends to happen automatically.

Josie says:

Fantastic video. Any advice on a good sex book? There are thousands out there!

Irina says:

Pretty please can WE have the title of THE book? … can be a very nice Christmas gift ;

Cyan K says:

funny, I live up to all those things and more, independence, looks, lots of social circles, I’m sweet and sexually exciting and adventurous… and he acknowledges all of those things….., you say that’s what guys want….
except the assholes….the players…..
I walk away,and they keep coming back….could it be that an alpha asshole could be on the fence with this behavior? Why would that asshole keep coming back….my guy sent me your video of why girls fall for assholes, to explain himself…..3 months after we said goodbye.

Vella says:

Hi Leo,
Love all your videos, very informative. I have an odd question for you. I started seeing a guy, we have amazing sex, both of us are always I to it. After 2 months he said he wanted to friends with benefits. I said ok for some dumb reason….be that as it is, we have been still seeing each other for 10 months now, about every 2 weeks. He lives 2 hours away. We have given each other’s gifts for birthdays, he has called me once on the phone. We chat a lot on internet also. He had a medical emergency and I told him last time he was here even if he had to keep me a secrecy I deserved to be informed of extreme emergencies. He got angry and said ” you are not a secrect” . I am wondering how to change our ” relationship” from FWB back to possible forever…do you think there is a way? I go about my daily life and do not pester him about this but I want more….
Thanks for any response

Lizzie says:

This is hard for me to buy into. Especially on the weight issue. If we look a numeric, i should be obese but i’m not. I extremely muscular and weight more than an average girl and complements on how i dress from other women and have had more than one guy SHOCKED about my insecurities about my weight and appearance.

I see my weight as terrible and actually lost former asshole BF as result of what he claimed to be “weight” issues and failure to take care of myself. His fiancee dropped about 60lbs in under a year. she was much heavier than me to begin with.

The hot chicks aren’t the first ones picked up at bars. its usually the average “cool” girl that guys run for from my experience, which is why in ceratian cities I have no trouble meeting and keeping relationships together. As with many relationships, if i know it’s not the guy i won’t waste my or his time but the emphasis on weight vs. appearance is huge here.

Mila says:

Hi,

Do you have a organized way or plan to follow in order to obtain personal growth?

I love the videos, but there is so much information!

Thanks,

Mila

tashu says:

even after sex do uh think he will fall in love i mean if he had to do time pass with me he dont love me can i make him love me ?

Gina says:

I love this this is very helpful but I do have a question. Sometimes I don’t know when it’s time for me to slow my roll or just move on… For instance I’m dating a very mindful independent person who only seems to want to see me once a week maybe twice (in the beginning)I feel like I inhibit all of these qualities. I work out, eat clean I have my own life I have hobbies I have my set of friend sand I have a good amount of confidence…This person likes these things about me and praises me for it (going as far as telling me that I make him nervous) I’m used to guys wanting to spend way more time with me than that ( of course that gets old) so when the few guys I’ve meet ( who are working on their personal development like me) don’t I usually end up ditching them because I don’t think they’re interested since they only seem to want to see me once or twice per week. Maybe it’s just something I’m not used to so I need to stop being a brat about it and give them a chance but it’s hard for me not to it’s hard for me to distinguish if they’re not interested vs independent man is trying to maintain the pace with me and The things in their life to help them for fill their full potential …. Does that make sense ; can anyone help me with that?

Mulan says:

hey Leo, your content is super awesome! when are you going to release articles about long distance relationships?

Mona says:

I found this to be very educating.

I realized i did not know enough about the male psycology. After seeing this I realized i have been trying to understand my man from the female perspective/psykoligy (wich has NOT been working). We are in a tough spot at the moment and have some issues we are adressing. I have seen alot of your videoes at this point, and I would like to thank you for all your advice! From different videoes i have learned that I have some issues within myself that is actually ruining my relationship(s) and preventing me from living the life I want. I just wish I had looked for this knowledge at an earlier stage

Frida says:

This makes me not wanting to be in a relationship with men. “Men are attracted to physichal apperance and women to personality”. Come on. Also the thing you said about men being a ship and the woman a passenger. Do you other people agree?

Bobby says:

So like. If I dont have a lot of friends. will i still be able to form an amazing relationship??? we are connecting and we match really well morally so that is why i dont want to let him go. can this work????

Takao Yuuto says:

I wish you exist in my real life in Japan Black short spiky hair Cool Kind Blue eyes
clean skin Naturally Slender A tease only to the girl you are seriously loving often!
Symettrical face No bad smells only clean smells Mature Precocious Smug Genius!
Open minded to positive changes every year.Loves a girl too short to kiss his face!
Accepts breasts of interesting Hardworking Cool girls Can dream her acting happy
as all personalities convincingly even if they’re unflattering to those I pretend tobe
Even if she pushes or slaps a child for wasting time humiliating deserving friends I
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Read necessary Funny memorable complicated Openminded Unpredictable books!
18Sai I want to date many cool handsome mature Complicated Athletic geniuses!
Please teacjhnme how to spend Yen to derserve Mature Kind Cool Cute Geniuses!

Takao Yuuto says:

I pretend to kiss a boy,close eyes imagine him in front of me before he stoped me
After he teased me”I’m not being typical I’m acting”act as him”You act typical it was awful””You’re working really hard!”copying his voice prefectly he laughs atMe!
I glared at him not being embarassed at my fully accurrate Acting of a Genius boy
Thought”I never had a real boyfriend.I don’t know who I want to be with forever I
don’t want boys who always try to tease me.Cool in studies Athletic Loved by girls
but I understand all studies being athletic A Funny actress so he seemed normal!”
Because I’m too mature to be stopped by anyone in school but him I ignored kids!
Blow in1recorder properly If he never tried to tease me in school maybe I want to
play music with him!I didn’t want him to be kind to me I want all his honesty Play
out watch teachers kiss!First time I saw how Cool he looks He’s kissed me!I never
said but HE STOLE MY FIRST!RESERVED FOR MY HUSBAND!He walked away told
me to go home.In school Thought of kissing.I wonder if he truly loves me after it?

Takao Yuuto says:

He greeted me”He’s cool!but did he waste my first kiss?He’s cool as normal!WhyI
was kissed without my consent!Kisses must be reserved for real love.If he doesn’t
care does it mean.HE’S A PLAYBOY?I can’t forget first kiss.Has he kissed girls or?”
The first time I failed basket ball against kids I’m distracted by a handsome boySo
I pushed a bad boy as hard as I could for making her cry I can’t forgive heartless.
He smiled at me in silence I blushed glared at him”Why did you steal my first time
I checked her tummy to learn symptoms to prevent it happening to all true friend
Was out to thank him for making boys help her willingly He said I looked cool then
I blushed nervously at him Alone time I heard his say”Sorry I stole your first kiss reserved for another boy.Because I know your first kiss is important to you.Its OK
for you to be mad at me I should’ve told you why yesterday.Sorry my first kiss.His
first kiss was me”I was mad because you look normal after you kissed me I Hated
the idea of another girl taking a boy’s first kiss before the same boykissed me first

Takao Yuuto says:

heart beated for him after he kissed me He’s a interesting Kind Athletic Cool Boy I
can’t help her because my desire to study more with him stronger Can I trust him
She threatened me to fail because she hated boys doing popularity girls I agreed I
won’t fail because I always played properly She said not to go to him again Angry I didn’t because I was sad having fake friends so He,I played correctly Memorable
She’s mad but she can’t scare me again She lied about me making girls fail I Told
Truth but She’s trusted by boys but him?He stood close to me glared at them”She
never does that”I was relieved Blushed I stood close whispered”Arigatou”Boys say
Kisu!Mad”Wevalready kissed don’t lay a hand on her!”Embarassed at the reactions blushed He took my hand lead me up out He politely said I can stop crying but I’ll
stop after I can because I was never embarassed having boys love me before butI
Confessed my true love to him.Hugged him from his back he blushed confessed to
me.I don’t know if he’s my true love but I forgive him for kissing me we’re young!

Takao Yuuto says:

He greeted me I looked away from him acting indifferent He asked me if Japanese
is being taught today I corrected him From a kind sweet smile to a smug cool face
“Hey!Look at me”Only I blushed nervously glanced at him.We stared at each eyes
I tried to spy on him talking to boys I feel relieved but He saw me He’s smug asks
if I want to date him I planned double date he waited for me out I nevously stared
He blushed called me cute.used to compliments from my friends but not boyfriend
saw white masks looking like a woman’s real face.almost lost him We held hands I
saw a bunny toy I want but hard to get it from there she asked to move it for meI
heard him tell me to wait for him I cheered for him He got it gave it to me for our
help to each other.She called my boyfriend cool Proud of pecocious Reliable boy We seperated from Losers a drink from him to enjoy I LOST IT!WHERE ISIT?Only boyfriend saw it under he wanted to hold my hand Told me to follow him to my home safe first boyfriend to see my home Childhood boy met First real boyfriend!

Takao Yuuto says:

Transfer from Tokyo He always teases me He seems sugoi but He’s haughty today.
Don’t mind”shorty”He used a rubber borrowed by me He told him to stop teasing”
his girlfriend”put hand on my head to mean”She’s mine”He’s shocked to see hemy first boyfriend Deadpan snarker said me flat as a board glad to be flat but private!
12 years old too early to have breasts He doesn’t want him to understand me He’l
be jealous if He’s close to me again.blushed never had boys duel to be my Lover I
hear noone’s stealing me fom him Physical education I always wore during these I
always change to improve.ask him to dance with my group.Gave profile page See
what he likes,facts seemed reluctant but said fine He asked to go home together I
promised to go with girls.Gave him profile page I was jealous of her having his old
first day in classOut I tried to keep my strength as one of the strongest girls Seen
me Said I don’t enjoy dancing He kept Smug laughed”Hai you fall sometimes only
after you kissed me.Learned song together then asked if We got along before I’m
working hard to be his friendHair covered his eyes as he asked me Jealous Of him

don’t want him hate those I love”Do your best”He said.He saw us out Said He give
to me soon”How am I any good?”I’d not get1cool mature protective boyfriend If I
not any good.I don’t want to force him because he’s openminded”She wants this
that much”Was sad but I trust him Why did T blush?She has his photos?He never
told me he let her!She knows foods he likes?They know He’smine Pathetic girls So
Why my ribbon?his Hobbies change!won’t read his past if he can’t know.Pretendin
to pity me?don’t want to hear you tell!Don’t want to hear his pastLove him Pushed
me Caught by boyfriend.She ask if she’s special to him giving only her his profile.I
saw him close eyes”All of him changed”My photos give them to me I don’t likeAny
taken of me secretly”She won’t?Need her suffer for this.What he likes,Hates won’t
Stay same Why he won’t do profile again!wants to tell me directlyHe’s at my sideI
Just ask him directly what I want him to tell me He’ll answer all my questionsTruly
ask his profile he’s not writing in called me this terrible I Too much exercise today
Just watch boring I figured it out today by seeing He made men apologize to me I

Blushed at him he blushed”What’sthisfeeling?WhyamI”Suprised asks is everyone
from Tokyo this good at dancingHe’s so cool now!Fell boyfriend caught me Said It
dangerous I apologized looked up to him blushed.Blonded hair covered his eyes is
he jealous of another boy being more memorable to me than him.It’s not like he’d
write his profile just to be my friend?Wonder how he described himself.We’ll fillOur
Profile with our love memories.Of him looking at me touching my head I blushed I
was surprised to feel him touch me.wonder which first present to give boyfriend!
Childhood boy asked to help me get a present?A late?Boys calked me criminal?Me cheating caught?Profile He likes me?Surprising Mistake!Boyfriend ask of cheating?My husband?I’m 12!He thought I weren’t Frigid !I froze like he snow’s me feel as snow woman I’m immune to all cold but his cold eyes,coldhearted,chilly voice he froze emotionally Hand on his hair,neck infront of face He thinks my hearts frozen He’s Cold!My Warm personality Heat Of Passion Hotheaded Hot tempered heated to melt him I’ve Hots for his chill wintry freezing lukewarm icy glacial cool traits I
melted as I warmed up sparky bright sunny to him burning with desire,curiousity!

Burning with rage I used my voice to share my warmth with his glacial frozen face
My cheeks were hot as I called my boyfriend best in the world His warm smile hot
eyes he’s hot warm cool at the same time!In the world?As my sun to feel his heat
I cooled down after I heated up My hots for him never cooled or became frozen he
acted coldhearted chilly Cold chill wintry freezing lukewarm icy glacial cool to test
my hots for him?His heat of passion and warmth touched me He wanted all of my
warmth not to be shared with other men my heat.His heat settled on me He looks
hot!He looks warm.He seems even tempered His temperature never stays same I
was surprised,happy at another boy loving me even though I’ve a boyfriend Hesay
It’s a prank I’m a girl he dislikes?I guess you can’t be friends with boys like I can
with girls.What kind of presents do boys like?He doesn’t know ask my boyfriendI’ll
hear he’s teasing me again.Why he teases a girl he loves she guessed he’s a bratI
hear it’s a mistake.Boyfriend told me his birthday but it passedTold him we should
celebrate even if its late We’ll date this Nichiyoubi.He said boyfriend will get upset
stomach if he ate mine.He asked if I want to kill him?Does he want my love to die
He ate my home economics food.Date Tokyo I waved he waved he’s cool but cold
to childhood boy.Did sweet feminine cooking with girls but I won’t give burnt food
What’s important is wanting Takao to be happy Show him my feminine charm saw
how I want to give him permanent gifts first birth after dating me Celebrate us as
a cute couple The day the boy I love was born.He said too mature but boyfriend’s
more mature than most his age geared to high school Let him help me choose?I’ll
give him his first gift from me Why did A blush he loves?Embarassed?Other plans?

I waited in green car droving to wear he waited for me he ask what with my getup
after he blushed at me Girl helped me dress up for Tokyo date Hows does it look?
Doesn’t fit me at all are you embarassed by me?He wears watch.Tell me at1’o’cloc
to be with boyfriend.He said ok I told a woman boyfriend’s last name Sounds cool
Why’s all this talk of my boyfriend giving you a headache are you jealous of him?
Thank goodness he’s with me my sense if style’s woorisome?With him I think we’ll
get a permanent gift he said he thought of getting out truly fast but if I like being with him that much?He’ll stay longer with me?I held a bunny I never ordered food
alone before I need help!Decide before lining up?Nothing I don’t like healthy easy
delicious food He’s amazing so cool!He said its normal I disagree he ordered alone
He walks so casually.I look up to him He guess its nothing he’s here every week I
hear he took dance classes at a school nearby really that’s why he’s so good at to
dance.He stole a few of my food.Took my strawberry,chicken,healthiest puddingHe
saw I sure remember a lot of how I don’t want to be treated by him He gave me a
apple I blushed laughed at funny.Our fun he guess I’m glad He’s changed from a
scary bully to so different from before He even came with me I saw his kind side I
should’ve met him sooner to be friends earlier what a shame I was always crying
when I was in kindergarden.I don’t like this smell.I saw expensive wallets He’snot
seen me like this with such a happy smile If only he realized sooner If only he was
nicer.The boy by her side may have been me Are we ok with time I must go soon!
He won’t let you go he said We blushed stared at each other boyfriend called me I
Why is he?He pulled me away from boyfriend Why’s he doing this to me What’s a
matter all of a sudden?

If he doesn’t think of me as his friend why’s he blushing at me?For a while now…?
Boyfriend stood between us after I was cornered by kabedon Hair hid his eyes I’ll
say he was not wrong in helping me get him a permanent birthday present I didn’
realized how much time we passed did he knew I was late for our Tokyo date?He
lied to me?didn’t tell me honestly He did it on purpose?Boyfriend glared silently at
him.Told me to follow him leave childhood boy alone.I heard him call me baka my
first name.He didn’t want me to be with boyfriend did he blush?Stop covering him
We’re alone on a bridge above cars He worried about me and ran all over places
He stopped walking after he saw me stop He stared at me apologizing for today I
wanted to celebrate by getting his present He said It’s fine but I said Then he said
He’s quite mad that I was with another boy secretly loving me as his girlfriend He
told me to lower my head.He’s hiding his burning rage by being warm cool again!I
see how hot his anger is now I froze He was being chilly I have hots for him even
If I’m a snow woman I lowered my head to let him feel my warmth heat passion I
felt his cold hands on my neck as he tied necklace on me he told me 12 years old
Congrats.He knew I’ve been thinking of him this entire time I forgot my birthday I
checked my necklace blushed smiled hugged him in front of him.Hair hid his eyes
as he said of course me and childhood boy can’t stay friends forever his hand rest
on my head kindly what is he talking about he said he won’t ever let me go.We’re
not even 13 years old yet you never want to let me go?He always looks hot when
he blushes I love his soft black hair.His cold yet cool blue eyes his mature yet cute
face his tall healthy athletic clean body he hugged me to his chest I feel protected
and embarassed at how his chest feels on my face.If I knew childhood boy tried to
get him something to disgust him reject him forgive him but I’ve no hots for him!

He gave me a necklace yesterday I wonder why He chose a necklace?He has cool
fashion sense.Is his hots for me super high level?He asked me to stop telling facts about boys that are embarassing!He’s blushing tiny but his embarrased face HOT!
I thanked him.I apologized for embarassing him by telling girls he told me not to
worry he wanted me to be happy that’s why he gave me a necklace.Myexpression
I glared at ugly boys”As long as you’re happy”I’m so happy”You can have my lips”
They acted as me and my boyfriend to each other.I never said that Stop acting as
me Only my boyfriend should be allowed to act as me besides my family.Childhoo
boy said shut up to ugly boys Is he jealous of being reminded of me and my boy I
didn’t give him anything I couldn’t pay enough and he distracted me on purpose I
was told I’m not his friend He’s so kind before why all of a sudden did I do wrong?
He heard confession event from me He’ll wait for my drink Childhood boy walked
between us why’s he hottempered he should tell me why Boyfriend frowned at he
him thinks he’s still loving him if he loves me don’t hurt me.Black hair often hides
his eyes when he’s angry or jealous he asks me to tell him what happened today!

Cherrie says:

Hi Leo, I’m wondering if you have any content or resources around gay male relationships, and maybe how internalized homophobia contributes to low self-esteem?

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