It's Wrong To Manipulate People

By Leo Gura - March 24, 2026

This is a good example of the wrongness of manipulating people, especially loved ones. This is what’s wrong with Andrew Tate. This is how a sociopaths thinks. The issue isn’t whether it works or not, the issue is that if you’re manipulating someone who loves you, or who you supposedly love, you are profoundly unconscious. Using sex to manipulate and control women is shameful and idiotic. Millions of young men listen to this and get the idea that it’s cool, but all it does is make all your relationships dysfunctional and toxic.

Can you use sex to manipulate women. Sure. But as soon as you do, you’ve lost your soul and ruined the relationship.

Love is non-manipulative and non-controlling. Red Pill makes it impossible for men to have healthy loving relationships with women. Any healthy, conscious woman will run away from such men, leaving a Red Pilled man with only dysfunctional, unconscious, toxic women. Red Pill is a natural filter for toxic and stupid women. Red Pill screens for women who tolerate abuse and misogyny. But the Red Pilled man does not understand this because he only cares about sex. Again, a lack of construct-awareness. The Red Pilled man creates his own toxic reality.

Fresh & Fit is so stupid. These aren’t real men, these are pathetic insecure losers who could only fool youngsters and low-lives.

The reason Red Pillers and PUAs can’t sustain relationships is because all their relationships are based on manipulation. Any relationship based on manipulation of a loved one will fail and become dysfunctional. The core mistake of Red Pill and pickup is that they do not respect the sovereignty of women because they just want to use women selfishly to satisfy their sexual desires. This is fundamentally wrong and toxic. This can never end in love. Because love is selfless.

Respecting the sovereignty of others is not optional, it is mandatory for alignment with Truth/Love/God/Health. True masculinity respects the sovereignty of others because true masculinity worships Truth.

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