Princess Arabia

Guys Have Expiration Dates Too.

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12 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

@Princess Arabia Thing is that someone who is at the service of a woman wont meet her needs precisely because his focus is a woman and not him creating the value, where womans needs will be met

On a surface level which is not game ill explain,so me like building a mansion for myself where i have jacuzzi,bars,pools,library with all amazing books etc. If im not focused every day to build it and then you coming to the picture getting the benefits from it, just because i worked on me and not you...

@Thought Art Game is literally you so there is no off and on switch...

Except for Enlightenment and Spiritual stuff, what reason is a man working on himself and building a mansion (I'm aware you're just using this as an analogy), and being financially stable, whats the point in having jaccuzzi, bars etc if not to share and especially with a romantic partner and I don't consider that reaping benefits if that's your reason for building it in the first place. It is not human's nature to just want those things for themselves as it's not so much the thing they desire but a feeling that comes with that material thing. It's like a woman saying she won't work on her looks and maintain her figure because if I get in a relationship only the guy is going to reap the benefits and he didn't help me maintain this figure nor did he help in my attractiveness. Or I should rephrase that by saying why should he reap the benefits if he played no role in my maintenance.

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The older I get, the more beautiful I am :):P


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2 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

The older I get, the more beautiful I am :):P

Thats true but can that sustain a life with a partner. I think people are beautiful regardless, sometimes I speak from an egoic stance, but if I was to really see through all that egoic shit, I can see beauty in all people because I'm aware they are operating from conditioning and I can see the true self underneath.


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5 hours ago, Tenebroso said:

Seems women of my generation (Late Millennial) and younger hate most men

This phrase suggests to me that your feelings might be coming from time spent on the internet and not from exposure to women (and men) in the real world.

What you read about male and female dynamics online does not really map that well onto reality. Especially if you visit corners of the internet that are very redpill/blackpill. You get a trojan horse; a few grains of truth about dating on the outside, loaded with toxic and false ideas on the inside.

As a man you'll get hate from most women if you are creepy, lack social skills, or make women feel unsafe, which is not really most men. At best it's an increasing minority that gets exaggerated online because that's where all of the people who lack social skills go.

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36 minutes ago, something_else said:

This phrase suggests to me that your feelings might be coming from time spent on the internet and not from exposure to women (and men) in the real world.

What you read about male and female dynamics online does not really map that well onto reality. Especially if you visit corners of the internet that are very redpill/blackpill. You get a trojan horse; a few grains of truth about dating on the outside, loaded with toxic and false ideas on the inside.

As a man you'll get hate from most women if you are creepy, lack social skills, or make women feel unsafe, which is not really most men. At best it's an increasing minority that gets exaggerated online because that's where all of the people who lack social skills go.

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@Princess Arabia Same as building a mansion man builds his own world so he can live in it so can give himself self-love,self respect,self image,his own mission,his own sucess standard,his own wins,loses that is independent of the world,he creates his own competition where he competes with himself etc. world can laugh at the man being ridicilous because he is not playing on a level of satisfying societies norms and being pawn in economys game.

If you havent felt like a man you are with it doesnt need you than he was no man...

This i where woman and men differ is man can be his own everything his own support system,his own psychologist,his own life coach etc.but you need to be on the level of the "I am" which ofcourse i cant explain on here and woman will have tough time understanding since its so logical ?...

Man doesnt look to reap the benefits he looks to give the benefits but he also demands from a woman to operate on a higher level her looks is not enough...

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Don’t have a scarcity mindset. I know people who have met in their 60s and got married after 3 different test drives.


Meditation is a lifestyle of developing a calm state of mind WHILE engaging in one’s ambitions!

Counting your breaths, chanting a mantra, and the rest of it is all ratshit and a complete waste of time. What is stopping you from meditating WHILE working on your life purpose?

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Only read the title

but yea i agree, especially with all the chemicals that we’re ingesting. Like phtalates in water bottles etc. sperm count in men has lowered so much lately.

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27 minutes ago, r0ckyreed said:

Don’t have a scarcity mindset. I know people who have met in their 60s and got married after 3 different test drives.

You weren't understanding my point, I don't think these people who met in their sixties only went for looks and thinking expiration dates. I'm responding to the guys who think women have expiration dates. Women only have expiration dates when it comes to having babies except in rare occasions in their 60's+. But a man past a certain age without any income, no money, status etc will find it very hard to sustain a relationship much less marriage while a woman pass a certain age don't have to pass those crireria. Think hard about what I'm trying to say in rebuttal to men saying women having expiration dates. Don't just look at the surface of what you think I'm saying. This is not a generalization of just age and people getting hooked in their 60's, im aware of that. 

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4 hours ago, NoSelfSelf said:

@Princess Arabia Same as building a mansion man builds his own world so he can live in it so can give himself self-love,self respect,self image,his own mission,his own sucess standard,his own wins,loses that is independent of the world,he creates his own competition where he competes with himself etc. world can laugh at the man being ridicilous because he is not playing on a level of satisfying societies norms and being pawn in economys game.

If you havent felt like a man you are with it doesnt need you than he was no man...

This i where woman and men differ is man can be his own everything his own support system,his own psychologist,his own life coach etc.but you need to be on the level of the "I am" which ofcourse i cant explain on here and woman will have tough time understanding since its so logical ?...

Man doesnt look to reap the benefits he looks to give the benefits but he also demands from a woman to operate on a higher level her looks is not enough...

great posts here thanks

yes you have to do everything with your own needs, strengths, values and goals in the forefront and not compromise them to fit in with norms or the chased after gender

and this is easier for men since women are more entrenched in conditioning so it is harder for her to break out of this people pleasing mindset

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@gettoefl Best part is that even tho you will get judged and put in different boxes in the end it will force others to conform to your norms, but ofcourse you dont need it...

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Fascinating and amusing design, isn’t it?  The thing is… The game is rigged. What you’re looking at are the reactions of losing at this game. It is important to go exterior and see all parts of the playing field.


What you resist, persists and less of you exists. There is a part of you that never leaves. You are not in; you have never been. You know. You put it there and time stretches. 

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So a guy who is having erection issues is already expired then? Erectile dysfunction is quite common. 

This is like insulting men with sexual health issues. Similar to calling women 'barren' when they can't have kids. 

This thread shames men with sexual performance anxiety too. Good job. 

I don't believe anyone expires, no matter what gender. People find excellent partners even in old age and live happily. 

Cringe dogmatic post. Reinforces male trauma. 

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11 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

You weren't understanding my point, I don't think these people who met in their sixties only went for looks and thinking expiration dates. I'm responding to the guys who think women have expiration dates. Women only have expiration dates when it comes to having babies except in rare occasions in their 60's+. But a man past a certain age without any income, no money, status etc will find it very hard to sustain a relationship much less marriage while a woman pass a certain age don't have to pass those crireria. Think hard about what I'm trying to say in rebuttal to men saying women having expiration dates. Don't just look at the surface of what you think I'm saying. This is not a generalization of just age and people getting hooked in their 60's, im aware of that. 

Gotcha. But I don’t agree with people saying women have expiration dates. As long as a woman is within 5 years of my age and shares my values, we are good. I’m not interested in dating a woman way younger or older than me. I’ll give the posts another read.


Meditation is a lifestyle of developing a calm state of mind WHILE engaging in one’s ambitions!

Counting your breaths, chanting a mantra, and the rest of it is all ratshit and a complete waste of time. What is stopping you from meditating WHILE working on your life purpose?

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Simply sexual options change 


"Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver

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