Mada_

Leo's game series is why I'm no longer a virgin

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I have commented on a lot of posts about my experience with game so have felt like writing this. 

Where I came from:

I had various sexual experiences, aside from intercourse from the age of about 16. From the age of 16 onwards I kept running into this barrier where girls would consent to sex, and then I would lose my erection, then as a reaction to losing my erection would assume the sexual interaction was over. 

This happened about 6 times from ages 16 - 21. So I never had penetrative sex. I started to develop this limiting belief that I had ED, but also a hig part of the problem was as a teenager I didn't know how to lead, I couldn't see that it was up to me to initiate sex, I would sort of lie there and wait for the girl to do it. 

 

I moved to the city this time last year almost weeks after watching Leo's game video, I met a really great Wing on Game Global Telegram, who was also into psychedelics and other personal development work. And I started going out at least four times a week. My first thousand approaches were probably half-assed. I had weeks where I would binge eat and stay home, not going out because I felt like I had 'no value'. In the beginning I was frozen scared and would do like 3 approaches a night. 

I then moved into another apartment with a wing I met who was closer to my age and we went out everynight. For a few months I committed to at least 5 approaches a day. I would talk to girls during the day, every night I could. And would stay out right until close. My wing and I would aim to approach whole clubs, sometimes we would rock up, get blown out by literally a whole club and then leave. 

 

My first week of living in the city I pulled a beautiful girl, she came back to my place and I couldn't get it up. I dropped her home, didn't catch up again. My second week I went back to a beautiful girls place and she said to me "I want you go fuck me like you mean it", still couldn't get it up. I got kicked out of here place at 3am and was sitting on the gutter waiting for an uber, feeling this strong shame in my chest. I thought "I could be a victim about this, or I could adress it proactively". 

The next day I went to a doctor and got my testosterone checked, I did a video course on improving T levels, got even supplement, taped my mouth at night, ate more protein. 

 

Every night I went out I looked sharp, my eyebrows were threaded, product in my hair, I did Leo's humour affirmations/visualisations, I made sure my place was always clean and smelled nice, I smelled nice. I went to the gym, did yoga, did Holotropic breathwork workshops (not specifically for game but I'm obviously interested in othe PD work). 

But it was funny, the night I lost my virginity I was walking home from the gym at like 8:30pm on a weeknight, I was dressed in a hoodie, my jeans frayed a bit at the bottom, I probably smelled a bit like chlorine. The city was dead but I hadn't filled my '5 a day's approach quota. I saw a girl who was definitely 5 or so years older than me, and who I wouldn't normally approach. I thought, "I'll just do it to be consistent". Mind you she was clearly waiting for a date. I said "hey, I'm walking home, I walked by I thought you were beautiful, I wanted to meet you" (something like that). She said "oh are you?... never mind, do you want to go somewhere?". I took here to a bar nearby, bought her a non-alcoholic drink, and concluded, she just wants to talk  there is just no way this is happening, I'm wearing a hoodie ffs. We just talked about work, and chatted, I fully relaxed because I didn't expect it to go anywhere. Turns out she was a violinist in an orchestra, who was travelling in a band, and she was waiting for a tinder date, but he was taking too long to show up. 

We then went to the street and I was expecting to say goodbye, I said "your hotel is near here", and she replied "yeah do you want to come?". I woke up in the morning on like the 38th floor of this baller hotel, I realised that if I lose my erection, I can just relax and wait and it will come back. 

 

Obviously I'm still a newbie, but my goal was to lose my virginity and I did it. This took me about 3-4 months of going out consistently. This might sound like I'm a natural or maybe you're someone who has never got any attention from girls. I have spent lots of time with people who are "hard-cases" when it comes to attracting girls. This was not a smooth ride for me, I've had people mistake me for being homeless and begging for money, I've had girls run away from me, say that they just don't like the way I look, say that I'm creepy, groups of girls cuss me out for saying "hi I'm Thomas". But I've also been dancing all night and making out with stunning girls...

If you're a hard case you need to fucking listen to people who are successful with women, I have seen guys try the exact same routine every single night for months, and get literally 0 response or only negative reactions, then repeat the process. You must be willing to change. You need to look at every single aspect of your life relative to attracting women and 'touch' it is some way - "okay my voice is quiet, how could I project it more? perhaps vocal exercises, okay maybe I'm sort of fat and have an incel haircut, maybe I should start running and get a new haircut." Just be on top of every aspect of your life, Leo's literally gives you all of the work you need to do on a silver platter in his game video. 

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The Evolution of Sex

Reading now, thanks for sharing!


"I believe you are more afraid of condemning me to the stake than for me to receive your cruel and disproportionate punishment."

- Giordano Bruno, Campo de' Fiori, Rome, Italy. February 17th, 1600.

Cosmic pluralist, mathematician and poet.

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@Mada_ I respect this a lot.

Not just because of the extremely proactive and self-responsible attitude you demonstrate, but also how humble you are when posting about successes.

I will actually take inspiration from that.


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21 hours ago, Mada_ said:

We then went to the street and I was expecting to say goodbye, I said "your hotel is near here", and she replied "yeah do you want to come?". I woke up in the morning on like the 38th floor of this baller hotel, I realised that if I lose my erection, I can just relax and wait and it will come back. 

Sounds like she did what Leo told you. Always ask "can I come with you?"! ;) 

No seriously, good stuff man.

One other key takeaway for you here should be, the way you dress and, if you recently showered or not, are really not that important. Sure, it won't hurt to smell good and be dressed for the occasion. But in reality the majority of women are by far more concerned about your energy and personality that they can sense from you than that.

 

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On 22/02/2023 at 8:18 PM, Breakingthewall said:

use viagra like everyone else does, and that's it

Your iron penis, tribal ancestors would be disappointed 

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@Mada_ Good work.

But please stop torturing yourself. Keep a few Viagra in your pocket every time you leave the house. Nothing is worse than pulling a stunner and then disappointing her.

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