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Girlfriend gets in the way of getting work done

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17 minutes ago, Intraplanetary said:

nah, that book is about creating boundaries between man and woman. we are more similar than we are different. that's for sure.

No it's not. Sincerely recommend it.

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I wouldn't want a relationship where my partner doesn't give me space to do my work. 

 

My work is my number one priority. 

 

I don't like such people and such relationships that become all consuming. 

 

 


♡✸♡.

 Be careful being too demanding in relationships. Relate to the person at the level they are at, not where you need them to be.

You have to get out of the kitchen where Tate's energy exists ~ Tyler Robinson 

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1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Living together is only gonna make you two hate each other soon.

What if I’m the Buddha?

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3 minutes ago, John Paul said:

What if I’m the Buddha?

Why do you think the Buddha left his wife? ;)


You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity.

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6 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Why do you think the Buddha left his wife? ;)

What if I’m Jesus?

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If you're gonna live with a girl I'll tell you this right now: You are never Awakening.


You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity.

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22 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

If you're gonna live with a girl I'll tell you this right now: You are never Awakening.

So?

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2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Tell her to move out.

Don't allow distractions like that. Your space is divine and should not be given up for any girl.

Living together is only gonna make you two hate each other soon.

If you love a girl, the best way to ruin it is to see her too often. And everyday is the worst.

This is very true. Ironically Once you live together you fuck way less, because attraction goes down so much. 

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1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

If you're gonna live with a girl I'll tell you this right now: You are never Awakening.

What if it is a hot witch girlfriend (wife) who is into psychedelics and shaman stuff?

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1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

If you're gonna live with a girl I'll tell you this right now: You are never Awakening.

Lol I visualize Leo at a wedding making this objection. xD “Enough! Yo’ ain’t gonna awake bruh!” 

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@Leo Gura  What are your goals with women if living with one is a ‘hell no?’

Personally, I like the idea of having a girl that’s ‘mine’, but also almost entirely agree that living alone is the move, and I would just to get distracted with a girl.

What is your middle ground?

Do you consider relationships or anything long term?

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1 hour ago, Juan said:

Lol I visualize Leo at a wedding making this objection. xD “Enough! Yo’ ain’t gonna awake bruh!” 

Please don't follow advice of someone who isn't in a long term committed relationship and working towards enlightenment. Or someone who barely allows for intimacy in his life.

Leo can express himself very confidently but that doesn't make him right in everything he says.

 

It is absolutely possible to have an intimate and awesome relationship and work your way towards awakening. Although it is much harder than to go to the mountains and isolated yourself.

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@integral If a person needed to be said what to do on a job all the time wouldnt that person get fired?


Who teaches us whats real and how to laugh at lies? Who decides why we live and what we'll die to defend?Who chain us? And who holds the Key that can set us free? 

It's you.

You have all the weapons you need 

Now fight.

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29 minutes ago, Juan said:

@Greatnestwithin Chill dude. 

He's right.

What Leo describes is an avoidant attachment style.

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1 hour ago, Greatnestwithin said:

Please don't follow advice of someone who isn't in a long term committed relationship and working towards enlightenment. Or someone who barely allows for intimacy in his life.

Yeah man, like of course someone who rejects/transcends their humanity would say stuff like that.


“We have two ears and one mouth so we can listen twice as much as we speak." -Epictetus

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She sounds a lot like my brothers ex... Did your GF have a very absent father by chance?

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