Tudo

I felt pussy was not tight, even though I have mid-big dick.

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I think due to masturbation, my dick got desensitized. What are the chances of this being the cause?

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Could be. Personally I find if I masturbate too much then the quality of sex I have goes way down


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1 minute ago, King Merk said:

Could be. Personally I find if I masturbate too much then the quality of sex I have goes way down

I guess low stimulation?

 


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10 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

I guess low stimulation?

 

Yea kind of. It’s like porn is too much stimulation which results in a real woman being too low of stimulation. Then it’s super hard for me to cum and find pleasure in the interaction. Which is obviously unhealthy.

I’m like two weeks in with zero porn and my sex life has improved a ton. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with masturbation per sey but it seems porn is pretty detrimental to my sex life. 


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1 minute ago, King Merk said:

I’m like two weeks in with zero porn and my sex life has improved a ton. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with masturbation per sey but it seems porn is pretty detrimental to my sex life. 

What would happen if you were mutually masturbating with your partner and zero porn? Would that make you feel better and happy with them consistently ? 

 


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@Tyler Robinson yea sometimes we masturbate together. It’s really not an issue when she’s around.

My problem is whenever she’s not around and my sexual urges are so intense and feel I need to get that release

If I don’t have sex or masturbate at least a couple times a week then I start going crazy 


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@Tudo How often are you having orgasms? If you are doing it every day you will get chafed and have lower sensitivity. It's a muscle that can get strained just like any other part of your body. Give yourself gap days.


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Learned something new today about male sexuality. 

Maybe this is the problem you're going through. It's called DGS

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It might be your brain that got desensitized by seeing unrealistic images of surgically enhanced female bodies for years, this is pretty common.

Reduce your porn time and try to use your fantasy instead a bit more. 

Occupy your mind with other things so that it doesn't slide to needing so much relief whenever you feel a boredom 

 

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4 hours ago, Roy said:

@Tudo How often are you having orgasms? If you are doing it every day you will get chafed and have lower sensitivity. It's a muscle that can get strained just like any other part of your body. Give yourself gap days.

Yes. I have orgasms every day from masturbation. I had not reached orgasm with my dick inside her, I had to finish it through masturbation, it was a pretty weird situation actually.

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1 hour ago, Michael569 said:

It might be your brain that got desensitized by seeing unrealistic images of surgically enhanced female bodies for years, this is pretty common.

Reduce your porn time and try to use your fantasy instead a bit more. 

Occupy your mind with other things so that it doesn't barely slide to needing so much relief.

 

Yes, I will follow your advice.

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A good measure of sensitivity is how itchy it feels when it's hard. If there's no itch then you need to stop stroking it for a while and open your window more often. Oxygen speeds up recovery in my experience. Cold water too.

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8 hours ago, Tudo said:

Yes. I have orgasms every day from masturbation. I had not reached orgasm with my dick inside her, I had to finish it through masturbation, it was a pretty weird situation actually.

Well fuck there is your issue. You need to cut masturbation, like TODAY. You'll be able to orgasm with her, you just need to give your parts a break and build up excitement.

She won't say anything because she doesn't want to hurt you, but this is a massive problem. Subconsciously she is going to process that as you not being attracted to her. It doesn't matter the words coming out of her mouth or yours, that is how she will feel inside. If it happens enough she will leave you.


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29 minutes ago, Roy said:

Well fuck there is your issue. You need to cut masturbation, like TODAY. You'll be able to orgasm with her, you just need to give your parts a break and build up excitement.

She won't say anything because she doesn't want to hurt you, but this is a massive problem. Subconsciously she is going to process that as you not being attracted to her. It doesn't matter the words coming out of her mouth or yours, that is how she will feel inside. If it happens enough she will leave you.

Yes, I know. I will stop immediately.

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When a dick is rock hard it penetrates forcefully. It’s possible you where mid-soft.


How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being?

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