Adam M

Girlfriend won't let me watch porn...

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5 minutes ago, Nilsi said:

I don't want to turn this into a discussion about metaphysics, so let's just leave it at that.

I'm talking about the physical world, nothing spiritual, how you experience the physical world, sex

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1 minute ago, Devin said:

I'm talking about the physical world, nothing spiritual, how you experience the physical world

You're just coming from a naive paradigm. I don't mean to mock you, but let's just end this discussion, ok?


“We are most nearly ourselves when we achieve the seriousness of the child at play.” - Heraclitus

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12 minutes ago, Nilsi said:

You're just coming from a naive paradigm. I don't mean to mock you, but let's just end this discussion, ok?

That's fine, I won't bother you, didn't mean to

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5 minutes ago, Devin said:

That's fine, I won't bother you, didn't mean to

All good. You didn't bother me at all. I just don't want to derail this thread too much.


“We are most nearly ourselves when we achieve the seriousness of the child at play.” - Heraclitus

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2 minutes ago, Nilsi said:

All good. You didn't bother me at all. I just don't want to derail this thread too much.

? I still think we're still right on topic

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real simple, find a person on the same porn frequency as you are

they are out there

all else is bringing imbalance and pain ... it is not fair to bring that to any serious relationship

porn on the down low is exactly the same as cheating, your partner objects but you go ahead and do it anyway, get over yourself and leave the person to someone who is deserving

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18 hours ago, Hardkill said:

So, it isn't true that women want sex just as much as men if not more?

Of course.

Average female sex drive is like 5x less.

Female sex drive only matches that of a man when she's ovulating, which is like a few days out of the month.

22 hours ago, Something Funny said:

What kills me the most is how porn didn't even exist just one hundred years ago, but nowadays people treat it like something that is impossible to live without and if somebody does live without it they are all of a sudden suppressing their sexual energy, torturing themselves and are weird people in general :D

Well, let's bring back prostitution, slavery, rape-and-pillage warfare, and women as men's personal property, and then we can do away with porn ;)

You think all that is just an accident of history?

Again, women have no idea what it's like to have a man's sex drive. If they did, they wouldn't judge men so much.

None of this is personal. Women treat it as though it is.


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6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Of course.

Average female sex drive is like 5x less.

Female sex drive only matches that of a man when she's ovulating, which is like a few days out of the month.

So, these sources are wrong?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NZEKbbGa9Bg

https://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/06/turns-out-women-have-really-really-strong-sex-drives-can-men-handle-it/276598/

Are you also saying that all of those PUA and dating coaches out there who've been saying that "women want sex just as much as men, if not more" have been overstating the power of the female sex drive?

Why Women Are Hornier Than Men (THE SCIENCE REVEALED!) by John Anthony:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_WXDITi1ro

 

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On 8/7/2022 at 0:23 PM, Adam M said:

Is porn cheating?

No. It is not. However, it is just a genital pleasure. No more, no less. 


"All that we know is limited, something we don't - is infinite"

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Update: 

After lots of pain and suffering and arguing my girlfriend and I finally reached the realization that there is absolutely nothing wrong with me pleasuring myself to porn.

We were literally on the verge of breaking up because I refused to give up masterbating (because it would be me feel repressed). And after I finally decided to end the relationship... she had a long deep think about her own bias and selfishness and completely realized that there is absolutely nothing wrong with me watching porn because I'm an awesome guy and I love her. And it doesn't even detract from our sex life... 

She literally admitted that she was being a selfish fuck. And her mind was filled with overly-idealistic fantasies from stage green social media content talking about "divine masculine and feminine energy"... mainly talking about how "real men" don't watch porn.... but eventually she realized that truth that "real men" are so God-realized that they are free to do whatever the fuck they want because reality is all Love anyways.

So the moral of the story is guys... do what feels right... even if other people make you feel ashamed or guilty for doing what feels right. Just do it and trust that if you genuinely enjoy something and it isn't directly harming other people... just fucking do it.

 

 


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