SamC

I got denied access to a bar becuase I was to drunk but I don't drink... Any tips?

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It started out being kind of funny but now it's starting to get super annoying aswell lmao.  About 60% of the time the bouncers think I am too drunk and dont let me in.Thats not reliable! How do you act sober? How should I go about convincing them that I am not drunk? Any insights about the psychology behind bouncers?

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I've been denied more times than I've had hot dinners. Some tips when queing:

  • Don't be too loud.
  • Don't be too animated.
  • If you're with a large (>4) group of men, split up and queue at different times.
  • Don't talk to bouncers.
  • Don't make too much eye contact with bouncers.
  • Bouncers will never change their minds, go somewhere else if denied.
  • Adhere to any dress code, especially shoes and/or don't wear jeans (depends on the place though).
  • Make sure you have ID on you if necessary.
  • If you look very young, grow a beard.

 


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Lmao that's the funniest title I've read in quite a while


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On 2/19/2022 at 4:40 AM, SamC said:

How do you act sober?

Lol .. hard to do if you're shit-faced. If you're serious about improving your skills at socialization and/or pickup .. go for little to no alcohol.

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7 minutes ago, Terell Kirby said:

Lol .. hard to do if you're shit-faced. If you're serious about improving your skills at socialization and/or pickup .. go for little to no alcohol.

I might have not been clear enough.. I don't drink.. like at all but Apperently I act drunk, What the fuck am I doing wrong??


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Get a breathalyzer, they're like $50 on Amazon lol. Although then I guess they could just say you're high.

Sounds like just a convenient way to discriminate against you for something else they don't like.


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Just now, Yarco said:

Get a breathalyzer, they're like $50 on Amazon lol. Although then I guess they could just say you're high.

Sounds like just a convenient way to discriminate against you for something else they don't like.

Thats hilarious actually? Ill do that, Idgf


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24 minutes ago, SamC said:

I might have not been clear enough.. I don't drink.. like at all but Apperently I act drunk, What the fuck am I doing wrong??

They also don't let children into bars ;D


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It’s probably them just making up an easy excuse because they don’t want to let you in for some other reason

Don’t be the dude who argues with bouncers, though. If I get rejected I just laugh out loud, wish them a good night and walk away

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17 minutes ago, something_else said:

It’s probably them just making up an easy excuse because they don’t want to let you in for some other reason

Don’t be the dude who argues with bouncers, though. If I get rejected I just laugh out loud, wish them a good night and walk away

I honestly belive that they think I am drunk and or on drugs. It had happend so many times that bouncers have asked me, even while Im in the bar/club If I'm okey. Apperntly I also wobbel when walk sometime.

1 hour ago, Carl-Richard said:

They also don't let children into bars ;D

Fair point I need a disguise:ph34r:

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2 hours ago, SamC said:

Thats hilarious actually? Ill do that, Idgf

Bro, they'll deffo think you bought a fake breathalyser lmao.

I dunno, just calm yourself down by deep breathing whilst your in the queue.

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