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Second Girl To Bed, Still No Sex

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2 minutes ago, K Ghoul said:

 
Then yes, if the bitch is cool with wanting to have sex with someone she barely knows then in this case the games that she plays is just the smoke that she creates to hide behind because she doesn’t want to come off as a whore

What makes her a bitch as opposed to a lady or a woman?

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1 minute ago, Federico del pueblo said:

What makes her a bitch as opposed to a lady or a woman?

Same thing that makes a woman a whore. 
 

I am only happy when a woman embraces who she is and does what she wants and sucks what she likes to suck. As long as she is honest about this kinda thing and doesn’t try to come of as someone else who she is not. Authenticity goes a long way

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1 minute ago, K Ghoul said:

 
Then yes, if the bitch is cool with wanting to have sex with someone she barely knows then in this case the games that she plays is just the smoke that she creates to hide behind because she doesn’t want to come off as a whore

It doesn't make any difference to me why women play their games. Some play hard to get simply for attention, some for selection, others for God knows why. For me, I still can't go up to a girl and ask for sex directly, which I sure would love to.

And what's up with the judgemental/misogynistic terminology? Should I report this or is it acceptable if a woman uses it?


Foolish until proven other-wise ;)

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47 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I would love nothing more than to walk up to a woman and say, "Let's have sex" and her simply saying, "Cool. Let's go." But no, it has to involve a bunch of bullshit.

of course, it should involve drama and some complications in order for her to accept that the sex she's getting is worthful. duh.


"If you kick me when I'm down, you better pray I don't get up"

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5 minutes ago, K Ghoul said:

 
Then yes, if the bitch is cool with wanting to have sex with someone she barely knows then in this case the games that she plays is just the smoke that she creates to hide behind because she doesn’t want to come off as a whore

What makes you think that only some women have an "inner bitch" inside of them? (Even if you know her for a long time & she obviously wants to have sex with you - if a man just asked "do you want to have sex?" You wouldn't find it attractive).

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1 minute ago, Gesundheit2 said:

It doesn't make any difference to me why women play their games. Some play hard to get simply for attention, some for selection, others for God knows why. For me, I still can't go up to a girl and ask for sex directly, which I sure would love to.

 


And some don’t play any games at all - they are just genuinely not interested to fuck someone that they don’t know

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41 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I would love nothing more than to walk up to a woman and say, "Let's have sex" and her simply saying, "Cool. Let's go." But no, it has to involve a bunch of bullshit.

xD

It's possible in the heavenly harem realm

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5 minutes ago, K Ghoul said:

Same thing that makes a woman a whore. 

 

Then what makes a woman a whore in your eyes.

This differs for different people, so it would be interesting to know how define whore.

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1 minute ago, K Ghoul said:

And some don’t play any games at all - they are just genuinely not interested to fuck someone that they don’t know

Fine by me.

Oh wait, she's playing footsie with me in my bed. Kids play innocent footsie too, right?


Foolish until proven other-wise ;)

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2 hours ago, Gesundheit2 said:

I'm just playing that dude's lawyer in case you chose to file a report at the time. If you have no answer, then the case is closed.

LOL 


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5 minutes ago, Gesundheit2 said:

Fine by me.

Oh wait, she's playing footsie with me in my bed. Kids play innocent footsie too, right?


Why asking me, what do I have to do with this? I can’t relate to this experience because I don’t play footies nor do I find myself in bed with a man whose dick I don’t already suck. 

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Well Leo, there you have it in this thread - a woman gets slut shamed by men (this happens alot too) and women if they appear 'easy', and some people justifying treating her like shit afterwards; or blamed for playing unnecessary games if she does not appear easy.  ??????


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11 minutes ago, puporing said:

Well Leo, there you have it in this thread - a woman gets slut shamed by men (this happens alot too) and women if they appear 'easy', and some people justifying treating her like shit afterwards; or blamed for playing unnecessary games if she does not appear easy.  ??????

this is exactly coming from your own bad projection! in fact, I have loved a girl more who slept with me on the first night and didn't play unnecessary games with me.

Edited by hamedsf

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10 minutes ago, hamedsf said:

this is exactly coming from your own bad projection!

This is exactly coming from your own bad projection of what I said too!

The point I was really trying to make is that, people should probably just do what feels right to them on a case-to-case basis and not based on how they come off/what others will think because there will always be someone who complains about it. ^_^ But people play these games at least in part due to shame/the collective conditioning that are abound.

Edited by puporing

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         ┊ ┊⋆ ┊ . Shining Ray ♪ Love is Here ♫┆彡

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1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

The education around the games women play when it comes to sex is also horrific.

How is a guy supposed to know how to escalate? It's not like you ladies can be trusted to be truthful about that.

You play games and then act surprised when guys play games to counter your games. Then you deny you play games.

So here we are.

I would love nothing more than to not have to play games about sex. Yet my hand is forced into it.

I would love nothing more than to walk up to a woman and say, "Let's have sex" and her simply saying, "Cool. Let's go." But no, it has to involve a bunch of bullshit.

Sure This would completely kill the thrill of the chase?

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2 hours ago, Etherial Cat said:

@Gesundheit2

I suppose If someone is desperate to get laid, and will take any breadcrumbs and call it a feast. 

No need to suppose. I confirm this to be the case.

Everyone wants to have sex. It just so happens that women control the market these days. So women have become the bosses and men the employees. So of course from a woman's perspective it seems like desperation to hold on to every chance for sex because they have all the sex. But from a man's perspective it very much seems like getting a promotion and only a fool would throw that away. In fact, you can see how an employee can get crazy and make parties if they got a very little promotion after years of hard work, while bosses can lose millions in a minute and not care. It's the same thing here. Not much rocket science.

But of course no woman has empathy or understanding of the male struggle, because they're too selfish to care, so that's why they're judgemental and insensitive and cutthroat. And that's fine by me. I accept the game as it is. And I don't care about the labels.

Edited by Gesundheit2

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19 minutes ago, Seed said:

Sure This would completely kill the thrill of the chase?

Well then, don't cry to me about the drama your games create.

You play enough games and eventually you'll get out-played.


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@Gesundheit2 these topics require tons of sensitivity and wisdom. I don't think your taking the right approach 

Bc when ur a victim of it, it can be also traumatic to not be believed/victim blamed. But I'm not her so idk her exp 

Edited by Jacob Morres

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7 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Well then, don't cry to me about the drama your games create.

You play enough games and eventually you'll get out-played.

I mean your thrill of the chase not the girl?
 

I am asking you if this is really what you’d prefer ??

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1 minute ago, Jacob Morres said:

@Gesundheit2 these topics require tons of sensitivity and wisdom. I don't think your taking the right approach 

I may have been way too careless and insensitive. Thanks for the friendly note. I will work on improving that in the future.

Although, I still won't take back what I said.


Foolish until proven other-wise ;)

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