Gregory1

Fleshlight for masturbation

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1 hour ago, Yarco said:

Seems like a lot of work, having to use lube and then clean the thing out afterward.

Less work than fucking a girl.


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Just now, Leo Gura said:

Less work than fucking a girl.

Trueee

I will be honest, sometimes I am the one to be too lazy to really put effort and not the girl. I would like to get more skilled and make the process of making her come more efficient.

Does anyone have any course, masterclass, book recommendation for working on sexuality? Materials for couples, preferably.

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5 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Less work than fucking a girl.

Noooooo ? he did it again, that was funny though

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6 minutes ago, Girzo said:

Trueee

I will be honest, sometimes I am the one to be too lazy to really put effort and not the girl. I would like to get more skilled and make the process of making her come more efficient.

Does anyone have any course, masterclass, book recommendation for working on sexuality? Materials for couples, preferably.

If we don't buy them coats on 2nd date, of course they will be lazy, could call it karma

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3 hours ago, Bando said:

I forgot who posted this but a user on the forum said he attaches the fleshlight to a mirror, puts a vibrator in his ass and goes to town ??? he was talking about experiencing ultimate love or something this forum man I swear...

wtf that's so jokes??


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If you've never had a girlfriend or can't get yourself one within let's say, a month of effort. Then you don't deserve to get a fleshlight, it's a bad idea because you'll get addicted to it and use it as a replacement for doing the work of obtaining a girlfriend. That's the problem with sex toys is they are becoming so good and lifelike that it's dangerous for young inexperienced people to get a hold of them. Why would they ever do the work of hitting big milestones in life like getting laid if they can just stay home?

On the other hand if you DO know how, then it can be a great tool that will tie you over for the inevitable downtime in-between relationships.

If sex is 10/10, then a fleshlight is about 7 or 8.


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1 hour ago, Roy said:

If you've never had a girlfriend or can't get yourself one within let's say, a month of effort. Then you don't deserve to get a fleshlight, it's a bad idea because you'll get addicted to it and use it as a replacement for doing the work of obtaining a girlfriend. That's the problem with sex toys is they are becoming so good and lifelike that it's dangerous for young inexperienced people to get a hold of them. Why would they ever do the work of hitting big milestones in life like getting laid if they can just stay home?

On the other hand if you DO know how, then it can be a great tool that will tie you over for the inevitable downtime in-between relationships.

If sex is 10/10, then a fleshlight is about 7 or 8.

I would really be fascinated if a male could actually get addicted to a fleshlight. I had one and one of the Tenga Fliphole that @Leo Gura talked about and he's not lying, it felt literally just like a real pussy if not better. It was almost an offensive experience to me and a lot of effort to clean up your own cum out of a rubber tube after. The physical sensation of sex is nothing IMO, to me really showed that it's all about you and the girl experiencing each other.

I don't think I'd ever get one again but it's worth experiencing to really understand the experience of sex. 

If you're a virgin/incel type reading this and you're stuck in the porn boat and peaking down the fleshlight/VR porn road then please do yourself a favor and seriously try getting laid or just get an escort. Literally infinitely better, not even comparable. 


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6 hours ago, Girzo said:

I will be honest, sometimes I am the one to be too lazy to really put effort and not the girl. I would like to get more skilled and make the process of making her come more efficient.

Does anyone have any course, masterclass, book recommendation for working on sexuality? Materials for couples, preferably.

I have been reading The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Chia and Arava. Kinda New-Agey material, but I gotta say some of the techniques I tried were legit ??


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5 hours ago, Roy said:

If you've never had a girlfriend or can't get yourself one within let's say, a month of effort. Then you don't deserve to get a fleshlight, it's a bad idea because you'll get addicted to it and use it as a replacement for doing the work of obtaining a girlfriend. That's the problem with sex toys is they are becoming so good and lifelike that it's dangerous for young inexperienced people to get a hold of them. Why would they ever do the work of hitting big milestones in life like getting laid if they can just stay home?

Not true in my opinion. I can use fleshlight to exercise my stamina, AND look for real experiences simultaneously. These things are not mutually exclusive.

And I still don't believe that these toys can be better than real sex, tbh.

 

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16 hours ago, Gregory1 said:

Hi, do you have experiences with a fleshlight? How real does it feel / how realostic is it in comparison to real sex?

Thanks a lot for your replies

Greetings:)

Yes.

Feels more stimulating than the real deal.

For this reason I don't like it too much, something that creates less friction would be better, but I don't know if such a thing exists. 

It's kinda like you start fucking it but then after not too much time you're close to the point of no return, but also your dick starts to feel so hyper stimulated. Kind of like the way it feels after cumming, when the head is still so hyper sensitive, in a way that further stimulation is almost unbearable. 

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I feel bad for you guys that can't fuck their own buttholes. It's the real life cheatcode to infinite anal sex


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17 hours ago, Tim R said:

@Gregory1 Post-Valentine depression hitting hard eh??

?????? dead

 


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23 hours ago, LordFall said:

I would really be fascinated if a male could actually get addicted to a fleshlight.

It's not that it's as good, but it's a decent approximation to real pussy. So if a young guy who is a virgin gets a hold of one and they don't have the real thing to compare it to it might just reinforce them not to go out and socialize.

This is why most sex shops don't let minors in.


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On 16.2.2022 at 0:11 AM, Bando said:

I forgot who posted this but a user on the forum said he attaches the fleshlight to a mirror, puts a vibrator in his ass and goes to town ??? he was talking about experiencing ultimate love or something this forum man I swear...

On 15.2.2022 at 7:12 PM, Tangerinedream said:

 

@Bando Holy fuck you're kidding right????


Please do not take anything I say as an insult. I have 17 warning points and I'd like to stay on this forum.

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the bad thing about fleshlight is that your mouth doesn't water to lick it. 

the smell of real pussy turns the water of my mouth into a superglue! 


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17 minutes ago, hamedsf said:

the bad thing about fleshlight is that your mouth doesn't water to lick it. 

the smell of real pussy turns the water of my mouth into a superglue! 

Buy a fish from the store and stick it in your Fleshlight. Problem solved :P


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5 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Buy a fish from the store and stick it in your Fleshlight. Problem solved :P

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1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Buy a fish from the store and stick it in your Fleshlight. Problem solved :P

No, thanks, man, I have a slice of cottage cheese in the refrigerator...

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