Emotions part 4

[Preety_India]

1 minute ago, Preety_India said:

The goal of a discussion, debate and exchange should be to understand each other's perspectives and exchange of ideas. Not endlessly arguing. 

If you find the other person not understanding you, then simply leave the discussion. 

You're probably dealing with someone who is self righteous, Egotistical and dogmatic. No point in arguing with them. 

It is futile. 

 

18 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Promise myself that I will never participate in topics that lack substance. 

 

Yup. This^

[Preety_India]

These threads really consumed my time. My God. 

 

 

Each took 4 hours of my time. That's some stupidity. 

 

 

Edited January 24, 2022 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

Everything has a key. ?️

 

[Preety_India]

21 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Everything has a key. ?️

 

The key in this situation is to let go. 

Bring yourself closer and closer to what's good for you. 

[Preety_India]

I want to heavily rely on spiral dynamics to integrate ideas and concepts in my life. It's one of the simplest, healthiest and easiest models to follow. So I'll use it for my development. 

Now I don't want to stick to one stage. I'm mostly stuck in Green. It feels comfortable for a while because it aligns with my values 

[Preety_India]

I want to follow ideals and principles of stage Green, stage Red, stage Blue, stage Turquoise and stage Coral and make a nice blend. 

I think I've spoken about this before and I have called it the Mint Model. 

 

[Preety_India]

So what are the current concepts I'm going to follow? 

 

• Mint model 
• The Golden, stone, Diamond key system 
• The white bead necklace concept 
• Goaling, Tracking and Scoring

 

Edited January 24, 2022 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

1 hour ago, Preety_India said:

These threads really consumed my time. My God. 

 

 

Each took 4 hours of my time. That's some stupidity. 

 

 

Someone gave important advice on the forum in this regard. 

Stop watching videos...

You are indoctrinating yourself with ideas that are not yours. 

The only way to know something is to derive it for yourself, not believe someone else. 

 

[Preety_India]

This thread has reached insane proportions. 

 

This is beginning to sound more and more like Cancel culture and mind you I'm a moderate Stage Green and even I can sense the absurdity here. 

Sure that the person felt offended but try to listen to other black people as well. 

Imagine a stage Green being triggered by Uber stage Green. Now that's pure irony of ironies. 

Edited January 24, 2022 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

 

On 21/01/2022 at 9:57 AM, Preety_India said:

Also keep a track on the outcome of things. 

And see what aligns and what doesn't align. Alignment is key. 

Does this align with who I am and what I want? 

Are you doing things that are more in alignment with what you want or are you spending your time doing things that your life is not aligned with? 

• Nature of Emotions 
• Track and management of time
• Nature of actions 
• Measure the nature of outcome
• Seek alignment 

 

 

I really think the quickest way to raise yourself out of whatever pit you're in is to just align yourself with whatever you think is the most important thing to do and give yourself to it and surrender the resistance from a self that would rather masterbathe smoke weed and play the Sims. If you only wait around for a spark of inspiration while needlessly suffering a meaningless life you aren't on the right page, I don't think you can find your purpose through thought, it just comes to you.

 

If you are deeply suffering you are not seeking purpose but relief, and when time comes to do the right thing or attach to relief you will attach to relief, so just take care of yourself first before you go doing anything. Get financially independant and fulfill your emotional needs. It will strangle you if you don't.

 

The possibility to be entangeled by your emotional needs and egoic triggers like ambition will completely cloud your clarity to your purpose. But I guess I would just ask myself the question: What is wrong with world? And work from that point onwards. 

 

Those are just my thoughts from where I was at a year ago and now trying to find purpose and understanding, entering my dark night and feeling alive again. I just made a yt vid bout that if you wanna check it out.

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https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/76820-a-purpose-cannot-be-found/

 

https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/76820-a-purpose-cannot-be-found/

 

 

 

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[Preety_India]

On 23/01/2022 at 4:45 PM, Preety_India said:

One new concept I came across is that your life and circumstances become who you are or reflect your own energy. You change this energy. Everything changes.