What's Your Attachment Style?

[Insightful27]

Dismissive/Avoidant

[Rainy Sparkle]

Disorganized / Fearful-Avoidant

Score Mother/CG1: Anxiety: 4.33 | Avoidance: 2.67

Score Father/CG2: Anxiety: 6.33 | Avoidance: 6.67

Score Partner: Anxiety: 5.67 | Avoidance: 1.17

[BluntIbex]

Mother/CG1: Anxiety: 1 | Avoidance: 6.67

Father/CG2: Anxiety: 1 | Avoidance: 1.67

Partner: Anxiety: 1.33 | Avoidance: 1.67

General: Anxiety: 2.67 | Avoidance: 1.17

[John Paul]

i am not very good at quizzes because my mind is always trying to think "outside of the box". This really isn't what I expected. I'm almost certain my mom should be far into anxious but closer to the secure box than the others but they put her as secure, dad seems about right though.

I think maybe it's because i did open up and depend on my mom but almost by some sort of emotionally manipulative force. Can anyone relate Thoughts? Does anyone here have a codependent mother? Is anxious attachment and co-dependent similar?

[Cavin Kon Starnot]

Mine came back as Secure, which surprised me, I thought I was Anxious based on the Psych2Go YouTube video I watched about the 4 styles.

[BirdNerd]

I scored fearful avoidant in the past, but now I am secure from working on my beliefs.

[mojsterr]

Dismissive/Avoidant

 

Ayyy

 

Edited March 19, 2022 by mojsterr

[UnbornTao]

Secure.

Got a bit surprised by that.

[Jannes]

[Jenkins]

Dismissive / avoidant

[Ismael]

Disorganized/ Fearful-Avoidant for now 

[Eternal Unity]

@Leo Gura Transforming.

[Loba]

Disorganized/Fearful-Avoidant - I view it as a perk, not a flaw.

Edited January 14, 2023 by Loba

[Kore]

Secure

Congratulations – having a secure attachment style is great news! Either your needs were adequately met during your formative years, or else you worked hard at your relationships and circumstances to get to where you are emotionally in life.

The secure attachment style is considered to be the most balanced and healthy of the four styles. The other three attachment styles are the insecure attachment styles: anxious, avoidant, and disorganized. One in three people have one of these forms of insecure attachment and, as a result, likely exhibit attachment disturbances throughout their lives. When working with someone with an insecure attachment style, the aim is to help them transition towards earned security by helping them to forge their way on the path of secure attachment.

Score Mother/CG1: Anxiety: 6.00 | Avoidance: 4.33 (disorganized attachment)

Score Father/CG2: Anxiety: 6.33 | Avoidance: 5.33 (disorganized attachment)

Score Partner: Anxiety: 1.67 | Avoidance: 1.00 (secure attachment)

[AJBrew]

Why are so many people Disorganized/Fearful-Avoidant? I got this attachment style also.

[Carl-Richard]

22 minutes ago, AJBrew said:

Why are so many people Disorganized/Fearful-Avoidant? I got this attachment style also.

Trauma.

[AJBrew]

@Carl-Richard That's extremely upsetting. Hopefully this shifts in the future.

[vishnusavestheday]

The reading material really offered me closure and perspective, very useful. Thanks.