What's Your Attachment Style?

[Windappreciator]

leo gura is my attachement style  ?

Edited January 5, 2022 by Windappreciator

[erik8lrl]

Secure.
 

[kray]

Secure  

[inFlow]

Anxious / Preoccupied

[King Merk]

I got secure.

Yay for all the inner work I’ve done over the years to help me become a healthy human being haha. 

[ZenSwift]

I know I am secure. I don't think this test takes into account the healing process.

Also what is the black dot? Me? haha there's no way that's accurate.

 

Disorganized /
Fearful-Avoidant

Score Mother/CG1: Anxiety: 1.00 | Avoidance: 1.00

Score Father/CG2: Anxiety: 3.00 | Avoidance: 6.17

Score Partner: Anxiety: 5.33 | Avoidance: 2.00

[PurpleTree]

16 hours ago, erik8lrl said:

Secure.
 

 

11 hours ago, kray said:

Secure  

 

11 minutes ago, King Merk said:

I got secure.

Yay for all the inner work I’ve done over the years to help me become a healthy human being haha. 

you guys are my role model

edit: was eminem awake back then? at 1.55  "how the f can i be white? i don't even exist"

Edited January 6, 2022 by PurpleTree

[Matt23]

Disorganized/Fearful-Avoidant

Score Mother/CG1: Anxiety: 5.33 | Avoidance: 4.33

Score Father/CG2: Anxiety: 4.33 | Avoidance: 3.00

Score Partner: Anxiety: 4.67 | Avoidance: 4.67

[Thunder Kiss]

6 hours ago, ZenSwift said:

. I don't think this test takes into account the healing process

Yes.  
 

The confusing thing about the test is that it asks you to remember how it was for you as a child, and to answer from that place.  Even though you may have already worked through all of that and forgiven your parents.
 

here is a better test to see where you are at now.. 

   Attachment type test

Edited January 6, 2022 by Thunder Kiss

[Frosty97]

My dad, I couldn't ask for more

My mom, she did her best

[Jay_Eli]

Dismissive / Avoidant

 

Score Mother/CG1: Anxiety: 1.33 | Avoidance:

1.67

Score Father/CG2: A nxiety: 2.33 | Avoidance:

5.5

Score Partner: A nxiety: 4.33 | Avoidance: 4

Score General: A nxiety: 4 | Avoidance: 4.33

[Ulax]

Disorganized gang. Woop Woop!

[Ulax]

@Nos7algiK were you always like that?

[Consept]

Dismissive avoidant and yeah it does line up I would say, I always feel like i want someone there but just kinda in the background 

[Ohsee]

[Ina]

Disorganized /
Fearful-Avoidant

 

[Enlightenment]

 

Wasn't expecting it to be secure

[YeahIam]

Disorganized /
Fearful-Avoidant

[Beneficarus]

@Judy2 same here
Anxious / Preoccupied

Nice tool. 
I was already aware about this situation, but it's nice to have in in a operationalised format, with a graph and measurements

[JessyA]

Disorganized / Fearful-Avoidant. Made me realized Why I act the way I do.