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Hey guys, happy new year ?

So, if one is sex deprived like never had sex before, and keeps thinking about sex, Like 99% of the time, does that affects their productivity and creativity in real life? If yes, how so? 

Thx

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It is a human need to have sex. Some will claim here that skipping sex will actually give you those things you mentioned it might take away. It really depends. It would be healthy to go out and get actually experience having some sex to really know how it could be effecting you. 

 

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Seems kinda obvious to me that if one thinks about sex all the time, one won't be able to properly focus on... anything? How so? Well, the sex drive is pretty damn powerful and will easily overpower your rational decision making, once it is strong enough. Hornyness should be a temporary thing though. 

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On 02/01/2022 at 6:24 PM, Wijuu said:

Hey guys, happy new year ?

So, if one is sex deprived like never had sex before, and keeps thinking about sex, Like 99% of the time, does that affects their productivity and creativity in real life? If yes, how so? 

Thx

Might this person be you? ;)

What are you really asking?

What is it you want?

Productivity or sex?

What is your goal and vision?


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yes, the body has needs. food, water, shelter, care and sex. fulfill them all in healthy ways!

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Not having had sex yet doesn’t equal sex deprived. Careful with internalizing, self defining. You haven’t walked on the moon either, but you don’t create the belief in one who is moonwalking deprived. 


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@Wijuu yes it hampers everything. 

It's like a mystery until it happens. 

I guess your post is very self explanatory, it obviously hampers your productivity if u r thinking sex all the time.

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That's what jerking off is for.


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On 1/2/2022 at 5:24 PM, Wijuu said:

Hey guys, happy new year ?

So, if one is sex deprived like never had sex before, and keeps thinking about sex, Like 99% of the time, does that affects their productivity and creativity in real life? If yes, how so? 

Thx

   It would depend on that person's view of sex and sexuality, and at what stage values, cognition, moral frame work, personality type, state of consciousness and life experiences in specific (sexuality, intimate relationships, dating ect.) to other lines of development in one's life, which is also filtered through one's upbringing, culture, and repressed aspects of parts of one's psyche.

   Also, it depends on the body, and more importantly, what mind a person has. You can have a mind that's attention deficit disorder like, where focus is more scattered and wonders to a lot of topics and places, and have an episodic type of self image, with no consistent self image. Or you can have a mind which identifies strongly as one consistent entity.

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Having sex will not necessarily make you stop thinking about sex 

I also found when I quit porn I viewed women less sexually and had less sexual thoughts at times 

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even though sex is not as necessary as water or oxygen BUT it's damn necessary to go ahead in your life without any malfunction. 

of course, jerking off would be a quick fix to your problem but it's never gonna cure your issue about it.

so hold your feet to the fire and get the need of that part of your life met.


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