Illusory Self

Night game friends objection

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If you go out practicing night game by yourself, what is the best response if girls give the objection to where are your friends?

I used to go out to practicea bit and they would always ask this

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"I don't have any friends", cheeky tone and a grin, then play around with it or simply change the subject.


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You got 4 options:

1) I'm out solo tonight. I'm a man, not a herd animal.

2) My friends are around [point in random direction]

3) Meeting up with them in a bit.

4) I'm too shy to have any friends. [must be said while being very obviously charismatic and extroverted] And change topic.


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tap your belly and claim you just ate them ( dont forget to grin ) 

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I've been out quite a few times alone. It was very challenging for me honestly.

This idea of me being a lonely creep hitting on girls was a mindset that kept coming up.

What worked best for me, is to just own it. 

Trying to make excuses or lies was just a facade that did not make the underlying feeling go away.

A few times, I just walked up to random people and told them as one of the first things that I was alone.

The responses were actually very kind in general.

Once I knew a few people at the party/club, I actually did not feel alone anymore. There was a base that I could go back to.

From that point onwards, the response to a question like "with who are you here" did not matter much anymore, because in the end, it's more about the underlying state and confidence with which the answer is given, not the answer itself.

Once in state, the results can start to come in hehe.


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Or you could say: "My friends are at my house, do you want to go meet them?"

That's how you can bypass the whole sensory process. Then you could be like,

"how do you feel about going there and getting a few drinks, then watching your favorite show?"

Then you can say: "Imagine how much fun that would be! I know you feel excited! Let's go have some fun!" @Illusory Self  

All that dialogue can potentially bypass the whole process. 


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The new city I moved to have a no single policies in basically all the nightclubs, think they're paranoid about potentially stabbings and girls drinks being spiked, its an awful shame , but theres shit people about so I can understand. Went out all the time solo at uni because my flatmates were too busy being glued to their girlfriends^_^


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