Being biased in relationships

[Vlad_]

Does having sex only with your girlfriend mean being biased? What’s wrong with having sex with other girls as well? I mean as God why should I prefer particularly one girl instead of some other girls? 
So I can say to my girlfriend “Honey, I’m cheating on you because I want to spread the love of God” ?

[Chew211]

Let us know how it goes! 

[decentralized]

I think both monogamy and polygyny have their own biases. The reason you want to have multiple sexual partners is because humans are selfish by nature, therefore staying monogamous can be a good practice for practicing selflessness. It also depends on the type of love between you and your partner, do you think you both really fell in love with each other? If you did, you wouldn't have the need to have other partners because you would knew that'll hurt your relationship dynamics and no other women, no matter how hot they might seem, complete you as your girlfriend does, both spiritually and physically.

So, even if you really think having sex with other people is a way of you to "spread the love of God", you shouldn't do it without the consent of your partner. If you think she also has the right to have sex with other men in order to spread love, you should discuss it with her.

[SgtPepper]

yeah and why stop there? go have sex with men, animals, and objects!!! Don't be biased!!!

Seriously though, all I see is twisting spirituality to justify egoic desires. 

[universe]

Of course it is a big fucking bias.

[Jacob Morres]

Monogamy is a construct but the problem is the empathy part of reality - the feelings of the other person. You will have to face the consequences of it 

[Leo Gura]

Don't turn my teachings into devilry.