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How to find highly conscious friend or partner?!

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Anyone who started self-actualization at the beginning it's really lonely. & People around are so dogmatic specially the country like Bangladesh. It's really really hard to find a friend who cares about self-improvement. 

Leos "The Root Solution To People Pleasing & Loneliness" was really helpful but he also recommends socializing. I am looking for friends not because he recommends it's more of a instinct or something.

Is this the right place to find friends? Don't know. 

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Yes and more you socialize and get better at it you will find people and not everyone has to be high concious in beggining

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Get good at connecting with everyone on an emotional level. Feeling open & heart centered. Try to become good at flowing in converations with people and creating a bubble/container where you are very connected to each other and sharing good vibes. Vibes should be playful, fun, light hearted, dynamic and conversations have to be relatable and relevant to their personal experience. People are first of all emotional creatures that need to feel your emotions and experience emotions in your presence. If you are good at doing this, people will be a lot more open to 'take you in' and build a connection with you that is more expansive and exploratory. Then automatically, you'll start to build friendships with people you resonate with when you have this skill. 

You have to find people with shared values in order to build deep friendships. There's a low chance that a random stranger shares your values. You have to find places and opportunities where the probability is much higher. Like for example, when you like playing guitar - where would you look to find like minded people? Or if you would learn to attract women? There's communities for everything. If you like breathwork, psychedelics, and spirituality, then find groups relating to this topic. If you like Jiu jitsu? Join a club.

It's not that hard. But you have to make sure that you have no emotional baggage that keeps you from connecting to strangers in an authentic way. So become good at talking to that old lady at the bus stop. When you see a little baby or child, stop for a second and try to connect with the little child. Make weird faces and make them laugh. Become good at making people feel good in general. You'll feel good in return, and people will want to start talking to you. They will not even want to stop talking to you. 

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