capriciousduck

Getting Triggered

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On 04/08/2021 at 3:49 AM, capriciousduck said:

@flowboy Hey. Hi. I wanted to read a book about willpower. Could you recommend a good book?

Sorry, I haven't read a book on willpower. But I hear Atomic Habits is good.

3 hours ago, capriciousduck said:

@flowboy How long did it take you to get control of your sexuality, overcoming porn addiction?

I wouldn't say I have perfect control of it always, but most of the time I'm on a good 3-4 week streak. I think it was 2018 when I first did tantra workshops and was introduced there to the idea of semen retention, and all those guys were having sex all the time and never cumming. Since then I've tried to live up to that, and I think that's when I started to make 30 day streaks and all that. With also a lot of shorter streaks and periods of not caring after that, and now in 2021 it's pretty standard for me to only cum once or twice a month. But there's still some weeks where I won't save up at all, and I don't feel bad about that.

I don't believe the goal should be to never watch porn again. That's neurotic. But being able to decide: I won't cum today, and sticking to it, is important for your integrity. It's all about making a firm decision. If your woman can't convince you to cum, when you've made that decision, she'll respect you in a way she doesn't respect other men.


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14 hours ago, capriciousduck said:

@flowboy Okay. By the way, I started reading The Way of Superior Men - the one that you recommended.

Great! Hope you find value in it. The Enlightened Sex Manual is also good - it covers semen retention


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