LiakosN

How To Deal With Rejection

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It would be interesting for all of us to if Leo could make a video about rejection. What do you think? 

 


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Leo make a video about dealing with breakups and dealing with failure. These videos focus on coping with rejection in the form of failures and breakups and how not quitting is a great and sustainable solution! 

1. https://www.actualized.org/articles/fear-of-failure

2. https://www.actualized.org/articles/how-to-deal-with-a-breakup

3. https://www.actualized.org/articles/how-to-never-quit

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On 11/17/2016 at 9:52 AM, LiakosN said:

It would be interesting for all of us to if Leo could make a video about rejection. What do you think? 

 

If you are getting rejected, it's most likely not you (That is of course if you are failing the dating principals). But it isn't that bad. Girls aren't actually that overly fussy. It's just the times you approach them.. For example facebook messaging will almost always inevitably get you rejections not matter who you are simply because girls do not like to meet guys that way. Especially if they have real life connections. Or at the gym they are busy and they just assume some dickhead (You) Is just trying to chat them up. Not that that is bad but girls aren't always in the mood for that. 

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On 12/19/2016 at 7:05 PM, kyle barnett said:

If you are getting rejected, it's most likely not you (That is of course if you are failing the dating principals). But it isn't that bad. Girls aren't actually that overly fussy. It's just the times you approach them.. For example facebook messaging will almost always inevitably get you rejections not matter who you are simply because girls do not like to meet guys that way. Especially if they have real life connections. Or at the gym they are busy and they just assume some dickhead (You) Is just trying to chat them up. Not that that is bad but girls aren't always in the mood for that. 

Kyle, the way to get girls is to sort your life out first.  Then you will not need a bunch of strategies or worry about rejection because when you sort your life out then the right thing for you comes along at the right time you need it.  Life is a mystical experience, and the guys who are good with women have their minds sorted out and their lives sorted out.  Work on yourself and you will discover that you get everything you need, I know you want to experiment, and thats fine, just go the right way about it first.  

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The fear of being rejected is caused by the ego. You see yourself as a desirable, non-rejectable person and you fear that those qualities that you believe in will turn out to be false.  There is no need for a seperate video. You fear what other people think about you and you are attached to your identity. 

Check these videos :

 What Is Ego - How Your Ego Dictates Your Entire Life

How To Stop Caring What People Think Of You

What's Wrong With Ego?

 

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