Javfly33

Is it normal to feel like THIS after you jerk off??

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@Enlightenment Same experience, only I am 23 and have never fapped on amph. Actually, I haven't fapped on any drug ever.

But I know a few animals that fap way more than me, haha. And they do so on psychs.

Personally, I would feel like an idiot if I tried to fap more than 3 times a day. I would have to be very stressed and depressed to get such a desire in the first place. There's so no other point in doing it. And just once keeps me going for days, soo... it seems I might be primed for becoming a fulfilled celibate yogi later in life, haha.

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Guess I'll join the discussion, lol.

I've never been able to ejaculate too many times in a row but my ejaculation can last really long lol :P

 

But after ejaculation is indeed a good time for contemplation. Usually my mind immediately jumps to deep thoughts after it happens without any effort.

 


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15 hours ago, bliss54 said:

@Leo Gura

If you can't see that jerking off everyday dramatically lowers your energy, you are completely out of tune with your body

1) No it doesn't.

2) I never said I do it every day.

15 hours ago, bliss54 said:

You said you were struggling with low energy levels for years, you never made the connection?

That's not a factor in my energy problems.

If I don't jerk off for months it doesn't affect my energy other than making me horny.

14 hours ago, Florian said:

Wtf, are you a mutant or something? I can't believe you

My record is 9 times a day and that was already hard (not so hard in the end anymore if you know what I mean), but 20 times IN A ROW??

I didn't say I jerked of 9 separate times per day. I said I could climax 20 times in a row.

14 hours ago, integral said:

At around the 6-7 time ill be shooting blanks. No fluids, just pulsing. Did you experience this? 

Of course you'll run out of sperm after the first few.


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8 hours ago, Enlightenment said:

max I've ever done was 2 times in a row

I can do 2 in a row any night.

And if I'm taking MACA, I can fuck a girl, cum in her, and keep fucking her until she's asking me to stop.

Girlfriends have told me to please stop taking MACA, Lol. MACA makes me a sex machine.


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5 hours ago, fopylo said:

You probably didn't experience much brain fog as a teenager, or some light mental illness.

I certainly didn't. My mind was quick as a super-computer in my teens.

Although now with increased consciousness and spiritual understanding, and after doing a bunch of heavy metal detox, carnivore diet, and with mental training exercises my mind is getting real sharp again.

One of goals is to develop a superman mind.

Jerking off has no effect on the clarity of my mind. Not jerking off reduces my clarity because then mind is wasted thinking about sex.


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3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I certainly didn't. My mind was quick as a super-computer in my teens.

Although now with increased consciousness and spiritual understanding, and after doing a bunch of heavy metal detox, carnivore diet, and with mental training exercises my mind is getting real sharp again.

One of goals is to develop a superman mind.

Jerking off has no effect on the clarity of my mind. Not jerking off reduces my clarity because then mind is wasted thinking about sex.

Makes so much sense man.

I'm 21, and jerked off a lot in my teenage years. 

But after doing several vipassanas and spiritual inquiry my sexual drive has kind of stalled/I have more discipline over it.

Now I can go for months without jerking off, while my current perception is it was giving me energy and I was "stoic" not jerking off - I'm ready to explore my sexual drive and go full on with my girlfriend - for the sake of experimentation and see what it does to my overall life.

I'm gonna buy that Maca ;)  In what dosage do you take it? Everyday, before sex and how much?

 

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31 minutes ago, Avidya said:

I'm gonna buy that Maca ;)  In what dosage do you take it? Everyday, before sex and how much?

I don't remember the dose any more. I haven't taken it in a long time because my sex drive does not need to be any higher.

If you watch my Supplements video I talk about it there and give a dose.

I would usually take 2-3 pills of it if my girlfriend was visiting, for an extra good time.

But at 21 you probably don't need it.

Maca may also not be as effective for you as it is for me. People vary.


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3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

 

I didn't say I jerked of 9 separate times per day. I said I could climax 20 times in a row.

 

I said I did it 9 seperate times a day once not you. But isnt 20 times in a row much harder? If you are telling the truth then I gotta say you got my respect. A man who is capable of such things deserves respect.

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6 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I don't remember the dose any more. I haven't taken it in a long time because my sex drive does not need to be any higher.

If you watch my Supplements video I talk about it there and give a dose.

I would usually take 2-3 pills of it if my girlfriend was visiting, for an extra good time.

But at 21 you probably don't need it.

Damn, can confirm. A very good shit, was using it the same way as Leo says and it just adds this extra endurance to you and makes you stay as horny as dog even after you cum

It also helps with Semen production which is very cool. You get like 1.5-2x more sperm if you take it more or less regularly

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12 minutes ago, Florian said:

I said I did it 9 seperate times a day once not you.

9 separate times is a huge problem because that will take up your whole day.

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But isnt 20 times in a row much harder?

Not if you got a good sex drive.

The only hard part was the physical exhaustion.

I can't do 20 times any more. That was only possible in my teens. It fell from 10-20 down to 5 or so, and then down to 2, and now I'm usually satisfied with 1, but I can do 2 if I want or if I'm really turned on. As you get older the refractory period increases from what I can tell. In my teens my refractory period was basically zero.

I thought every guy was like this. I learn new things hearing about your guys' no-fap struggles and problems. Honestly, it's just never been a problem for me at all. I don't even think about it because to me it's like taking a shit. I take my shit and go about my day. I don't spend any time obsessing over or manipulating my shits. To me that's just a waste of mental energy.


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15 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

9 separate times is a huge problem because that will take up your whole day.

Not if you got a good sex drive.

The only hard part was the physical exhaustion.

I can't do 20 times any more. That was only possible in my teens. It fell from 10-20 down to 5 or so, and then down to 2, and now I'm usually satisfied with 1, but I can do 2 if I want or if I'm really turned on. As you get older the refractory period increases from what I can tell. In my teens my refractory period was basically zero.

I thought every guy was like this. I learn new things hearing about your guys' no-fap struggles and problems. Honestly, it's just never been a problem for me at all. I don't even think about it because to me it's like taking a shit. I take my shit and go about my day. I don't spend any time obsessing over or manipulating my shits. To me that's just a waste of mental energy.

Sounds like you’re the abnormality. Even during my teen years when I’d wank 5 times a day or so, I’d still need at least an hour recharge time 

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@Leo Gura Hmm.. you seem special to me in that regard. I have never heard something like that but I also never really interviewed anybody about their masturbation habits.

Do you think one persons sex drive is related to their general motivation in life?

Also when you started masturbating did you have porn to do it? Because maybe if you are very young and your brain is still in development, having unlimited amounts of porn (like you have to make one click and you see 20 hot naked chicks) causes your brain or sex drive to develope differently, since you don't seem to have a big need to go out and do something to get what you want.

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A supplement I don't take often is modafinil but when I take it I become nothing less than a machine. There were couple of times that I literally put the fear of god in a bitch, and she liked it. ? Obviously you have to feel if the girl likes it or not. Some girls are not into that.


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13 hours ago, Danioover9000 said:

@StarStruck

   To him sperm is not that valuable, so it justifies that high number of faps. I do not understand how a person that is sensitive enough to consciousness, is not sensitive enough to connect frequency of fapping to health and other issues. The sex gonads that produce sperm is one of seven glands of the body responsible for making hormones that effect the body itself. I am sensitive enough that if I do too much, and I have a health problem and thinking problem, it all eventually connects back to doing too much for my body to handle.

   At least he should have done an experiment himself, or say it off handed before allowing discussions about NoFap here.

It is not easy to do no-fap. For most guys it is a way to cope with kundalini. That is why men who don't have get so much done in life. People who don't fap a lot on the other hand can tap into this power:

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Also you make a good point about the hormones. There is just not enough evidence to say that porn is healhty. High speed porn is something new and dangerous (because it is not studied enough).

Nowadays a brother can have 10 tabs open and switch between pornstars every 10 seconds while in nature the same brother can't even get 1 average girl. That just fucks up the delicate brain. Our brain is made for survival and reproduction.

I think with people who fap chronically, the body will put survival as a secondary priority and reproduction as a primary priority. The body is more concerned with producing a lot of sperm to keep up, and put other processes like healthy organs and hormone regulation on the secondary priority.

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2 hours ago, Florian said:

Do you think one persons sex drive is related to their general motivation in life?

It's hard to draw simplistic conclusions. This stuff can be very complex.

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Also when you started masturbating did you have porn to do it? Because maybe if you are very young and your brain is still in development, having unlimited amounts of porn (like you have to make one click and you see 20 hot naked chicks) causes your brain or sex drive to develope differently, since you don't seem to have a big need to go out and do something to get what you want.

Sometimes I had porn, sometimes I didn't. Didn't really matter.

Back in the 90's porn was pretty low quality and hard to access. Zoomers are so spoiled today.

My sex drive has nothing to do with porn.

And actually, I was very careful not to waste my life energy on pursuing sex.

What you guys fail to consider is that pursuing real life women is a WAY bigger waste of time and energy than jerking off to porn. The amount of life energy lost in the drama of relationships and physical sex is incalculable. The time that the average guy wastes in dumb relationships and dating, I invested that time in my life purpose, philosophical contemplation, and career/business.

You think I got to where I am today by wasting time on having a bunch of sex? While you were having sex, I was contemplating the nature of existence.


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@Leo Gura I feel kinda scared writing this but it feels like you lost your balance or something. The intention behind your answer seems pretty "I am better then you". Like you didn't really read what I wrote or cared to think about it.

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

It's hard to draw simplistic conclusions. This stuff can be very complex.

Of course it is more complex then that but it still can have something to do with it. I mean you seem to have an enormous sex drive and you seem to have done enormous amounts of work. That raised the quetion in me whether it might be connected in some way. Your answer seems more like it's just to defend your ego and not answer my question (which I am aware you don't have to).

 

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Sometimes I had porn, sometimes I didn't. Didn't really matter.

Back in the 90's porn was pretty low quality and hard to access. Zoomers are so spoiled today.

My sex drive has nothing to do with porn.

Also here. I meant when you have easily accessible, unlimited amounts of porn, then your sex drive might develop to be weaker, since you don't really need it to be strong to get what you want. How do you know? As you said, you didn't experience a Zoomers porn experience as a teenager.

 

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

What you guys fail to consider is that pursuing real life women is a WAY bigger waste of time and energy than jerking off to porn. The amount of life energy lost in the drama of relationships and physical sex is incalculable. The time that the average guy wastes in dumb relationships and dating, I invested that time in my life purpose, philosophical contemplation, and career/business.

You think I got to where I am today by wasting time on having a bunch of sex? While you were having sex, I was contemplating the nature of existence.

 

Feels so "I have to make sure I am different" again. Who said that I waste my time with NoFap or pursuing real life woman. But I guess if you interact with so many people it's likely that I blend in with the majority for you and it's stupid of me to expect to get special treatment.

 

Maybe my whole answer also has a defending my ego vibe, but I feel like it also might be some good feedback to you and I just spend a lot of time writing it so im going to post it anyways.

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9 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

 

Girlfriends have told me to please stop taking MACA, Lol. MACA makes me a sex machine.

Lol why? Isn't that supposed to be good? I never going to understand women it seems 


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@Leo Gura I really wonder why the effects it has on you are very different than to most people...

I think some of it has to do with the fact that your mind was very clear and sharp in your teens, which in all honesty, is very rare. Most of the people trying to self-actualize/self-improve have experiences with some light mental illness and not a clear mind.

I can probably get you on the mind part. If you never had brain fog in your teens then there's not much reason why you'd experience it after a fap. But as to your energy levels, this is very odd.. Are you sure you're in touch with your body and energy levels? It is quite proven that jerking off releases lot's of energy from your body. Basically when you no-fap your energy channels to your mind (a bigger portion, most of it) than to your genitals.

And also, how can you ever know what's it's like having a brain fog and not a clear mind if you haven't experienced it?

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On 5/31/2021 at 3:16 PM, Javfly33 said:

I am way passed through the psychological shame of nofap ideology implanted me a while ago...I don't judge myself or feel bad psychologically after I jerk off ... I mean PHYSICALLY.

I feel absolutely dead tired, devastated, zero energy. 

It's difficult to accept masturbation as a regular habit of your weekly routine (maybe 1 each 3 days) when you feel so bad after doing it.

This is one of my main issues why I would push a button if I could to stop masturbating ever again : I won't feel like this ever again.

Usually after 2-3 hours I'm back to normal energy.

 

My dick just burns after intense jerking off xD

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4 hours ago, fopylo said:

And also, how can you ever know what's it's like having a brain fog and not a clear mind if you haven't experienced it?

I had bad brain fog over the last few years which I cured with heavy metal detox and diet.

So I know very much how terrible brain fog can be.

But for me this has zero to do with porn or fapping.

Keep in mind that your mind/brain will decline with age too. This is just natural. But if you have brain fog in your 20's something is seriously wrong. Probably your diet + chemical toxicity.

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A general trend I see on here is you guys make way too much of a deal out of fapping. To the point of dysfunction.

Honestly, I just can't relate on this issue. And I don't think I am special.


You are God. You are Love. You are Infinity. You are Leo.

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