Daniel Lopez

I have a fetish that doesn't let me enjoy sex :(

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There are sex therapists you can talk this through with, or if you are in Australia/Melbourne (a bit of a long-shot I know), there is a workshop called curious creatures which could be really helpful.

The insight that I have had regarding porn is that I was becoming sexually attracted to a computer screen and not touch, you want to find a partner that you can explore touch and feel with. This could be a "surrogate" sex-therapist, someone who you trust and is willing to go through that with you. 

 

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On 8/18/2021 at 4:11 AM, Shawn Philips said:

Those who say fetishes are causes by watching porn dont have a clue! stop spreading lies.

I have a domination fetish, and I understood why it feels so good to me.

dude, it's you that should stop spreading lies, in the first place! it's the fact already in your face.

go and do some research and see what happens to your brain on porn.

and still a fetish of being dominated by women in sex is not a normal thing. if you think it is, good luck finding women like doris from shrek 2! 

Edited by hamedsf

"If you kick me when I'm down, you better pray I don't get up"

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every fetish is some kind of "escape" from reality, contemplate about it,  and reality is that you want to be loved and love and build real intimacy with someone, i know this doesn't help at all, but my english is bad sorry.

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