Yahya

Sex question

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Hi,

What advice would you guys give to someone who is having sex for the first time?

 

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  • Keep expectations down
  • No pressure, more of a "let's just see how this is" - mindset
  • Do it with someone you trust
  • Talk about it upfront
  • Spend a long time on foreplay
  • Communicate during the experience. How does it feel? Is someone hurting/ feeling uncomfortable? Don't be afraid to take a step back if needed
  • No crazy positions to begin with. Choose a position where you can look into your partners eyes and feel them closely
  • Use proper contraception
  • Use lube
  • Enjoy :-)

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15 minutes ago, flume said:
  • Spend a long time on foreplay

Yes.

  • Focus on your partner
  • Breathe deeply and slowly

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Practice opening and putting on the condom many times. Keep it on and masturbate with the condom on a couple times (not to completion necessarily, save your semen :p), so that you get used to the action and the feeling of having it on and being horny, and it doesn't weird you out when the moment is there.

Also: Just Have Fun!xD


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