Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists

[MrBON]

@Leo Gura Leo do you understand how insecurities work? They are created because of what you experience, hear and see through your life. No one is born insecure about their height, they are made insecure by the way society talks about it. If you hear all your life that guys should not be shorter than girls in dating by everyone and you never see any couples where the guy is shorter (1-2cm shorter doesn't count i mean LEGIT shorter) then you start to think it is reality. Of course, you cant understand this because you are 6 2 so you never experienced it and it is easy to talk like it does not matter. Sure a godly pua that is natural in game can probably get girls legit taller but that is like saying you do not need psychedelics at all to reach very high states of consciousness if you are an average guy since i know Sadhguru or some other gifted guy that does not need it.

 

[North Sea]

@Leo Gura easy to say when you’re 6’2

I’m 5’11 so i dont fee height affects me in a positive nor negative way. But how can you know height is not a big deal to girls?

[Moon]

@MrBON how tall are you?

Tyrion from GoT is a dwarf but still sexy ?

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, North Sea said:

@Leo Gura easy to say when you’re 6’2

I’m 5’11 so i dont fee height affects me in a positive nor negative way. But how can you know height is not a big deal to girls?

This is true of all insecurities, ever.

No one is sayimg there aren't downsides to certain ways of being born. The downsides can be real. The trick is being strong enough to overcome it and not let it get you down.

You think being bald is not a consistent downside in dating? It's like having one hand tied behind your back in a boxing match.

But you must play the cards you've been dealt.

[Username]

2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

You think being bald is not a consistent downside in dating?

It is. It makes you a little bit shorter 

[Star]

Insecureties aren't necessarily related to looks... 

I'm pretty confident about the way I look, I feel beautiful to be honest but still, I feel insecure about other stuff.... 

it may sound stupid and rediculous but I was always insecure about the sexual orientation of the men I was dating... maybe because my first best friend at the age of 5 years old was a transexual boy...

It may not sound serious but It was...

it was mind fucking honestly.....not my friendship with the boy but the fact that I was always questioning the sexuality of men

 

Edited January 4, 2021 by Star

[MrBON]

@Leo Gura It is not the same. There are no social conventions saying you cannot date a bald guy. The most popular male porn star in the world is bald for fuck sake.

Society will not judge a girl for dating a bald guy like they will if she dates a guy shorter than her.

Plenty of couples where the guy is bald out there, VERY few where the girl is taller.

I am not saying that being bald does not hurt your chances but it is not the same.

I did not start this thread to say that i cannot get a girl because of height. There are girls my height or shorter so it is not that i will be lonely because of this. It was just to point out the double standards of females and the hypocrisy of feminism. They say this is okay but this is not when they are all equally shallow. 

Anyway thanks for the support.

I will shut up now and go talk to girls actively  as soon as this lockdown bs ends i swear on word on it.

Edited January 4, 2021 by MrBON

[Hello from Russia]

2 minutes ago, MrBON said:

@Leo Gura It is not the same. There are social conventions saying you cannot date a bald guy. The most popular male porn star in the world is bald for fuck sake.

Society will not judge a girl for dating a bald guy like they will if she dates a guy shorter than her.

Plenty of couples where the guy is bald out there, VERY few where the girl is taller.

I am not saying that being bald does not hurt your chances but it is not the same.

I did not start this thread to say that i cannot get a girl because of height. There are girls my height or shorter so it is not that i will be lonely because of this. It was just to point out the double standards of females and the hypocrisy of feminism. They say this is okay but this is not when they are all equally shallow. 

Anyway thanks for the support.

I will shut up now and go talk to girls actively  as soon as this lockdown bs ends i swear on word on it.

Man, it sounds like you cherrypicked a ton of evidence through confirmation bias and now it weighs you down. Let it go, bro, let it go

[MrBON]

@Hello from Russia May be. I will just shut up now when feminist start talking about height and weight and focus on my own shit, this thread made me realize i am not as righteous as i though.

Thank you guys

 

[Hello from Russia]

@MrBON Yeah, fuck these stage green feminists, bro. They talk all shit about equality and everything, but then will have self-biased standards and tell you that you're too short.

Need to hunt for nice witches and shaman girls, these will really look into your soul rather than height ??

Edited January 4, 2021 by Hello from Russia

[Star]

18 minutes ago, MrBON said:

@Leo Gura It is not the same. There are no social conventions saying you cannot date a bald guy. The most popular male porn star in the world is bald for fuck sake.

Society will not judge a girl for dating a bald guy like they will if she dates a guy shorter than her.

Plenty of couples where the guy is bald out there, VERY few where the girl is taller.

I am not saying that being bald does not hurt your chances but it is not the same.

I did not start this thread to say that i cannot get a girl because of height. There are girls my height or shorter so it is not that i will be lonely because of this. It was just to point out the double standards of females and the hypocrisy of feminism. They say this is okay but this is not when they are all equally shallow. 

Anyway thanks for the support.

I will shut up now and go talk to girls actively  as soon as this lockdown bs ends i swear on word on it.

looks isn't everything in life....

And I suppose you too  wouldn't date some women because of the way they look... everything changes though when you like someone's personality. So stop being worried about they way you look and start having fun, everybody likes people who knows how to have fun  

[hoodrow trillson]

OP, you're not going to get the brutal truth that you want to hear on this forum lol.  Almost all of the replies are just blaming you for not taking initiative or not being "confident enough" lmao.  It's crazy to me the obvious blindspot of lookism that exists in our society yet it's much easier to just blame the person themselves for not having "confidence" lol.

In this illusory dream world we all live in, (speaking in the 1st world perspective here) women tend to like immutable traits in men that are impossible or difficult to change or fraud.  Height, hair, face, dick size, etc--stuff that's set in stone by your genetics.  Women have a lot more to lose in the dating game because they can get pregnant and that's a huge fucking deal because the consequence is massively life-changing.  The stuff you can change like body, hairstyle, money, etc?  Who really cares, just don't go too extreme with it as a coping mechanism because you will stand out far more in a bad way.  (like being hilariously muscular and ripped, or having 40 yachts or like wearing ridiculous clothes, wearing a silly toupee etc).

Just embrace that and it will set you free.  Then you have nothing to lose once you understand this and THEN you can approach and just take it easy and have more success without that burden on the back of your mind.  Luck is also a massive component that no one talks about too.

You have to destroy that paradigm and also the "be more confident!!!" paradigm at the same time, so you don't end up going in circles in a dark, twisted, self fulfilling prophecy.  

Good luck.

Edited January 4, 2021 by hoodrow trillson

[Leo Gura]

@MrBON Notice that you are engaged in rationalizing your insecurities.

That's all you're doing here. Which is a very unattractive quality.

This is what we mean when we say you need to work on your inner game. Inner game is key. You will never become successful with your kind of attitude. You have the attitude of a whiner and complainer, not a winner.

One of my best wingmen was 5'5". He got laid way more than me. Cause his game was good.

[MrBON]

@Leo Gura You are right, thank you

[DnoReally]

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

This is what we mean when we say you need to work on your inner game.

Easier said than done, when you're not a 6'2 spiritual entrepreneur, hyper masculine, spiritually enlightened, tall, handsome, well dressed, charmful, witty, square-jawed, cross-legged meditating, kundalini-channeling, chakra-opening, maserati driving, 5-Meo plugging chad millionaire

 

no homo

[North Sea]

9 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

This is true of all insecurities, ever.

No one is sayimg there aren't downsides to certain ways of being born. The downsides can be real. The trick is being strong enough to overcome it and not let it get you down.

You think being bald is not a consistent downside in dating? It's like having one hand tied behind your back in a boxing match.

But you must play the cards you've been dealt.

Well said. Sometimes its easy to rationalize your failures in game to be externally caused by (lack of) looks, status and money. Of course those three help and you need a minimum of all three, but inner and outer game goes very long.
 

Semi-spiritual question; Assuming girls are attracted to dominant and high status behavior (which they are, alongside with comfort/playfulness/security) Does this tell us that being  frequently dominant times in life is a good way to live?
 

I remember making a joke at the expense of a kid on the schoolyard. Some other people including a hot girl, who where standing around him all laughed. i felt a bit bad for him but it was just a joke after all. But then this girl suddenly acts like shes very attracted to me, starts talking to me like she wants me etc. This shocked me because i barely know this girl and i wasnt the best looking guy at the time. But suddenly after this bullyish joke she is attracted to me. It shocked me to see how this world is somehow in favor of bullies. (I was not a bully, who went after certain kids , i was just a guy who joked about every kid)

[MrBON]

@North Sea Attraction is cruel and independent of human decency. One of the most successful guys in game is a complete piece of shit person but oh well, 1300 lays does not care about that (john anthony lifestyle is one im talking about)

[Star]

6 hours ago, DnoReally said:

Easier said than done, when you're not a 6'2 spiritual entrepreneur, hyper masculine, spiritually enlightened, tall, handsome, well dressed, charmful, witty, square-jawed, cross-legged meditating, kundalini-channeling, chakra-opening, maserati driving, 5-Meo plugging chad millionaire

 

no homo

I have a crush on Leo those days... I think he is sexy but not because of all the things you described... I don't even know the guy,  I don't know if he is well dressed or how tall he is... all I see it's a head on my screen.... and some of the things he is talking about are vanilla...(I already know all that Leo... I need more!!!)

But I find him sexy because of his facial expressions... 

Women don't get turned on exclusively by men's  height

[Lyubov]

13 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

You think being bald is not a consistent downside in dating? It's like having one hand tied behind your back in a boxing match.

I don't think it's really comparable to being short or even a disadvantage for most guys. A well kept shaved head (no grandpa hair on the side with a bald top) is a hairstyle and looks really good on most men and is considered a masculine style. Also facial hair plays a role as well. It really isn't comparable at all to being a short guy.

 

Edited January 5, 2021 by Lyubov

[Rilles]

1 hour ago, Lyubov said:

I don't think it's really comparable to being short or even a disadvantage for most guys. A well kept shaved head (no grandpa hair on the side with a bald top) is a hairstyle and looks really good on most men and is considered a masculine style. Also facial hair plays a role as well. It really isn't comparable at all to being a short guy.

 

"Being bald is not so bad" *Compares Leo to the top 5 most masculine men in the world* LMAO.