My driving instructor who is very good with women and has had lots of women his life just told me this. He would meet a girl, and just have a playful and friendly convo with her (not in a beta way), then ask her out or ask her for dinner at his place. His golden rule was to never do anything at the first date.  Just have nice convo and dinner, make her feel like you’re a guy that she wants in her life and make her feel comfortable. Of course he said to flirt with her but not in a needy way. 
  So he would never fuck and rarely kiss on the first date. But he said that this is what seperates him from other guys and why those women always came back for him, because hes not needy. Anyone else have experience with this strategy?