Need advice on giving people advice

[Zak]

Since I am an actualizing and do some spiritual works here and there. Obviously I always see where and why things are wrong in real life, which means, with friends, family and some random people.

My problem:

Whenever I give people advice, I feel really good and energetic, but the minute I am done with it. I start to regret. When I say regret, it means, reminding it wears me out and I keep thinking like; why did I give him this advice or her/my family. I don't care, I am not there to just motivate people.

Why do I always feel like that? Do you guys think I am selfish or stingy or maybe some fk?

And do you guys feel the same way or is it just me?

[Roy]

That's unusual @Zak. I imagine it might be because the advice giving is coming from your ego. It's possible you're not doing it out of genuine compassion or care, but just because you want to seem "right" and smart. That feeling of regret is coming after because in reflection your subconscious might know this, but you don't.

Could I be right about this or no?

Edited July 1, 2020 by Roy