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Alternative Healing - Leo help me please

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Hey,

I’m really really desperate. A year ago I underwent circumcision to fix my phimosis. The surgeon cut off too much skin, which results in pain and uncomfortable erections. Even while flaccid it’s extremely annoying and disallows me to do a lot of stuff. The overall experience really sucks beyond words.

I consulted several urologists already, but none of them could help me. I was searching the internet for months, but there simply is no technique to reverse the damage. I could wait for regenerative medicine, but that‘s still extremely far away.

The only way would be regenerating it by myself. Abraham Hicks speaks a lot about these things. There‘s a guy named Joe Dispenza who speaks about the achievement of such miraculous healing. I mean Jesus reportedly walked on water, transformed water into wine, healed the lepers, attached an ear that has been cut off. I just don’t trust all of it really ..

I‘m 22 and I just can‘t deal with it. Everyday I‘m on the verge of suicide because I can‘t take it anymore. I don‘t want no more..

@Leo Gura please help me .. You’re my last hope

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Sorry buddy, that's a medical issue and I'm no doctor.


You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity.

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@Leo Gura doctors can‘t really help me, I met specialists from all kind of areas, but you simply can‘t do nothing. Every procedure is so risky that it wouldn‘t make sense to undergo it according to them..

Isn‘t there any possibility manipulate this dream?

Is Abraham Hicks bullshitting people with that? Is everything that Jesus did bullshit? I mean I remember you saying you can now “understand how he transformed water into wine, he simply imagined it“.

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@Dutch guy but I want normal sex. For me it’s not about the orgasm per se. It’s about the experience, the closeness, everything, it’s just fked up

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@Dutch guy still your meat needs to be involved. If you sense pain this will just reduce your fun immensely and will hinder you to really let go

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I'm guessing you are already aware of this but, I've heard it's possible to bring back the foreskin partially by tugging the skin slowly over a long period of time.

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@deso buy a foreskin restoration device and connect it to your penile. And have it there for 6 hours a day and it will grow back and be more loose than it was before. 


Love life and your Health, INFJ Visionary

 

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You need to spend more time desensitising the glans. This means deliberately touching and rubbing it with fingers. Make sure to put some oil or lube to prevent too much discomfort. After circumcision, the sensitivity should be reduced after some time if it isn't maybe you are just no allowing it to. You have to do this every single day. In the morning and in the evening. 

Make sure not to chase unicorns and flying castles by trying to reverse an irreversible procedure. 


“If you find yourself acting to impress others, or avoiding action out of fear of what they might think, you have left the path.” ― Epictetus

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@Michael569 nah nah. Holdup dear friend. Circumcision is a reversible procesure. Quarter million men around the world have restored their foreskins. Using tugging on the remaining skin from the shaft which grows from your body and covers up the glans. 


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@Raze @diamondpenguin I know, but the skin is already full of stretch marks, the scarring is really bad, you can’t stretch it really anymore

I don’t want to die, but I can’t live with this, my life is over

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6 minutes ago, diamondpenguin said:

@Michael569 nah nah. Holdup dear friend. Circumcision is a reversible procesure. Quarter million men around the world have restored their foreskins. Using tugging on the remaining skin from the shaft which grows from your body and covers up the glans. 

that’s a process that takes years, and you can only stretch the outer skin, it’s not the same afterwards either, just some more skin, most of the functions are still gone

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@deso well I guess its better than being exposed 


Love life and your Health, INFJ Visionary

 

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@diamondpenguin I just can‘t believe that I have done this to myself. I don‘t have the energy left to go through years of restoration. I‘m traumatized and I can‘t invest hours everyday into that. Due to the stretch marks and the scarring it would be even more complicated. 

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41 minutes ago, deso said:

@Raze @diamondpenguin I know, but the skin is already full of stretch marks, the scarring is really bad, you can’t stretch it really anymore

I don’t want to die, but I can’t live with this, my life is over

This is surely really difficult, but you are letting your ego (identity) take over and give you needless suffering. Notice how extreme your dialogue is, "I can't live with this", "my life is over". Talk to a therapist, let your irritation be your spiritual teacher, in that respect it can be a large advantage. You can keep looking for alternative methods, even if you don't have perfect function back you can still have a fulfilling sex life. Even if it takes time, that time is going to pass anyway.

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7 minutes ago, Raze said:

This is surely really difficult, but you are letting your ego (identity) take over and give you needless suffering. Notice how extreme your dialogue is, "I can't live with this", "my life is over". Talk to a therapist, let your irritation be your spiritual teacher, in that respect it can be a large advantage. You can keep looking for alternative methods, even if you don't have perfect function back you can still have a fulfilling sex life. Even if it takes time, that time is going to pass anyway.

I was in therapy for a long time. Just due to self hate I did this to myself. I guess my only option is to love the shit out of everything now and to become Christ himself.

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@deso sometimes surrendering is the only way. If you cannot have sex normally, you may need to surrender the desire for sex.


I am the only thing stopping myself from receiving infinite Love form Myself. I am Infinite Love for god sake.

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@deso If you are really affected by the problem and it caused you depression, you may need to see a therapist.


I am the only thing stopping myself from receiving infinite Love form Myself. I am Infinite Love for god sake.

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@deso i‘ll chop that into pieces now! that’s actually what you are already doing in an unproductive way - try to treat every issue with a different approach - you want an overall healing, a fast treat, as hard as this is, this won’t happen, there is not: like before, but there are approaches - try to heal the pain first! i‘m not really familiar with how that hurts as i have different physique due to being of the other human species. although the approach to focus on scar treatment at first like @Michael569 recommends sounds at least making sense for the pain. you have never thought about what it would be like birthing did you? try to get yourself together and love your stretch marks like a mother would do. #self-love

i‘m sure if you are patient with your healing you will see and find steady healing. 

this is a pragmatic approach. don’t give up!

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