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i am a sikh who has long hair , beard and wears turban , is it possible for me to get a hot girlfriend. is it possible to get a girlfriend without doing anything with my hair


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@kireet in Punjab there are so many people like you and many of them have girlfriends too, if they can have girlfriends then why not you ?

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@Elton i know brother , but i live here in the US and here is a very different culture than  Punjab ..... and i still think many confuse us (sikhs) with muslims , which automatically makes us a target for islamophobic people 


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"God has become man; man will become God again"

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all you need is confidence and faith in yourself and most importantly you need to respect yourself to feel you deserve her or anything in the world and everything can be yours

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@kireet are you interested in marriage ? Cause you can find many Indians on marriage apps even in us.

However the basic things to attract girla are the follows 

1. Authenticity

2. Confidence

3. Humor 

4. Non neediness 

5. Having dirty amazing sex.

I have tried this and it works. Don't believe me try it for yourself. Actulized.org is the source of this information..

Also use little tricks here and there for instant attraction 

5 seconds look at lips 

3 seconds eyes  in a conversation with a girl. ;-) 

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@Elton Thanks for the amazing tips brother .... i am definitely planning on reading and researching on this topic from actualized.org and from leo 's videos . i am not interested i marriage and ultimately want to pursue enlightenment . 

i just want to fulfill this  desire by being in a high consciousness relationship and if it works out maybe even marriage . but as leo suggested in his 65 core principles to live a good life , that we should satisfy our base needs so that they don't pull us back during the process of self actualization .


"All troubles come to an end when the ego dies"

"God has become man; man will become God again"

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I know many turban wearing friends here in Canada who don’t seem to have trouble dating inter-racially.

Obviously, a long-term relationship like a marriage would be difficult because of religious differences, but I wouldn’t say it’s impossible. I know Sikhs with turbans who are married to white Christian women.

Just present yourself well, have a nice personality, approach women, learn about US culture and keep an open mind.


“Many talk like philosophers yet live like fools.” — Proverb

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@kireet trip advice on YouTube along with Leo's vedios did the trick for me.

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36 minutes ago, kireet said:

@Elton Thanks for the amazing tips brother .... i am definitely planning on reading and researching on this topic from actualized.org and from leo 's videos . 

Your most welcome brother.

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2 hours ago, kireet said:

without doing anything with my hair

Keep your hair well-groomed. Look SHARP.

This is also very much a cultural thing. It depends where you're trying to attract girls. Girls in the US have certain cultural expectations. If you go in the club smelling like curry, well, good luck.


You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity.

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@Leo Gura Thanks for the advice man !!!

26 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

If you go in the club smelling like curry, well, good luck

hahahaha  

well I'm certainly not going to the club smelling  like curry ;)


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"God has become man; man will become God again"

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4 hours ago, kireet said:

i am a sikh who has long hair , beard and wears turban.

Kind of punjabi Look??


All of your life you have been told that God created you. God come now to tell you this:  You are creating God❤️

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@Hardik yes brother 


"All troubles come to an end when the ego dies"

"God has become man; man will become God again"

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9 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

If you go in the club smelling like curry, well, good luck.

Wtf lol

(random but: white people often smell like cheese to foreign Asians, probably the relatively dairy-rich diet. Ofc curry is smellier AND tastier though)

If you go in the club smelling bad regardless, good luck. 


"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it" -Rumi

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12 hours ago, kireet said:

i am a sikh who has long hair , beard and wears turban , is it possible for me to get a hot girlfriend. is it possible to get a girlfriend without doing anything with my hair

Yes! confidence, humour, charisma and alladat

I know a Sikh turbaned guy who did this all the time (got white and other girls)

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"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it" -Rumi

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@Moon thanks for the confidence boost!!!

 


"All troubles come to an end when the ego dies"

"God has become man; man will become God again"

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