Preety_India

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Narcissists

 

First degree - those that are extreme opportunists and extract the best for themselves with no regard for ecosystem, other people. Everything including people are for their service 

 

Second degree - not exactly as selfish as the first degree but egotistical, treat good people Unkindly and take them for granted and rally along those who are popular and ride on their coattails. 

Covert narcissists belong to this category. 

 

Third degree - the narcissists at stage blue that use dogma to enforce their survival and ego. 


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Crystal clear

Infinite beauty 

Never take a lot of emotional risk.. 

 

Silent Observer 

Artist archetype 

Life is all about 

The play of life 

The Juice 

 

Best of both worlds 

Devils advocate 

Middle ground. 

 

 

Blurred lines

Perfectionist 

 

Flaws 

Magnificence 

Principles 

Savvy 

Reptilian 

Walking on a tight rope

The balancing act 

The juggling act 

The play of life 

Enforcer

Walking on thin ice 

Passion 

Wisdom

The brain and the heart 

The Hexagon 

The Octagon 

 

Art

 

Do not have the perfectionist mindset when dealing with others 

 

Flaws are for a reason. Some flaws make you a natural person 

 

When a person is generic, give them some time and you will see them creating something magnificent, but you need patience for that. 

It depends if you want to live by your ego, by your paradigm, by your survival, by your worldview or by righteousness. The choice is yours 

Personally I like to live by principles

My motto is 

If the body dies its OK, but the principle should not die. 

I try to tiptoe between good and evil, kinda blurred lines. I want to see the difference between the two 

 

You have to be savvy as well as spiritual 

I always dig into the reptilian aspect 

This is like holding a stick and walking on a tight rope 

I always believe that life is like walking on thin ice. 

It's like a fine balancing act 

A fine juggling act 

You have be enforcer as well as spiritual. 

I want to move from soft spirituality to hard spirituality 

Sometimes people cannot understand the depth of your thinking 

To skim the ocean is a monumental work. 

 

How can you bring the brain and the heart together? 

You have to be passionate with your heart but also think with your brain 

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                                         Self definition or Self description    

 

If I have to describe myself 

My main qualities or traits are 

 

I'm very loving 

 

Very empathetic and sensitive and emotional 

 

I'm true to myself... I speak my mind 

 

Purpose driven 

 

I'm extremely faithful 

These are my major strengths or qualities.

 

The above 5 sentences define my personality and character. At least this is my self observation.

The other qualities that are moderately in me are

Deep thinker 

Inquisitive 

Passionate 

I demand respect and dignity 

I believe in diligence 

Openness and Open mindedness 

 

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Kindness lies in what impact your words are going to have. 

And kindness lies in action. 

 

 


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Always be surrounded by the alphabet people and not the number people. 

 

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I'm trying to come up with strategies on how to reconcile with something that is both repelling and productive at the same time. 

Two sentences that can help me 

Instead of harboring anger and hate because that's going to only make you feel worse 

Rise above the bullshit 

The universe is always calling you for a greater purpose. 

Focus on the resources and less on the people who produce those resources. 

 

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You can't expect your environment to be perfect. 

You have to grow in the environment you are given

 


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I think the best way around this is to focus on ideas and books and resources and concepts and techniques and things and art and not so much on people. 

Because what happens is that, since man is a social animal, the situation unwittingly ends up with him being in a setting surrounded by a lot of toxicity, usually coming from people and this is unavoidable and inevitable. 

Maybe this is why humanity is shit 

Not trying to come across as a misanthrope, but truth is what the truth is and the sooner you realize the better. 

In the end I feel like I always end up feeling a bit unpleasant and lonely like an outcast the way I felt when I was in college. 

But I guess that's what the universe is trying to say. 

I mean looking at the whole world sometimes, it feels like the universe is trying to make a point by mirroring the world to us and when you find your way through this tedious and tricky labyrinth of humanity, you end up with the same conclusion. 

 

 


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Accept people for who they are and what they are and let it go and although this is difficult because the social centers of the brain don't align with reality, this is the way to be. 

 

And the only thing to tell your social brain is - Overcome that neediness and channel it into other things. 

 

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I remember starting my first journal entry here. My first journal and not this one. It was called Zen digger. And it's content was really about dealing with toxic people and then it went to places and insights I never expected I'd have. 

But once again I'm faced with the same question.. And today there are better answers to older questions. 

I came through a long way and on the way I learned a lot. 

And that's what's important. 

When you overcome your situations and conditions, you become your greater self. And those who didn't have these conditions will never know what it means to become you and forever be deprived of the self you have become. 

 

When they are not grateful for what they have they are not going to be happy. But when you are grateful for what you have, you'll have happiness that they can never have. 

Because you're the chosen one. So when you are molded by those bad situations or conditions, you were placed for a reason, the universe chose you to make a point, you were chosen for persecution, you were chosen to overcome, because you were chosen to be purified through your wisdom, through your trials and hardships, you were chosen to become the greater self. You were chosen to make a point and bring glory to the universe. You are the chosen one. 

Because only through suffering comes greatness, only through pain comes intelligence, only through deprivation comes love. 

 

 

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Crystal clear

Infinite beauty 

Never take a lot of emotional risk.. 

Silent Observer 

Artist archetype 

Life is all about 

The play of life 

The Juice 

Best of both worlds 

Devils advocate 

Middle ground. 

Blurred lines

Perfectionist 

Flaws 

Magnificence 

Principles 

Savvy 

Reptilian 

Walking on a tight rope

The balancing act 

The juggling act 

 

Enforcer

Walking on thin ice 

Passion 

Wisdom

The brain and the heart 

The Hexagon 

The pentagon 

The Octagon 

Art

Outside perspective 

The play of life 

 

 

 

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