How to turn "survival" into LOVE...

[Existence]

55 minutes ago, Derek White said:

Survival is love. ?‍♂️

Right now you identify as a child of your parents. Just change your identity to a student. 

Tell your self that you are a student and that you like studying, it’s as simple as that. Get this deep in your psyche with visualization. Of course it should feel authentic, if not then be someone else.

But wouldn't that would create further IMAGES/identities that would want itself to be preserved/survived.

Edited December 12, 2019 by Existence

[Existence]

On 12/12/2019 at 10:56 AM, Byun Sean said:

Bite that bullet and surrender to the possibility that you may not live up to the expectations of your parents.

Thanks a lot for the tip. As far i know from my previous experiences is that ,when i'd try to let go/surrounder the identity, the mechanism will produce many negative emotions and other painful stuffs via subconscious mind to keep itself alive. Can you elaborate on how to deal with those?

Edited December 14, 2019 by Existence

[Derek White]

@Existence I don’t think you understand survival. Your want to get rid of survival is also motivated by survival. Your want to learn is also survival. If you want to avoid ‘negative emotions’ as you have stated, then you’re still surviving. 

You might transcend survival if you realize your true self. Survival goes deep; deeper than mere mental images. Animals don’t have mental images but they still survive... This might be too advanced.

I think you should just focus on being a good learner which doesn’t necessarily mean getting high grades. Then maybe you can learn about survival and transcend it. Hope this helps. Just be curious. ? 

[Existence]

@Derek White

Thanks.