Should i approch girls even though i see my self being ugly?

[Peo]

I always think people see my as being ugly, since i was born with something called cleft palate. You can look it up. It is not that bad since i have had great  surgeons have fixed a lot of it. When i first started in school, kids used to look at me and i used to be teased for my mouth that crippled my self esteem. 

When i started in middle school kids were more mature and no one looked at my mouth anymore and never mention it. Somethimes i forgot that i had calf palate. This helped my to slowly recover my self esteem. Even some hot girls liked to talk to me, but my self essteam was low at that time. I just said a bunch of cringe stuff to these girls. I had 0 skils with girls. I think they liked me though.

It was only in high school my self esteem began to flower. Although the cleft palate reduce my self essteam a lot still. I love my physical looks and my face except the cleft palate. My surgeons say they can remove the cleft palate 100% before the next summer. Should i wait or should i just start and approch girls? I will get rejected even after the surgery anyway so what is even the point of waiting. Should i just own my looks and love my self and work on dating skills in stead of worrying about my looks?

Should i wait or do i just start right now and approch girls?

[Nak Khid]

Approach now,  it will be a great victory.   You will not get this opportunity again

[TrynaBeTurquoise]

Start approaching ASAP, you want a girl that doesn't care about the cleft palate. What if you were to wait till its fixed and you were to get a girl that wouldn't have said yes to you before it was fixed? Wouldn't you want it the other way around? This is a major opportunity to work on your self esteem like @Nak Khid  said. And jut know you are not ugly, its just something you were born with and doesn't take away from your beauty unless you let it. 

[Ananta]

2 hours ago, Peo said:

Should i just own my looks and love my self and work on dating skills in stead of worrying about my looks?

Own it. Love yourself. Work it. Stop worrying.??

[Preety_India]

Nobody is ugly. 

 

 

 

[Arcangelo]

Approach. Let rejection be your best friend, say: -''OK'' with a big smile and move on.

 

Arc