LeoX8

Where i should approach girls?

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The main doubt/excuse  is this: I have a fear that if I'm going to approach a girl on the bus, on the way to school or even in school or in my town, people will start say that I'm a weirdo that talks to strangers and the consequenses that this might have scares me. 

So, are there other places where I can go to meet new people or I should brake through my fears?

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According to what people have said on the forum and what i have read about dating then the best places are:

Night club, bar, the street where a lot of people go by, mall and parties if your in school. 

I don't think it is a good idea to approach girls at a library or the gym. 

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@Peo Actually I had my first success at a Night Club, but i didnt likes the way things turned out.

Thanks a lot for the advice!

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@LeoX8 Bars and clubs is a good way to start, because everyone is there for the same kind of thing - socialising. 

Go to places where there are big groups of people socialising, catching girls off guard can be a bit creepy and messy.

Or I might be wrong! 

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@RawJudah

1 hour ago, RawJudah said:

@LeoX8Go to places where there are big groups of people socialising, catching girls off guard can be a bit creepy and messy.

Yeah, I can understand, thanks for the advice!!

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16 hours ago, LeoX8 said:

The main doubt/excuse  is this: I have a fear that if I'm going to approach a girl on the bus, on the way to school or even in school or in my town, people will start say that I'm a weirdo that talks to strangers and the consequenses that this might have scares me. 

So, are there other places where I can go to meet new people or I should brake through my fears?

Hehehe...

You will ALWAYS have that fear. That fear is not going to go away no matter which location you go to.

It takes 1000s of approaches to start to get fearless. Until then, expects lots of fear. Approach despite the fear.

Bus, sidewalk, cafe, mall, store, school... it's all the same.

If it looks wierd it's because your mind imagines it so, and also because you are doing it in an uncool/creepy way. When done well an approach is never creepy or weird, regardless of location.

You can even aproach a kissing couple on a park bench and have fun flirting with his girl. It's all in how you do it.

You can even approach while she is with her mother and father and flirt with the whole family! Again, this requires some serious skill, so don't start here.

The best location to start is bars and clubs because you can get away with a lot less skill and there are 10x more opportunities so you can blow up interactions without worry. During the day time you need to be much more precise than at night. Day time presents much less opportunities so you gotta strike with precision and skill.


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@Leo Gura I guess that I don't have any excuses left... 

You have been pretty complete and exhaustive, thanks Leo!!

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