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No Nut November

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1 hour ago, youngshinzen said:

 

  • Will try to make it a nightly ritual to watch spicy videos and move the energy

@youngshinzen I feel tempted to do that, but isn't that sabotage and make it harder to handle in short term? Also, how do you deal with the boner, you just let it die after the video and isn't that difficult? I feel that It's the same as promissing something and not finishing. And for how long you move the energy, the full video? how do you decide It's time to finish? Thanks, I'm really curious about it!

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@lennart  aw man.

I WILL SURVIVE FOR YOU. I WILL SEE THE END FOR BOTH OF US.😭

Day 10: 5/10

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I DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH LONGER I CAN SURVIVE. 

I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE 

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

I'M GOING TO DIE

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day 11: 4/10

got pretty hard at night.

 

I CAN DO ITTT. I WILL DO IT. I WILL DO IT. I WILL MAKE IT OUT ALIVE.

Last night, and right now I have too much physical energy.

I have to be very careful about where I am. I've been staying in my room and there have been many close calls.

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Day 1: 1/10

 

Relapsed yesterday night, started again today.

It got pretty hard during night sleep, I just felt a strong urge, my physical energy is too high and thoughts were high.

Things to not do: Watch porn or anything Implying sexual activities (easier said than done) and waste more energy.

 

Stats and Insights

Current Record: 7 Days

November Nuts: 2 Times

- Increased Confidence, Self-worth and more energy;

- Higher connection around woman;

- A sense of being more in the present moment.

 

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4 hours ago, Proactive said:

day 11: 4/10

got pretty hard at night.

 

I CAN DO ITTT. I WILL DO IT. I WILL DO IT. I WILL MAKE IT OUT ALIVE.

Last night, and right now I have too much physical energy.

I have to be very careful about where I am. I've been staying in my room and there have been many close calls.

Have you tried going to the gym and taking cold showers? That would help a lot - you need use your energy on to something else, not just sit in your room

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@oMarcos I do it intuitively, no special rule about how long or whatever else. Google "multiple orgasms men" and you‘ll find good info on how to exercise that.

@Raptorsin7 Thanks!  
@Proactive Use that energy! Do some research on how to use it for spiritual purposes or go workout, but don‘t just stay in your room passively. The energy is the best part about it

@dvdas Welcome😊

Day12: 7/10

  • crazy how the attraction to women has increased, it should always be like that
  • I had the best boxing training yet, less crippling fear
  • watched porn and moved the energy through my body by visualizing it flowing into my head and going back down
  • I felt very clear and awake in my mind after that

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Joining this thread.

Bit of a backstory, longest I've gone in the past on nofap was 7-8 days probably like 6-7 years ago when I was into this girl. Ever since, I haven't cared too much about going on a long nofap streak. Now last month is when I decided that maybe I should do this again. Main reason for starting again is because I want a girlfriend. There's also this girl I'm interested in, but haven't had a conversation with her yet so that's another reason why I'm on this challenge. Plus I did Kundalini yoga for a bit and I had a desire to clean up certain parts of my life.

Started last month, got to 7 days but relapsed on Nov 2. But now its currently day 12 for me, although day 12 hasn't started for me yet because its currently 2am.

Though I will say what I've noticed so far and what I noticed on Day 10 and 11.

Day 10 was a night at work for me, I work in a vegan restaurant. I'm interested in one of the servers, but haven't had the guts to start a conversation with her like I mentioned above. I have a feeling this girl knows I'm interested, previously we've made lots of eye contact, and she has shown me several signs of trying to get my attention. Despite all this, I haven't done the simplest task to go and talk to her, really. On day 10, I haven't seen her in 2 weeks, I told myself I'd approach her but it didn't happen. But its weird because it seems like she's playing games by ignoring me. My assumption is that she thinks I'm playing games too because it probably seems like I'm the one also ignoring her, but in reality I just have mixed feelings.

Other things I've noticed at work that night on Day 10, one of the new female servers tried to talk to me by asking questions about something. Another female server that I never even talked to before walked by me and said "Hi" for the first time. And another server who is friends with my crush giggles when I do something or walk by. Which always happens though. I don't know if she's attracted to me or if its the fact that my crush talks about me?

Day 11, had a day off, forced myself to get out of the house, so I don't stay stuck on the computer, so I searched for nearby social events. Luckily I found an event about how to meet people anywhere. We did some social experiments with eye-contact, conversation skills, and learned about human interaction in general. The fact that I joined a last minute event is great. This shows me that I'm serious about obtaining a relationship and meeting new people, and I could say that its partially because of nofap.

Just now, I'm on my computer with free time, and I'll be honest with myself I watched some porn. But didn't nut, gladly.

Personal Tips:

- STAY AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER OR CELLPHONE AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. With all the free time, browsing social media like Instagram looking at hot models, can trigger the desire to do PMO. The reason I got to day 12 is that I kept myself busy. I work full time at night, and get home at 1-2am. As soon as I get home I usually go to bed, so keep yourself busy.

- Block any sites, put a password on it. There are some browser plug-ins to help you with this.

- I know I said it already but saying it again, the best advice is to keep yourself busy. Get out of the house, don't spend so much time on the computer.


"Intellectual growth should commence at birth and cease only at death." - Albert Einstein

 

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I failed this morning. I independently decided I was going to attempt to not masturbate the entire month of November. A few days ago, my girlfriend said "so apparently theres this thing called "no nut November?" I had not heard of it at this point.

 

I have been waking up at 5am just about every morning since I was 7 or 8 years old and Ive always enjoyed my solitude in the hours when I was the only one awake. I was awake, I had a glass of hot lemon water and then decided to get in the shower. I was lathering up my body and started to rub my noodle to clean under my foreskin (uncircumcised).

I had been making approaches to my girlfriend for the past few nights to initiate intercourse. She likes to sleep naked, so when we climb into bed, I can usually get her warmed up by some soft kissing on the back of her neck and just by pressing my semi erect tool into her nice round behind, but she just hasnt been into it the past few days. Ive had to go to bed with my heartrate at about 130bpm just because of how aroused I was.

But when I started to rub myself down there this morning... I just couldn't stop. I just couldnt take my hands off myself. But, to be honest, I wasn't super disappointed in myself, because I wasn't watching porn. I had a really nice, wholesome, thoroughly enjoyed climax and man do I feel like a million bucks today!!

Theres still more than 2 weeks left to the month, time to start over!

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Day 1 (yesterday): 2/10. I am motivated to start over because I could really tell a difference.

Day 2: 2/10

been very busy....

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@whoareyou

@youngshinzen

Thank to you guys I survived yesterday 😁

 

@MNR Mackey @7thLetter @dvdas  WELCOME TO THE DARKEST JOURNEY OF YOUR LIFE. Eat all the nuts you can before you start.

 

day 12: 7/10 I stayed home basically all day yesterday. Kept on going onto sites. I was unable to focus on anything. Due to just being one of those days. The urges weren't that strong. I just didn't have anything to focus my energy on. I should've exercised

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Day13: 3/10

  • it seems like the full moon yesterday also influenced my energy
  • less horny today, but still watching porn every now and then to activate energy

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Day 2: 3/10

 

@7thLetter camon man, you guys work on the same place, how come you don't have anything to say at all

 

 

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day 13: 4/10 - I made more eyecontact with strangers. A full 3000 milliseconds more. 

I'm going to assume as time goes on, the eye contact gets longer and longer and longer.

 

Otherwise not too much urges except for at night.


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Day 3: 3/10

 

Thinking about sex a lot, but not feeling urges, I will make sure to think about other stuff and waste energy.

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Day: 1. Relapsed today mainly cause nothing to do, sat at comp all day. Also relapsed 2 days ago. It always happens when you don't keep yourself busy. Not going to be hard on myself about it though.

@oMarcos I'm a cook she's a server and I always wait for the perfect moment. too focused on the job. easier if I was a server and we worked together tbh. BUT, not to make all that an excuse. I'm slowly progressing. Will see her like 4 days next week, and WILL say something in one or all days.

 


"Intellectual growth should commence at birth and cease only at death." - Albert Einstein

 

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