Alters?

[FabulousKitchen]

If trauma from young age still interrupts behavior, will that trauma response ruin the intimacy of relationship?

Is that going to be shame worthy? Is it something to be embarrassed about?  Also, should people in a relationship be aware of these traumas to "fix" or heal, or to have safe space for? Should this be healed alone, or within the couple dynamic? or both?

Edited August 25, 2019 by FabulousKitchen
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[loub]

There cannot be intimacy while one of you still hides traumas. The good news is that traumas can be worked through and that relationships can be used as an effective vessel towards that end.

[FabulousKitchen]

@loub thank you, that helps in a reassuring way.