Are other people conscious?

[MM1988]

If I am the creator of my reality and my vibration chooses the external reality Im presented with (Law of attraction), what about other people in this scenario?

If my higher selve wants to experience what its like to lose a loved one and that person ends up in hospital dying, or due to my thoughts, my higher selve chooses that this experience is not relevant for my particular exploration of consciousness, what happens from the other persons point of view? 

Either Im manipulating their life, or they are not conscious like me, They are both not sounding right. 

How does this work?

Edited March 25, 2019 by MM1988

[Nahm]

If you are the creator of reality are you a person - therefore are there other people?

Is there a source of negative, are you able to attract for ‘other people’?    How does that play out relatively with other people in your experience?