aclokay

Breaking up with GF every time I get disappointed

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I have a cycle where I want to see my girlfriend, but she's busy so I break up with her only to come crawling back.

This is horrible, in the past month I broke up with her every week and she still accepted me back, I don't know if she's going to accept me this time.

I promised i will stop, but the moment she tells me "No, I wanna study at home, not at yours", I get really offended and immediately explode and dump her. 

I think I understand why it's happening, but the emotion keep coming back and I keep behaving in this way and feeling guilty for my own emotional pain and she doesn't deserve it. 

Any suggestions? Should I go to therapy? I don't think this is about her..

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@aclokay you think you own her.

ditch porn and masturbation asap. you're misunderstanding the goal of a relationship. what if she's just disgusted and doesn't want to be with you because you drain her, like a vampire?


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Maybe you need some alone time to rethink the whole situation. It's not okay to drain her that way, If she needs to study, tell her ok, you see her another day. It's really that simple. She really tries to build her future that's why she studies, you should too. She's not there to entertain you. Seeing her once or twice a week tops should be fairly enough. 

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