hikmatshiraliyev

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Hey guys, i will have sex tonight after a long dry spell. I ejaculate too early, and do not want this to happen tonight. Can you give me some advice? Should i buy those spesific condoms to delay ejaculation?

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Probably too late, you might have already cum.

Try to pull the pelvic floor up. You can practice doing it while masturbating. You can go for 45+ mins, which you need to give the woman a vaginal orgasm.


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- Quit porn.

- Focus on your breath during penetration.

- When you feel the urge to ejaculate, stop! Take a few seconds pause and then go on. 

 

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On 2/10/2019 at 4:37 PM, Psychonaut said:

You can go for 45+ mins, which you need to give the woman a vaginal orgasm.

Unless you get lucky and get a girl like I did who orgasms in just under 5 mins :D

OP:

Familiar with the male refractory period? You can't get off again until so much time. Have her suck you off until you ejaculate, then fuck. I can keep going for a long time via this method.

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57 minutes ago, Shadowraix said:

You can go for 45+ mins, which you need to give the woman a vaginal orgasm.

Good lord! You're definitely doing it wrong.

Work on your foreplay game.

And learn to use 'em fingers.


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On 2/10/2019 at 1:52 PM, hikmatshiraliyev said:

Hey guys, i will have sex tonight after a long dry spell. I ejaculate too early, and do not want this to happen tonight. Can you give me some advice? Should i buy those spesific condoms to delay ejaculation?

The easiest way I found to not even have to worry about this is to allow yourself to cum early if it happens. If you are worrying about cumming too early you will ruin the whole immersion of the experience. And the girl cares much more about you being in the moment than you being able to last a lot on the first go.

If you cum early, smile, get your dick out, condom out, but continue to kiss her, finger her and eat her out until your dick gets hard again. This should be done very smoothly. She will not even notice it that much. It will not be a problem for her unless it's a problem for you. She will read it on your face. If you sub-communicate that even that was hella hot, she will buy into it too. When you get hard again you will be able to go at it for more than one hour. Problem solved

Just be in the moment and let whatever happens, happen, being confident that you can handle whatever comes your way. You are a man after all, aren't you?


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23 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Good lord! You're definitely doing it wrong.

Work on your foreplay game.

And learn to use 'em fingers.

Can you elaborate? The time frame of 45 minutes is mainly from David Deida's books. 


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@Psychonaut It should not take 45 minutes of sex to make a woman cum.


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Doesn't matter if you ejaculate early, just continue to fuck.

I'm not particularly healthy, and don't have a high sex drive and can do it, so I assume anyone can.


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5 hours ago, Shin said:

Doesn't matter if you ejaculate early, just continue to fuck.

Depends on the type of birth control being used. Not a good idea if using a condom as birth control.

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14 minutes ago, Serotoninluv said:

Depends on the type of birth control being used. Not a good idea if using a condom as birth control.

Just change the condom ? xD


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It does not take 45 minutes to make a girl cum.

If you learn good fingering technique, you will be able to make your woman cum in under 10 minutes :)

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2 hours ago, Iksander said:

It does not take 45 minutes to make a girl cum.

If you learn good fingering technique, you will be able to make your woman cum in under 10 minutes :)

Depends on the woman and the chemistry. Some women have issues climaxing, especially with guys. It can take them time to develop the relationship, trust and security before they can let go and orgasm. As well, women that have been maltreated sexually by men may have a more difficult time. A woman is more than an instrument one plays with their fingers. Connecting with their mind and emotions is often as important or more important than how you rub their clitoris.

Assuming one can make a woman cum in under 10 minutes is a bit naive and can put unnecessary expectations and pressure on the emotional and sexual aspect of the relationship. Real life isn't always like a 10min porn clip.

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Nonsense, A true master does not need fingers at all. When you successfully penetrate mentally and emotionally then the physical is piece of cake.

Physical Reality and every activity in it all comes down to how well you understand and apply energy physics.

Master thyself, master reality.

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Well, I see that most people here advised you to try masturbation, but I think that it won't be enough. Did you like that girl with whom you had that dry sex, or she was a random hookup? Such thing is psychological, so the hand-practice might be a bad help. Try to practise with experienced women. If you don't want to have a real sex with a stranges, try phone or sex with some milfs (women's voice changes everything). This is a good way to control your emotions, IMO. This piece says that you can find a hottie, willing to phone-sex with you on some of these sites - https://websiteslikecraigslist.net/. Give it a try.

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