What things are shameful and consider as bad in your culture

[Beeman]

I am from 3rd world country and there so many things consider as bad in our culture. These are some of them. 

Talking to elderly people if you are boy. 

Asking people money if you are boy: for example to buy candy etc. 

If someone invited you food and you refused to eat. 

If you ask someone food, especially if you are boy. 

If you are small boy and talk with small girl. 

Talking, filtering, about sex even if you are in intimate relationship. 

 

What about in yours. 

[d0ornokey]

Bad words

Sex

Talking about sex

Looking at sex

Condoms 

Not following the herd

Breaking up with your girlfriend 

Porn 

Putting your feet on the couch when people are around

Not doing things for the family 

Not being obedient 

Carving your own path 

Not doing a STEM or comp sci field

[Sahil Pandit]

Disrespecting  your elders

 going against the herd

Having individual values that go against the values of the collective

Putting your feet on the table

Putting books on the ground

 

[Good-boy]

All cultures are bad and shameful, so I don't give a fuck about them.

Edited February 7, 2019 by Good-boy

[Zigzag Idiot]

Note: 250 years out of date,,,, 

George Washington, sometime before the age of 16, transcribed Rules of Civility & Decent Behaviour In Company and Conversation.

1st Every Action done in Company, ought to be with Some Sign of Respect, to those that are Present.

2d When in Company, put not your Hands to any Part of the Body, not usualy Discovered. 

3d Shew Nothing to your Freind that may affright him. 

4th In the Presence of Others Sing not to yourself with a humming Noise, nor Drum with your Fingers or Feet.

5th If You Cough, Sneeze, Sigh, or Yawn, do it not Loud but Privately; and Speak not in your Yawning, but put Your handkercheif or Hand before your face and turn aside. 

6th Sleep not when others Speak, Sit not when others stand, Speak not when you Should hold your Peace, walk not on when others Stop. 

7th Put not off your Cloths in the presence of Others, nor go out your Chamber half Drest. 

8th At Play and at Fire its Good manners to Give Place to the last Commer, and affect not to Speak Louder than Ordinary. 

9th Spit not in the Fire, nor Stoop low before it neither Put your Hands into the Flames to warm them, nor Set your Feet upon the Fire especially if there be meat before it. 

10th When you Sit down, Keep your Feet firm and Even, without putting one on the other or Crossing them. 

11th Shift not yourself in the Sight of others nor Gnaw your nails. 

12th Shake not the head, Feet, or Legs rowl not the Eys lift not one eyebrow higher than the other wry not the mouth, and bedew no mans face with your Spittle, by approaching too near him when you Speak.

13th Kill no Vermin as Fleas, lice ticks &c in the Sight of Others, if you See any filth or thick Spittle put your foot Dexteriously upon it if it be upon the Cloths of your Companions, Put it off privately, and if it be upon your own Cloths return Thanks to him who puts it off.

14th Turn not your Back to others especially in Speaking, Jog not the Table or Desk on which Another reads or writes, lean not upon any one.

15th Keep your Nails clean and Short, also your Hands and Teeth Clean yet without Shewing any great Concern for them. 

16th Do not Puff up the Cheeks, Loll not out the tongue rub the Hands, or beard, thrust out the lips, or bite them or keep the Lips too open or too Close. 

17th Be no Flatterer, neither Play with any that delights not to be Play'd Withal. 

18th Read no Letters, Books, or Papers in Company but when there is a Necessity for the doing of it you must ask leave: come not near the Books or Writings of Another so as to read them unless desired or give your opinion of them unask'd also look not nigh when another is writing a Letter.

19th let your Countenance be pleasant but in Serious Matters Somewhat grave. 

20th The Gestures of the Body must be Suited to the discourse you are upon. 

21st: Reproach none for the Infirmaties of Nature, nor Delight to Put them that have in mind thereof. 

22d Shew not yourself glad at the Misfortune of another though he were your enemy.

23d When you see a Crime punished, you may be inwardly Pleased; but always shew Pity to the Suffering Offender. 

24th Do not laugh too loud or too much at any Publick Spectacle. 

25th Superfluous Complements and all Affectation of Ceremonie are to be avoided, yet where due they are not to be Neglected.

[outlandish]

In my culture, many of the things that are considered "bad" I would say I align with in terms of my values. I'd say I'm Iucky to live in a pretty "stage green" corner of the world. Here are some examples:

• Judging people based on their race, gender, sexual orientation, religion and so on
• Excess displays of wealth, status
• Public displays of anger
• Spanking or hitting your children
• Sexual harassment, cat-calling women and so on
• Smoking
• Using plastic bags, straws, disposable packaging
• Driving a bigger car/truck etc than you really need
• Burning fossil fuels unnecessarily in general
• Wasting food, clothes, possessions
• Watching TV
• Leading a physically unhealthy lifestyle, diet and so on