What is your sexual polarity?

[Elton]

Also mention how did you find it. 

Did you just assume the polarity of the gender your born with or did you take the initiative to actually find out? 

I've begun my journey to find out.

New techniques is welcomed, please don't recommend books or vedios directly state the action plan. 

[Shin]

I don't know ...

I have a strong sense of purpose, but at the same time I go with the flow.

I'm logical and analytical but I'm also emotional and intuitive af.

I do love to dominate in bed, but also to let them be on top.

So confused lol 

[frnsh]

I think I have been really confused also. But took a while until I accepted that I am somewhere in the middle with both sexuality and gender. 

With the sexuality, I thought I am attracted to opposite sex when I was younger. But thinking back many times I realized how much I was also attracted to the same sex and didn't really take it to count before. Later on, actually experimenting by doing it helped to realize where am I on the scale. Now I know I am more to opposite sex but mainly because of physical aspect. In that sense, I get attached emotionally to any gender. 

About the gender (not sure if you need this also), I have always been boyish at home. It didn't bother before but at some point last year it just became a huge confusion for me while going higher in personal development so I took online tests. I am gender fluid and counted as queer in LGBTQ. Mostly I am somewhere in between but masculine and feminine sides just come out sometimes and confuse the other :D.

I suggest taking different aspects of yourself related to these more seriously. Observe when you may be attracted to the same sex or how often do you feel willing/wanting to be with one. With the gender; probably confusion could be the biggest clue, about when you are dressing/looking more masculine or feminine and how you feel like defining yourself. 

[Elton]

@frnsh im very confused and have discovered how social conditioning plays a huge role in creating gender biases. 

All I want to do is learn to have amazing sex and create an amazing relationship due to which its necessary to understand my sexual polarity. 

As per your comment seems like experimentation may help. 

[Elton]

Eversince I saw Leos vedio on how to be a man I wanted to do all that he described in that vedio.

But what if my true sexual essence is feminine?  Then I would never be able to enjoy sex?  I would never get the true flow? 

I want to fuck, cause I feel that thats what a man will do, somehow I have not yet been able to tap into this higher man.

 

[frnsh]

I don't think that Leo's video means you have to act like a male if you are a female in a male body and that if so, you can never enjoy sex! I suggest being a bit creative with those videos and consider the one for women also. 

In my experience, the true flow happens due to experience, the length you and your partner have gone to know yourselves individually and together, intimacy, acceptance of physical body and the being inside it, etc. It doesn't matter so much with whom you are having the sex with when you know you are not fitting in with the majority's norms. 

[Elton]

Yes

[LiakosN]

On 3/8/2018 at 11:06 AM, Shin said:

I don't know ...

I have a strong sense of purpose, but at the same time I go with the flow.

I'm logical and analytical but I'm also emotional and intuitive af.

I do love to dominate in bed, but also to let them be on top.

So confused lol 

Neutral...

[Shin]

1 hour ago, LiakosN said:

Neutral...

Do you mean there is a vagina behind my penis like in Predestination ? ???

[LiakosN]

@Shin hahahahah... No, I mean you might have 50% feminine and 50% masculine sexuality...

[Shin]

21 minutes ago, LiakosN said:

@Shin hahahahah... No, I mean you might have 50% feminine and 50% masculine sexuality...

Don't know about that, last time I had sex, I was doing pmo twice a day, the difference in energy is so different now.

Like now my penis burn so hard that I might become a fucking bonobo next time I am naked with a women. 

Living subject to know if pmo can really make you feminine or if it's just bullshit.

Only need a girl I really connect to find out now 

Edited March 9, 2018 by Shin

[LiakosN]

Are you still watching porn and masturbate like teen ager? ???

Edited March 10, 2018 by LiakosN

[Shin]

2 minutes ago, LiakosN said:

Are you still watching and masturbate like teen ager? ???

Only masturbated once in 3 months, didn'nt watched porn for a year ???