Shin

NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

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Ugh i relapsed to porn yesterday after almost 3 months... Can't believe i'm still going back to that crap even though it's done so much damage to my life and is still doing today... Yay

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You're going to relapse even more if you judge yourself.

Love yourself :)


God is love

Whoever lives in love lives in God

And God in them

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1 hour ago, Winter said:

Just found the reasonable person!

and even that is already a Huge mission for me

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I seriously consider to fap once every two weeks when I'm on vacation.

Once every month or longer when I'm working.

That's not a pipe dream, that's just what happens when the addiction wears off.


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4 hours ago, Shin said:

I seriously consider to fap once every two weeks when I'm on vacation.

Once every month or longer when I'm working.

That's not a pipe dream, that's just what happens when the addiction wears off.

I can't even do just that. Even if i just fap without porn, i get extremely tired and lose all my motivation to do anything.

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15 minutes ago, Psyche_92 said:

I can't even do just that. Even if i just fap without porn, i get extremely tired and lose all my motivation to do anything.

If you're young it's probably harder, and if you just begun too.


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27 minutes ago, Psyche_92 said:

I can't even do just that. Even if i just fap without porn, i get extremely tired and lose all my motivation to do anything.

 

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58 minutes ago, Shin said:

If you're young it's probably harder, and if you just begun too.

I'm 26 and trying to quit for 5 years.. lol

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55 minutes ago, Psyche_92 said:

I'm 26 and trying to quit for 5 years.. lol

How much time per day were you fapping 5 years ago ?

And now ?


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1 hour ago, Shin said:

How much time per day were you fapping 5 years ago ?

And now ?

5 years ago every day at least once sometimes more. Today i'm not fapping everyday. More like 5 times a month maybe. It depends. If i relapse i tend to binge..

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9 minutes ago, Psyche_92 said:

5 years ago every day at least once sometimes more. Today i'm not fapping everyday. More like 5 times a month maybe. It depends. If i relapse i tend to binge..

That's already a lot better don't you think ? :)

Don't judge yourself for not being as much "thing" as "that person", everyone has different learning curve and things that makes it easier or harder.

The point is to continue to work towards it, and enjoying the process more than the goal, you'll get there eventually if you don't give up

;)

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Whoever lives in love lives in God

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i am struggling with that aspect of my life to...

I really want to improve myself so i know that sooner or later i have to give up fapping.

Thank you @Shin myfriend for posting!

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Ahhh.. It's this time in my streak again where all i can think about is lady parts 9_9

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Lady parts is the only thing that matters

After Enlightenment and Love of course B|


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I've been seeing a new girl for a month or so. i'm really into her, but have not been able to bust a nut during sex. 

I need to cut out deathgrip and masturbation, recover sensitivity, and re-tune into healthy sex, rather than relying on heavy fantasy.

i'm on day 5 of nofap, so early days.

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Yoo.. I'm seriously starting to think i've conditioned myself to feeling bad about being horny.

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14 minutes ago, Psyche_92 said:

Yoo.. I'm seriously starting to think i've conditioned myself to feeling bad about being horny.

Yeah drop that, that actually makes it harder.

You can be horny as hell and still be totally in control, without struggling or supressing anyting.


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14 minutes ago, Shin said:

Yeah drop that, that actually makes it harder.

You can be horny as hell and still be totally in control, without struggling or supressing anyting.

Yea probably going to meditate more on this later today. Just got that insight while meditating this morning. Kinda crazy that i've only just found out about it.

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