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NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

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On 24.12.2018 at 3:37 PM, Gladius said:

According to Tao, a man in his 20s should ejaculate only once in 4 days. A man in his 30s once in 8 days, and so on.

seem resonable to me, can I ask where you get that from ?

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What about super saiyen ? ?


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@bejapuskas It is painful. I think I'm one of the unlucky guys, you might not have this blue balls problem at all. The low libido problem happend quite early on, this might be because I have been under a lot of stress so again maybe you won't have the same downsides as I have.

When I had blue balls my girlfriend and I would have sex or she would help me, but today we broke up so until I touch a girl again I won't have any blue balls. I never had blue balls before I had a girlfriend.

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@Marinus  Oh I see, thanks man. :D (should I feel sorry? I kinda don't feel any emotion coming from you + your situation is kind of two faced xD)

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@bejapuskas It's not so great to have these problems. It makes my No-fap journey more difficult. There are only 2 things that cure my blue balls. Time or having an orgasm. 


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@Marinus  Oh I see, that sucks shit. Good luck, I hope it will make your practice more effective at least.

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Even a wet dream that wet all your pants still doesn't drain that much.

I only slept 3 hours this night and had a wet dream saturday night.

On a normal fap day I would be dead tired.


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Day 15 ? Feeling amazing. Also, when with a woman but not having sex, I can confirm the pain/blue balls thingy. Almost made me masturbate, but stayed strong and the next day it was gone. Happened to me several times already. I feel like it's boosting the energy level another notch so it has an upside.

Guys, I do have kind of my own opinions on this, but I would love to hear what you think. Of course I see the benefits of being completely unattached to lust, but is it really necessary to abstain from sex altogether? I don't (want to) think that removing yourself from your natural drives is the healthiest way to be unattached from them. Tao, Tantra and other spiritual traditions make sex even a way of spiritual growth and this seems much more mature and natural to me. 

I bet there are like two sides who will tell me the opposite. I personally want to live in the world, including sex, even if I have to learn by that that it actually did hold me back. Yeah, maybe not willing enough to sacrifice all, might be true. 

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Nonono, this is not about abstaining from sex, it's just about abstaining from loosing semen = energy.

You can ejaculate inside, it's not that difficult, just read and apply the exercices found in «The multi orgasmic man».

 

Maybe I should redone the post by explaining the difference between traditional Nofap and NoNut (=semen retention).

The difference is that in the rirst one you abstain from porn because it fucks up your psychee on different level,

In NoNut you preserve semen to be more productive and feel more energetic, but you can still have sex if you learn how to do it this way.

You guys would want that ?

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20 minutes ago, bejapuskas said:

@Shin Brilliant!

That's not an answer ?


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1 hour ago, Shin said:

Nonono, this is not about abstaining from sex, it's just about abstaining from loosing semen = energy.

You can ejaculate inside, it's not that difficult, just read and apply the exercices found in «The multi orgasmic man».

 

Maybe I should redone the post by explaining the difference between traditional Nofap and NoNut (=semen retention).

The difference is that in the rirst one you abstain from porn because it fucks up your psychee on different level,

In NoNut you preserve semen to be more productive and feel more energetic, but you can still have sex if you learn how to do it this way.

You guys would want that ?

Yes, I already read "Tao Yoga of Love", I'm aware of that and aspire to master this :)

I think I digressed from what this thread is about, I was just asking because I saw some mentions of abstaining from sex completely here and elsewhere more often and i was curious how you guys think about it. 

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5 minutes ago, bejapuskas said:

@Shin I want that, even though I'm probably not gonna have sex in the near future xD 

Oh yes,

You do,

???


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